{"id":72035,"date":"2020-05-20T11:09:42","date_gmt":"2020-05-20T11:09:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=72035"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:32:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:32:21","slug":"a-tua-partida-foi-a-melhor-coisa-que-me-aconteceu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-tua-partida-foi-a-melhor-coisa-que-me-aconteceu\/","title":{"rendered":"Finalmente percebo que a tua partida foi a melhor coisa que me aconteceu"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fiquei devastada quando me deixaste. Esse dia ficar\u00e1 gravado na minha mem\u00f3ria para sempre. <\/span><\/p>\n

I remember my friend telling me that your leaving was the best thing that could\u2019ve happened to me. Her words pierced through my heart.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que ela podia dizer aquilo, mesmo que fosse para me confortar? Ela sabia o que significavas para mim e o quanto eu te amava.<\/span><\/p>\n

Amei mesmo. Eu amava-te mais do que qualquer outra pessoa, mais do que qualquer outra coisa neste mundo. Na verdade, eras o meu mundo inteiro. <\/span><\/p>\n

I think I loved you from the very first day we met, even though I didn\u2019t want to admit it to myself.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Nunca imaginei que um amor como esse pudesse acontecer comigo. Apaixonei-me por ti de forma t\u00e3o cega e louca. Na verdade, tu fizeste-me apaixonar por ti t\u00e3o profundamente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Com esse teu sorriso est\u00fapido, fizeste com que me apaixonasse por ti \u00e0 primeira vista.<\/span><\/p>\n

Oh meu Deus, fui t\u00e3o tola e ing\u00e9nua. Nunca serei capaz de me perdoar por te ter deixado entrar na minha vida. Sinto-me como se o meu <\/b>o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido foi culpa minha<\/b><\/a>. <\/b><\/p>\n

Many people tried to warn me that you weren’t being sincere with me. They tried to tell me that you\u2019d only hurt me. But I never doubted your love. I always trusted you and your feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n

Why did I do that? I thought that they were just being jealous. That they didn\u2019t want me happy.<\/b><\/p>\n

Por isso, optei por n\u00e3o falar mais com eles. Pensei que eles queriam separar-nos e apaguei-os da minha vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

I thought that we had something real and sincere and that’s why it was so easy for me to fight for that love. I was convinced that you were my soulmate and that we\u2019d be together forever.<\/span><\/p>\n

Forever. One small word but it means so much. Well, for some people it does. You should look for its meaning in a dictionary because obviously, you don’t know it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Forever doesn’t mean until someone better comes along. It means being there for someone for the rest of time. Being with someone until death do you part.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

O meu erro foi <\/span>acreditando que me amavas<\/span><\/a> e apaixonar-me assim tanto por ti. O meu erro foi fazer de ti uma prioridade quando eu fui sempre a tua \u00faltima escolha. <\/span><\/p>\n

O meu maior erro foi ter cortado da minha vida as pessoas que s\u00f3 se preocupavam comigo e me queriam ajudar. E foi tudo por tua causa. Perdoarmo-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios \u00e9 verdadeiramente o tipo de perd\u00e3o mais dif\u00edcil.<\/span><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a ver? Era tudo sobre ti. Tu, tu, tu. Eras a \u00fanica pessoa que era importante para mim. Eras o meu tudo.<\/b><\/p>\n

When you came back to ask for a second chance, because you obviously understood what you\u2019d lost, you said that you loved me and that I was important to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

I’m sorry but it’s impossible for me to trust you when you never proved it.<\/span><\/p>\n

In the past, I trusted your words but now I realize that words without actions are meaningless. Oh and about that second chance… You don’t deserve it and you will never get it from me.<\/b><\/p>\n

After all this time, I’ve finally understood what my friend meant when she said that your leaving was the best thing that could happen to me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Apercebi-me de que, na verdade, me fez um <\/span>favor, deixando-me<\/span> <\/a>e que devo agradecer-vos por isso.<\/span><\/p>\n

I loved you too much and I would never be able to leave you, even though deep down, I knew that I should. However, you ended things for both of us and I’m glad it’s all over. <\/span><\/p>\n

You asked me if I hated you. No. I don’t hate you and I never will. One day, you’ll realize that I’m the one who was always there for you but it’s always going to be too late for us now. I hope you’ll be able to forgive yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

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