{"id":7186,"date":"2017-10-20T09:53:26","date_gmt":"2017-10-20T09:53:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7186"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:06:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:06:42","slug":"o-gajo-nao-ensinou-o-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-gajo-nao-ensinou-o-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"Para o homem que me ensinou o que n\u00e3o \u00e9 o amor"},"content":{"rendered":"

Durante dias, reflecti na minha mente, \u00e0 procura de uma raz\u00e3o para teres escolhido n\u00e3o<\/em> para me amar.<\/p>\n

Meses de ressentimento, amargura e raiva corroeram o meu esp\u00edrito gentil. Tantas perguntas sem resposta mantiveram-me acordada todos<\/strong><\/em> noite.<\/p>\n

My pillow soaked with tears, my heart absolutely broken. Anxiety crept in like a thief in the middle of the night, ready to take all that I felt was left of me. I couldn’t keep carrying this unnecessary baggage.<\/p>\n

These feelings weren\u2019t right. It didn\u2019t have to be this way. I didn\u2019t have to be like this, controlled by my thoughts.<\/p>\n

You see, it wasn’t until I finally realized that what I had let consume my mind would always seize to control my life, that I then understood I could set my own self free.<\/p>\n

Livre das mentiras que me prenderam durante tanto tempo. Livre das mem\u00f3rias dolorosas que estavam entranhadas em mim.<\/p>\n

Livre da \u00e2nsia de aceita\u00e7\u00e3o. Podia agora libertar-me dessa bagagem, e ela deixaria de ter a capacidade de ditar o meu dia, o meu futuro, a minha vida.<\/p>\n

Libertar-me foi escolher-me a mim pr\u00f3prio. Por isso, escolho pegar nestas circunst\u00e2ncias infelizes e deixar que elas me construam em vez de me destru\u00edrem.<\/p>\n

Eu escolho gozar a vida<\/a> e ver o meu valor. Escolho amar-me a mim pr\u00f3pria, respeitar os meus valores e estabelecer os meus pr\u00f3prios padr\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

You walking out of my life was the best thing that could have happened to me at the time. It gave me a chance of a fresh start and it helped me realize that I didn\u2019t need what I had thought for so long that I had wanted.<\/p>\n

I was good enough for me and in all honesty\u2026 too good for you.<\/p>\n

Yet, in the midst of all this\u2026 I forgive you. Not because you deserve it but because Eu mere\u00e7o a paz<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n

I deserve to move on with my life, wholeheartedly accepting my mistakes. No – forgiveness does not excuse your behavior, but it allows me to curar-me do meu passado.<\/a><\/p>\n

If it wasn\u2019t for your pride and how you treated me, I may never have realized just how much worthier of love I was.<\/p>\n

Yes, I should have never caved into my own insecurities but you didn’t have to manipulate me, either. You did effortlessly anyway and that’s okay.<\/p>\n

Por isso, com toda a sinceridade, agrade\u00e7o-vos por terem trazido tudo isto \u00e0 luz do dia. Por me teres aberto os olhos para a verdade, mesmo que fosse dif\u00edcil de aceitar. Nunca mais me vou deixar cegar pelo amor, por causa destas li\u00e7\u00f5es que aprendi com a minha dor.<\/p>\n

From the bottom of a heart that’s mending itself.
\nObrigado.<\/p>\n

by\u00a0A.L.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

For days, I pondered my mind, searching for a reason why you chose not to love me. Months of resentment, bitterness, and anger ate away at my gentle spirit. So many unanswered questions kept me up all night. My pillow soaked with tears, my heart absolutely broken. Anxiety crept in like a thief in the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":7193,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7186","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/StockSnap_4H1TFK1L0I.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7186","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7186"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7186\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7193"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7186"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7186"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7186"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}