{"id":7082,"date":"2017-10-19T08:46:54","date_gmt":"2017-10-19T08:46:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7082"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:08:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:08:13","slug":"acontece-deixar-uma-relacao-emocionalmente-abusiva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/acontece-deixar-uma-relacao-emocionalmente-abusiva\/","title":{"rendered":"Isto \u00e9 o que acontece quando se deixa uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o emocionalmente abusiva"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nunca ningu\u00e9m vos diz isto. Ningu\u00e9m o avisa. Todos t\u00eam algo a dizer quando estamos neste tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas todos se calam quando nos libertamos de uma. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that easy. One should expect happiness and joy. No one expects fear, confusion, and the inability to continue living your life\u2014to pick up where you left off before you met him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca ningu\u00e9m nos diz o quanto nos d\u00f3i. Nunca ningu\u00e9m nos diz o tempo que demora a sarar as feridas.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

When you meet someone new, you are afraid. You are scared to death that history will repeat itself. You try to humor him even though he doesn\u2019t want you to do that.<\/span><\/p>\n

You apologize for every little thing. You apologize for the things you\u2019re guilty and not guilty of. He doesn\u2019t want you to do that. <\/span><\/p>\n

No one ever tells you that you don\u2019t have to do it. No one ever tells you how hard is to snap out of what you\u2019ve been going through. No one ever tells you that it takes guts to heal completely.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ter\u00e1 de encontrar a for\u00e7a para se reerguer. Vais reviver os momentos horr\u00edveis em que ele te fez participar. Acordar\u00e1s a meio da noite e o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o bater\u00e1 com tanta for\u00e7a, como se quisesse libertar-se do teu peito. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s algu\u00e9m que te faz lembrar dele. Isso vai levar-te de volta. Ser\u00e1 t\u00e3o real, como se o pesadelo estivesse a acontecer de novo. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Sentir-se-\u00e1 destro\u00e7ado porque estar\u00e1 destro\u00e7ado. Chorar\u00e1s at\u00e9 aos olhos. Gritar\u00e1s de dor emocional. <\/span><\/p>\n

You will feel drained because you will be drained. He\u2019s the one who sucked the life out of you. You gave him all you had. And what did you get in return? Nothing except pain. And more pain.<\/span><\/p>\n

You will be negative because that\u2019s the only feeling you know. You forgot what it was like to be happy. It will be hard to get out of that vicious circle of negativity. You want to escape it, but you need it because you\u2019re used to it. It becomes like a drug to you. You keep craving for more.  <\/span><\/p>\n

You never knew what it was like to be loved. You never had that. You wouldn\u2019t recognize real love even if it hit you right in the face. You will doubt each and every person who comes near you and you will destroy their every attempt to flirt with you. You will do this out of fear. Out of fear of getting hurt.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ter\u00e1s de ser forte durante muito tempo. Ter\u00e1 de ser forte at\u00e9 apanhar os peda\u00e7os do que resta de si e voltar a junt\u00e1-los para continuar a construir a vers\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio que sempre quis ser.  <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

When you start a new relationship, you will feel lost. You won\u2019t be used to this new \u2018normal treatment\u2019. You won\u2019t be used to kind words and understanding. You won\u2019t be used to being treated with respect. Your voice will actually matter for the first time in a long time. <\/span><\/p>\n

It will take a while for you to relax and trust this person. But that won\u2019t matter as he will wait for you. He will give you space to heal. He will help you heal.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/strong>To Her Current Narcissistic Boyfriend \u2013 If I Were You I Would Never Hurt Her<\/a><\/p>\n

You will be waiting for the perfect storm. You will be waiting for him to lose it at anytime. You know your ex was nice and loving when he wanted to be\u2014when you didn\u2019t complain and did everything his way. You are scared this guy is the same. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas, sabes que mais? A tempestade perfeita nunca vai chegar. Ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 o mesmo.     <\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca ningu\u00e9m vos diz como \u00e9 lixado sobreviver a tudo isto. Nunca ningu\u00e9m te diz que esta \u00e9 a parte mais dif\u00edcil. Ningu\u00e9m te diz que a cura d\u00f3i; d\u00f3i como o inferno. <\/span><\/p>\n

There are so many things you won\u2019t be told. You\u2019ll have to fight for yourself. You\u2019ll have to put yourself first. You\u2019ll have to cry. You\u2019ll have to hurt.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas vai curar-se. Vais ficar melhor.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Isto<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

No one ever tells you this. No one warns you. They all have something to say while you\u2019re in this kind of a relationship, but they all keep quiet when you break free from one. It\u2019s not that easy. One should expect happiness and joy. No one expects fear, confusion, and the inability to continue…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":7100,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7082","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/morgan-sessions-6256.jpg",800,567,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7082","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7082"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7082\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7100"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7082"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7082"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7082"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}