{"id":71557,"date":"2020-05-19T12:40:25","date_gmt":"2020-05-19T12:40:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=71557"},"modified":"2022-08-25T12:07:41","modified_gmt":"2022-08-25T12:07:41","slug":"a-minha-mulher-quer-o-divorcio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-minha-mulher-quer-o-divorcio\/","title":{"rendered":"A minha mulher quer divorciar-se: Eis o que fazer (e 8 coisas a evitar)"},"content":{"rendered":"

“I remember her complaining before about some things that made her unhappy, but now my wife wants a divorce!<\/em><\/p>\n

Never did I think that it would come to this, and now that it has, I have no idea what to do or what to say to her.”<\/em><\/p>\n

If these or similar thoughts are running through your head at the moment, don’t worry \u2013 you’re not alone.<\/p>\n

Os problemas matrimoniais s\u00e3o frequentemente ignorados pelos c\u00f4njuges e casamento desfeito<\/a> doesn’t become broken overnight.<\/p>\n

\"Alian\u00e7as<\/p>\n

The fact that you\u2019ve decided to seek virtual assistance speaks volumes about your determination and will to understand why she wants a divorce and what you can do (or avoid doing) to get your wife back.<\/p>\n

Assinar os pap\u00e9is do div\u00f3rcio \u00e9 f\u00e1cil, mas lutar para salvar um casamento \u00e9 algo que s\u00f3 um homem a s\u00e9rio faz (assumindo que ainda gosta dela).<\/p>\n

Como sempre, antes de chegar ao ponto fulcral e construir uma estrat\u00e9gia, a primeira coisa a fazer \u00e9 perceber porque \u00e9 que tudo isto est\u00e1 a acontecer, porque um problema definido \u00e9 um problema reduzido a metade!<\/p>\n

Compreender porque \u00e9 que a sua mulher quer o div\u00f3rcio<\/h2>\n

H\u00e1 muitas raz\u00f5es poss\u00edveis para que, ap\u00f3s alguns anos de casamento, um c\u00f4njuge comece a pensar em divorciar-se.<\/p>\n

Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o outrora amorosa transforma-se num pesadelo do qual se quer acordar se o processo de div\u00f3rcio ou o acordo de cust\u00f3dia n\u00e3o for uma op\u00e7\u00e3o para si.<\/p>\n

Eis as raz\u00f5es mais poss\u00edveis (e comuns) pelas quais a sua mulher pode querer o div\u00f3rcio:<\/p>\n

1. Aborrecimento<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

O t\u00e9dio \u00e9 o inimigo n\u00famero um quando se trata de qualquer tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o. O processo de aborrecimento \u00e9 mais ou menos assim:<\/p>\n

O ponto alto do vosso dia\/semana \u00e9 relaxar no sof\u00e1 a ver Netflix, e a \u00fanica vez que se surpreendem um ao outro \u00e9 quando acidentalmente deixam a loi\u00e7a quando \u00e9 a vossa vez de a lavar.<\/p>\n

You can’t remember the last time you did something fun together and you no longer pay attention to the little things that matter (hugging, kissing goodbye, etc.).<\/p>\n

And that is when a woman (or both spouses) starts feeling like something is missing, like something is utterly wrong because she\u2019s no longer excited about being married.<\/p>\n

Their exciting marriage has fallen into a rut and they\u2019re no longer happy.<\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 especialmente verdadeiro para as mulheres. \u00c9 preciso pensar na sua mulher como uma flor.<\/p>\n

Para que ela flores\u00e7a e seja feliz, precisa de lhe dar muito amor, afeto e aten\u00e7\u00e3o, e precisa de continuar a persegui-la.<\/p>\n

Otherwise, she’ll get bored and she will start thinking about finding those things somewhere else, which is the main reason why she might suggest getting a divorce.<\/p>\n

2. Influ\u00eancia externa negativa<\/h2>\n

\"Muro<\/p>\n

Em todos os casamentos, h\u00e1 dois tipos de press\u00e3o: interna e externa.<\/p>\n

Internal is about what is happening between the two of you in your marriage, whereas external denotes everything that’s happening outside your marriage (which you cannot influence).<\/p>\n

For example, a negative external influence would be your spouse’s family member, a friend, or someone close who is not fond of you.<\/p>\n

The truth is, we cannot get everyone to like us and there will always be people who will think that we’re not the right choice for their sister, brother, or friend.<\/p>\n

Perhaps that’s exactly what’s happening with you at the moment.<\/p>\n

If you know that there is someone (or a few of) who doesn’t really like you, chances are they will pressure her to file for divorce.<\/p>\n

E h\u00e1 duas raz\u00f5es para isso:<\/p>\n

\u2022 They think you’re incapable of making her happy and that you’re not good for her<\/p>\n

\u2022 They want to make you feel bad (because they don’t like you)<\/p>\n

Usually, it’s a mix of the two, so they become determined to do anything in their power to convince her that getting a divorce is the right decision.<\/p>\n

They convince her that they’re worried about her well-being and so on.<\/p>\n

It’s hard to fight against an external influence, but if you’re determined to get her back, you will have to convince her (and not them) that getting a divorce is not the right decision.<\/p>\n

Relacionadas: A minha mulher ama-me mas n\u00e3o me deseja: 8 raz\u00f5es para isso e o que fazer<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

3. Desilus\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Outra raz\u00e3o comum para a sua mulher querer o div\u00f3rcio \u00e9 o facto de estar sentir-se desiludido<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Now, disappointment is often connected with the things you haven’t done that you thought that you would, or with something that you promised her but failed to deliver.<\/p>\n

A desilus\u00e3o \u00e9 uma emo\u00e7\u00e3o forte que pode mudar toda a nossa perspetiva sobre algu\u00e9m que outrora am\u00e1mos e em quem acredit\u00e1mos.<\/p>\n

So, it’s time to start reminiscing about your marriage and search for any clue of you making promises and disappointing her.<\/p>\n

Did you promise her that you would start working on your bad habits, but you didn’t?<\/em><\/p>\n

Did you tell her that you would spend more of your free time with her, but you didn’t?<\/em><\/p>\n

Did you promise her that you would help her out with all those household chores, but you didn’t?<\/em><\/p>\n

Como mulher, posso dizer-vos uma coisa: Quando prometeres algo a uma mulher, ela vai lembrar-se disso<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

She will hope that you haven’t forgotten what you said to her and she will wait, until she reaches the point where she won’t wait anymore.<\/p>\n

Perhaps your wife has reached that point, so it’s time to ask yourself whether you\u2019ve disappointed her one way or another, because if you have, you will have to redeem yourself (if you don’t want to lose her).<\/p>\n

4. Infidelidade<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

A infidelidade \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, um dos mais poderosos destruidores de um casamento.<\/p>\n

It destroys trust, the connection between spouses, and everything they’ve built so far.<\/p>\n

Se foi infiel consigo, ent\u00e3o provavelmente j\u00e1 sabe a raz\u00e3o pela qual a sua mulher quer o div\u00f3rcio.<\/p>\n

Even if you’ve done it on impulse and you regret doing it, it still cannot be justified.<\/p>\n

Dealing with the consequences of infidelity can turn into a painful, long process, but it’s inevitable if you want to get her back.<\/p>\n

You need to convince her that you feel terrible for what you’ve done, you need to apologize from the heart, and promise to her that you will give your best to be a better man.<\/p>\n

Ter\u00e1 de repetir tudo isto algumas vezes se quiser que ela volte a pensar em confiar em si.<\/p>\n

More importantly, you need to show her that she can trust you and that you won’t hurt her again.<\/p>\n

If it is her who has been unfaithful, and you suspect that she wants a divorce because she’s in love with another man, there’s not much you can do about it.<\/p>\n

You can be the best version of yourself and if she still doesn’t see it, then you probably shouldn’t bother fighting to save your marriage.
\nS\u00e3o precisos dois para dan\u00e7ar o tango, lembras-te? Tamb\u00e9m s\u00e3o precisos dois para salvar um casamento.<\/p>\n

5. “Lack of love”<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

O vosso primeiro encontro foi emocionante, a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o foi gratificante e desfrutaram de todos os momentos do vosso casamento.<\/p>\n

Era evidente para todos \u00e0 vossa volta que estavam loucamente apaixonados um pelo outro.<\/p>\n

It’s just that romantic energy that you ooze and it is seen in your every word and action.<\/p>\n

E depois, chega uma altura em que tudo isto muda subitamente ou desaparece no ar.<\/p>\n

She’s acting weird half of the time, you no longer show affection to each other, you don’t say nice things to each other, and you no longer ooze that same romantic energy as before.<\/p>\n

A primeira coisa que nos vem \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a \u00e9: She doesn’t love me anymore. Yup.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

The reason why my wife wants a divorce is because she doesn’t love me anymore.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Or perhaps you don’t love her either? Or you think that the real reason for your broken marriage is the lack of love, when it is actually a lack of something else which, whendiscovered, would change the whole situation between the two of you.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you need some time and space for yourself to refresh, contemplate your marriage, and start working on finding a solution for the state you’re in.<\/p>\n

As you can see, I put the term “Lack of love” in quotations for a reason because this might be true, but it doesn’t necessarily have to be.<\/p>\n

O aconselhamento matrimonial \u00e9 um \u00f3timo ponto de partida para o ajudar a perceber se a falta de amor \u00e9 um problema real no seu casamento ou se \u00e9 outra coisa.<\/p>\n

Ela acredita que a felicidade est\u00e1 longe de si neste momento!<\/p>\n

All the above reasons about why your wife might want a divorce can be summarized into one \u2013 and that is her believing that happiness is far away from you at the moment.<\/p>\n

Seja qual for o motivo que a leva a querer o div\u00f3rcio, o contexto e o efeito secund\u00e1rio desse motivo s\u00e3o sentir-se infeliz<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It’s the emotion or lack of emotion that puts us into a state where we no longer feel wanted, loved, or taken care of.<\/p>\n

And that’s when we convince ourselves that nothing will ever be the same, and that no matter what you do or say, you will always feel miserable and your marriage is doomed.<\/p>\n

When we lose hope, we start doing things we normally wouldn’t.<\/p>\n

Come\u00e7amos a pensar que terminar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o ou divorciarmo-nos \u00e9 a \u00fanica sa\u00edda e a \u00fanica solu\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Well, sometimes it is, but sometimes it isn’t. If two people still care about each other, respect each other, and are willing to work on their marriage, then anything is possible.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso lembrar-lhe que a felicidade n\u00e3o est\u00e1 longe de si, mas que ainda est\u00e1 aqui e que a \u00fanica maneira de a ativar \u00e9 fazendo um esfor\u00e7o e tendo vontade de melhorar as coisas!<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Como consertar um casamento desfeito: Um plano de resgate em 15 passos<\/a><\/p>\n

“My Wife Wants A Divorce, How Can I Get Her Back?”<\/h2>\n

\"M\u00e3os<\/p>\n

Now that we’re done with all the possible reasons why your wife might want a divorce, it’s time to see what you can do to change her mind and get her back.<\/p>\n

Lembre-se que este \u00e9 um processo que requer paci\u00eancia e determina\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Os resultados podem n\u00e3o ser vis\u00edveis de imediato, mas se fizer tudo corretamente, obter\u00e1 o melhor resultado poss\u00edvel (ou aquele que est\u00e1 destinado a acontecer):<\/p>\n

1. Ou\u00e7a-a e avalie o seu casamento<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

O erro n\u00famero um que todos os c\u00f4njuges que est\u00e3o a tentar recuperar a sua mulher\/marido cometem \u00e9 pensar que falar os ajudar\u00e1 a resolver tudo.<\/p>\n

Embora falar seja \u00fatil, ouvir \u00e9 ainda melhor.<\/p>\n

Instead of forcing your own agenda and trying to prove that she’s wrong, listen to her.<\/p>\n

Porque se a ouvir, ficar\u00e1 a saber muito sobre a verdadeira raz\u00e3o pela qual ela quer o div\u00f3rcio.<\/p>\n

Precisa de abrir todos os seus sentidos e desligar o seu modo de julgamento.<\/p>\n

When she tells you everything that’s on her mind and how she feels about your marriage, put yourself in her shoes and try to see things from a different perspective.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, when we’re solely occupied with our own thinking, we forget to see and feel what the other person is going through.<\/p>\n

If you don’t listen to her, you won’t know what needs to be changed or fixed.<\/p>\n

You need to acknowledge your mistakes (if there are any) and promise that you’ll start working on them.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 necess\u00e1rio avaliar o seu casamento e concentrar-se em todos os aspectos do mesmo para o poder salvar.<\/p>\n

Por isso, em vez de apenas falar, tente ouvir e contemplar.<\/p>\n

2. Pedir desculpa (se necess\u00e1rio) e trabalhar em si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

If you’ve done something bad or if you\u2019ve neglected her, acknowledge it and apologize for it.<\/p>\n

Prometa-lhe, e mais importante ainda, prometa a si pr\u00f3prio que vai come\u00e7ar a trabalhar para se tornar a melhor vers\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Isto inclui ambos os aspectos de si (interno e externo; tanto a sua mente como a sua apar\u00eancia).<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a mudan\u00e7as positivas dentro de si e \u00e0 sua volta, leia artigos\/livros de autoajuda e procure ajuda e aconselhamento profissional, se necess\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n

Lembre-se que a verdadeira mudan\u00e7a vem de dentro, por isso, se quer o seu c\u00f4njuge de volta, tem de come\u00e7ar a trabalhar em si pr\u00f3prio. <\/strong><\/p>\n

A happy marriage is not only about effort, sacrifice, and compromise, it’s also about constantly evolving.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Se ficarmos estagnados, atra\u00edmos coisas negativas e o nosso casamento tamb\u00e9m fica estagnado. Torna-se quebrado.<\/p>\n

So, it’s time to wake up and see how you can improve yourself. It’s time to become active!<\/p>\n

If you want to save your marriage and prove to your spouse that you’re o mesmo homem por quem se apaixonou em tempos<\/a>, tens de mostrar que te preocupas.<\/p>\n

E a maneira mais f\u00e1cil de mostrar que se preocupa \u00e9 fazer um esfor\u00e7o para melhorar as coisas e investir no seu casamento.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 muitas coisas que podem ser investidas no vosso casamento e a mais importante \u00e9 o tempo.<\/p>\n

Investir tempo significa estar presente e estar disposto a assumir o papel de marido que ela merece!<\/p>\n

3. Dar-lhe algum espa\u00e7o<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 uma das coisas mais importantes que muitos c\u00f4njuges esquecem frequentemente.<\/p>\n

Yes, your wife wants a divorce because that’s what she\u2019s told you, but she didn’t tell you that she also wants some space.<\/p>\n

When she mentioned the word divorce, you probably froze instantly and you couldn’t think of anything else but asking her one too many questions. You couldn’t help but feel disappointed, mad, and helpless.<\/p>\n

When you feel that way, you’re at higher risk of doing something stupid and accelerating the whole divorce process.<\/p>\n

So, the wisest thing to do in such a situation is to give her some space to think because that’s exactly what she needs at the moment.<\/p>\n

If you force her, nag her, or beg her, you will make things even worse, and you don’t want that, right?<\/p>\n

So, control yourself, and by giving her some space and time show her that you’re a mature man who respects her.<\/p>\n

That’s exactly what she wants and needs! And if you want to get her back, you have to give her what she wants and needs.<\/p>\n

You have to show her that you’re compassionate and that you understand her.<\/p>\n

4. Continuar a viver<\/h2>\n

\"mensagem<\/p>\n

Como j\u00e1 foi referido, no momento em que se apercebe da dura verdade de que a sua mulher quer o div\u00f3rcio<\/em>, your life probably feels like it has stopped and you can’t come to your senses.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que se pode pensar \u00e9: O que \u00e9 que eu fiz de errado? Pensei que \u00e9ramos felizes (pelo menos esperava que f\u00f4ssemos)? <\/em><\/p>\n

How can I make things right? I hope she’s not serious about all this divorce stuff because I definitely wouldn’t survive that.<\/em><\/p>\n

Now, if you want your wife back, you have to get rid of this negative mindset and continue living! If you’re constantly acting or feeling like a dead man, your wife will be even more determined to end things with you.<\/p>\n

Quero dizer, quem \u00e9 que quer estar com um homem assim?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nothing personal, but I certainly wouldn’t (and I doubt that any woman would).<\/p>\n

You have to show her that you’re stable, that you understand what’s going on, that you accept it, and that you’re ready to start working and making things right.<\/p>\n

Anything else would make you look like a cry baby and that’s the last thing you want.<\/p>\n

Conseguir\u00e1 reconquistar a sua mulher quando ela vir que \u00e9 um homem poderoso e determinado, por isso, certifique-se de que age como tal.<\/p>\n

5. Ser o homem por quem ela se apaixonou em tempos<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Think about the first time you saw her, went on a date with her, made love with her… Think about how you felt about her and your relationship back then.<\/p>\n

Pense na forma como a tratou, como se esfor\u00e7ou para a fazer sentir especial, etc.<\/p>\n

Quando pensa em tudo isso, o que \u00e9 que v\u00ea? V\u00ea a sua mulher a sorrir e a transbordar de felicidade? Aposto que sim.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 que muitos homens deixam de perseguir as suas mulheres depois de darem o n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

They start acting like they\u2019ve finally won her and now all they have to do is enjoy the prize and boast about it.<\/p>\n

Esquecem-se de que t\u00eam de continuar a persegui-la<\/a>Se a sua m\u00e3e n\u00e3o se importa de a fazer sentir especial, continue a dar-lhe gestos rom\u00e2nticos.<\/p>\n

Because if they don’t, they will most surely lose her. She will start feeling neglected and she will know that they’re not the same man she once fell in love with.<\/p>\n

So, be that man! Be the man she once fell in love with. Continue pursuing her like you did when you\u2019d just met her and that’s the only way you’ll win her and keep her.<\/p>\n

6. Comunicar, mas NUNCA discutir<\/h2>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

Many people don’t differentiate these two concepts because there’s a thin line between communicating and arguing.<\/p>\n

It’s really easy to switch modes without even being aware of it.<\/p>\n

I know I said that you should give her some space, but this doesn’t mean cutting all contact with her.<\/p>\n

You shouldn’t completely ignore her existence or avoid communication.<\/p>\n

When you feel that the time is right, initiate a conversation, but only if you see that she’s not mad or stressed out.<\/p>\n

Ask her about how she feels about the whole thing, ask her what she would change in your marriage, and let her know that you’re willing to cooperate.<\/p>\n

Comunique e ou\u00e7a-a, mas nunca discuta. Coloquei a palavra discutir em negrito por uma raz\u00e3o e a raz\u00e3o \u00e9 que discutir torna as coisas ainda piores.<\/p>\n

Arguing is an immature way of dealing with a problem, and you’re not an immature man.<\/p>\n

You’re a mature, grown ass man who is ready to listen to her, find a solution, and start working on making things better.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you’re kind of sceptical about it, then repeat the previous sentence in the first-person until it kicks in and you start believing it.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 5 maneiras eficazes de devolver a velha fa\u00edsca ao seu casamento<\/a><\/p>\n

Coisas que nunca deves fazer se quiseres a tua mulher de volta<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Para o ajudar a evitar cometer erros ou piorar ainda mais as coisas, eis uma lista de coisas que nunca deve fazer se quiser a sua mulher de volta (n\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de a memorizar bem):<\/p>\n

1. Implorar, chatear ou pressionar<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

As I\u2019ve already mentioned, you should avoid any behaviour or communication that includes elements of begging, nagging, or pressuring her.<\/p>\n

Se lhe implorar, chatear ou pressionar para que fique, ela ficar\u00e1 ainda mais determinada a ir-se embora.<\/p>\n

It’s how human beings operate. If someone gives us an ultimatum or begs us to do something, we immediately start feeling threatened and we become protective of our freedom.<\/p>\n

A comunica\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel e a compreens\u00e3o s\u00e3o o caminho a seguir!<\/p>\n

2. Agir como necessitado<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Se me perguntarem, agir de forma carente \u00e9 ainda pior do que pedir ou chatear.<\/p>\n

Agir de forma carente inclui agir como um cachorrinho triste ou at\u00e9 chorar \u00e0 frente dela para a fazer sentir-se mal com tudo isto.<\/p>\n

It’s like begging for compassion, which is really a cheap strategy when it comes to getting someone back.<\/p>\n

Os homens imaturos agem como necessitados, mas os homens maduros t\u00eam respeito por si pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

3. Idealizar-se a si pr\u00f3prio ou ao seu casamento<\/h2>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

Idealizing means listing all the positive things about you or your marriage to convince her that she’s making a mistake.<\/p>\n

It’s important to understand that a perfect person or a perfect marriage doesn’t exist, so listing only the coisas positivas<\/a> n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma coisa leg\u00edtima a fazer.<\/p>\n

It’s always better to acknowledge both positive and negative sides and then start working on improving them.<\/p>\n

4. Envolver a sua fam\u00edlia, amigos ou outras pessoas<\/h2>\n

\"Sogra<\/p>\n

And, please, don’t use your family or friends as middlemen to encourage your spouse to stay with you.<\/p>\n

Don’t go to your mother-in-law, or to a mutual friend and ask them to convince your wife that she is making a mistake.<\/p>\n

This is a matter for you and her (it’s your marriage) and you shouldn’t involve other people.<\/p>\n

(And if your wife finds out what you did, she definitely won\u2019t be happy.)<\/p>\n

5. A rastejar sobre ela<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

When you start overthinking something, there’s a high chance you’ll come to false conclusions.<\/p>\n

You might start thinking that she’s doing something behind your back and that’s the reason why she wants a divorce.<\/p>\n

You might start creeping on her and following her every move thinking you’ll catch her in the act of doing something sinful, but the chances are that you won’t.<\/p>\n

So, whatever you do, don’t creep on her and don’t play detective.<\/p>\n

Otherwise, she’ll most probably notice it and get annoyed.<\/p>\n

6. Dar-lhe prendas caras<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Showering your wife with expensive gifts will not get your wife back (unless she’s a gold digger).<\/p>\n

Brincadeiras \u00e0 parte, agora n\u00e3o \u00e9 altura de desperdi\u00e7ar o seu dinheiro em presentes, mas sim de investir em si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

A melhor prenda para ela seria tu trabalhares em ti e n\u00e3o um rel\u00f3gio caro ou outra coisa qualquer.<\/p>\n

Things are just things. They don’t have the capacity to compensate for what’s lacking in your marriage.<\/p>\n

7. Manipulando-a<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Telling your wife that you’ll do something terrible if she leaves you is one of the most annoying and horrible things you could do.<\/p>\n

Manipular algu\u00e9m para ficar consigo \u00e9 a coisa mais baixa que se pode fazer.<\/p>\n

So, don’t do it. No matter how desperate you are, don’t play tricks on her and don’t play with her.<\/p>\n

Again, show her that you’re a real man, and not a boy.<\/p>\n

8. A loucura<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

I understand that going wild sometimes will seem like the only reasonable thing to do, but trust me, it’s not.<\/p>\n

Even if she takes off her wedding ring, don’t go wild. Just because she\u2019s taken it off for the time being, it doesn’t mean she cannot put it back on.<\/p>\n

Think rationally and don’t let your negative emotions imprison you!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Show understanding, keep working on yourself, and don’t push her.<\/p>\n

Do your best and hope for the best. And remember that she has to change her mind by herself. Manipulating her or nagging won’t help.<\/p>\n

When you know you\u2019ve done your best, there’s nothing you should feel bad about.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, things work out and sometimes they don’t. In case they don’t, no fault divorce is the best option. Good luck!<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 15 homens revelam o momento exato em que souberam que o div\u00f3rcio era a sua \u00fanica op\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a><\/p>\n

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