{"id":71428,"date":"2020-05-13T15:49:05","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T15:49:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=71428"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:45:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:45:40","slug":"diferencas-entre-amor-verdadeiro-e-apego","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/diferencas-entre-amor-verdadeiro-e-apego\/","title":{"rendered":"7 grandes diferen\u00e7as entre o amor verdadeiro e o apego"},"content":{"rendered":"

Atualmente, quando se trata de relacionamentos, muitas pessoas confundem amor com estar ligado a outra pessoa. No entanto, a diferen\u00e7a entre os dois \u00e9 enorme.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 poss\u00edvel amar verdadeiramente algu\u00e9m sem estar ligado a essa pessoa. No entanto, por vezes, o amor pode <\/span>levar \u00e0 vincula\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/a> e esses sentimentos contradit\u00f3rios podem tornar-se muito confusos.<\/span><\/p>\n

First, you should know that true love will never make you feel anxious and depressed. That right kind of love \u2013 pure and true love \u2013 feels easy and it makes you feel good all the time.<\/b><\/p>\n

True love is hard to find, but once you do, you’ll never let it go.<\/b><\/p>\n

That’s why it’s so easy to mistake attachment for love. It also makes you feel good because your partner is fulfilling all your needs, but you’ll see that it’s not going to last.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, como podemos saber se sentimos amor verdadeiro ou se estamos apenas apegados ao nosso parceiro?<\/span><\/p>\n

1. O amor \u00e9 incondicional, o apego tem tudo a ver com condi\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Uma pessoa que nos ama de verdade amar-nos-\u00e1 sempre da mesma forma, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer. Nunca se vai embora, por mais dif\u00edcil que seja a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

True love is loving someone without expecting anything in return. It’s when you love someone without any limitations and boundaries.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you accept someone for who they are \u2013 even fall in love with their imperfections.<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, it’s the only way love should feel. While on the other hand, attachment is quite the opposite. You set many boundaries for your partner. You have conditions they need to follow.<\/span><\/p>\n

You start stalking them on social media because you don’t want them to communicate with other people and you start deciding they can and cannot hang out with.<\/span><\/p>\n

A vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o torna-se t\u00f3xica, com tantas fronteiras e limita\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. O amor \u00e9 altru\u00edsta, o apego \u00e9 ego\u00edsta<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

When you truly love someone, you’ll do whatever it takes to make that person happy, because <\/span>a sua felicidade \u00e9<\/span><\/a> mais importantes para si do que as suas pr\u00f3prias. As suas necessidades e o seu bem-estar tornam-se a sua principal prioridade.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you’re attached to someone, however, everything revolves around you. You become dependent on your partner. And you’re in the relationship just to meet your own needs.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Love helps you grow, attachment won’t encourage your personal development<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

When someone truly loves you, they’ll support you in everything you do. They’ll inspire you to follow your dreams. They’ll constantly make you work on yourself to become the best version of yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Being attached to someone makes you feel afraid of that person’s growth. You’re scared that it can make them rethink your relationship and that they might leave you.  <\/span><\/p>\n

4. O amor n\u00e3o tem fim, o apego \u00e9 tempor\u00e1rio<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

O verdadeiro amor \u00e9 eterno. A pessoa certa faz-nos sentir t\u00e3o bem e s\u00f3 conseguimos pensar em querer passar o resto da nossa vida com essa pessoa.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mesmo que briguem de vez em quando (o que \u00e9 perfeitamente normal), sabem que nada vos pode separar.<\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, when we get emotionally attached to someone, it happens too easily, and that’s why it can’t last. You become bored with that relationship, and the feeling of attachment can fade surprisingly fast.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. O amor faz de ti uma pessoa melhor, o apego torna-te superficial<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

When you’re in love, you become more understanding, gentle, and thoughtful. It’ll have a positive effect on your life.<\/b><\/p>\n

You’ll have a more optimistic perspective. It’ll also motivate and inspire you to work on yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n

On the flip side, you get attached to someone only because you see certain benefits from that relationship. It’s all about what your partner can do for you; you don’t care about their needs.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s shallow and it’s going to affect all your future relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. O amor aceita-te como \u00e9s, o apego tenta mudar-te<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Uma pessoa que o ame verdadeiramente am\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 tal como \u00e9. Aceitar\u00e1 todas as tuas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es e amar-te-\u00e1 ainda mais. Nunca tentar\u00e1 mudar nenhuma parte de si.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you’re emotionally attached to someone, you’ll try to change all the parts of them that you don’t like. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll try to change them in a way that will make you happy, because in the end, you being happy is all that matters.   <\/span><\/p>\n

7. O amor \u00e9 fazer compromissos, o apego \u00e9 p\u00f4r sempre as suas necessidades em primeiro lugar<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

When you fall in love with someone, you learn to make compromises. It’s the foundation of every healthy relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

You want to make your partner happy and that means that you’ll have to swallow your pride sometimes and put your partner\u2019s needs ahead of your own. <\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you’re merely attached to someone, <\/span>quer controlar<\/span><\/a> that person and that’s why you’re never prepared to find the middle ground on anything.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estar agarrado a algu\u00e9m pode preencher o vazio na nossa vida, mas nunca nos pode fazer verdadeiramente felizes.  <\/b><\/p>\n

Mas o amor \u00e9 a emo\u00e7\u00e3o mais especial e poderosa que torna a sua vida melhor em todos os sentidos poss\u00edveis.<\/b><\/p>\n

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When it comes to relationships today, many people confuse love with being attached to another person. Although, the difference between those two is huge. You can truly love someone without being attached to that person. However, sometimes love can lead to attachment and those mixed feelings can become so confusing. First, you should know that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":71429,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-71428","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/7-Major-Differences-Between-True-Love-And-Attachment.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71428","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=71428"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71428\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/71429"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=71428"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=71428"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=71428"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}