{"id":7204,"date":"2020-07-20T11:36:29","date_gmt":"2020-07-20T11:36:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7204"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:10:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:10:37","slug":"a-melhor-vinganca-simplesmente-feliz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-melhor-vinganca-simplesmente-feliz\/","title":{"rendered":"A melhor vingan\u00e7a \u00e9 simplesmente ser feliz"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Um sorriso no rosto e felicidade na alma \u00e9 o <a href=\"http:\/\/www.yourtango.com\/2016288905\/best-revenge-you-can-get-be-happy\" rel=\"noopener\">a melhor vingan\u00e7a<\/a> you can ever have. Trust me. It might take some time to realize it but it doesn&#8217;t make it any less true.<\/p>\n<p>The best revenge is not putting your emotions out in the open. Don&#8217;t give them the satisfaction of seeing how much they hurt you.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t fall into a trap of feeling sorry for yourself &#8211; that won&#8217;t bring you anything good. Take control over your anger and pain and don&#8217;t fly off the handle.<\/p>\n<p><b>A derradeira vingan\u00e7a \u00e9 quando deixamos de sentir a necessidade de nos vingarmos. <\/b> A vingan\u00e7a s\u00f3 o tornar\u00e1 amargo e deprimido.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 felicidade em vingar-se de algu\u00e9m. Isso s\u00f3 piora as coisas mais do que elas t\u00eam de ser. Isso ret\u00e9m-nos em vez de nos deixar progredir e recuperar de toda a dor que estamos a guardar.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c9 preciso saber que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 solu\u00e7\u00f5es f\u00e1ceis. Encontrar uma pessoa nova s\u00f3 para se vingar dela nunca \u00e9 uma boa ideia.<\/b> It\u2019s mainly not fair to the other person involved and it&#8217;s not fair to you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110042\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada numa varanda\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It only seems fake and like you are going out of your way to prove to them that you can be with someone else. You shouldn&#8217;t have a need to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.marcandangel.com\/2013\/11\/24\/7-reasons-to-stop-proving-yourself-to-everyone-else\/\" rel=\"noopener\">provar nada a ningu\u00e9m, exceto a si pr\u00f3prio. <\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>The only one you should concentrate on is &#8216;you&#8217;. Mend your heart. Invest in yourself. Make yourself proud. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>You are the one who is important. The ones who hurt you are irrelevant. That&#8217;s just the way things are supposed to be &#8211; you first and them nonexistent.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Holding on to revenge does more harm than benefit. Your will for revenge gives them a power over you which they shouldn&#8217;t have.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, it&#8217;s all about you and not them. Look at your life from another perspective, see how your life can be better without them in it. Find your inner peace.<\/p>\n<p>Siga as suas paix\u00f5es. Deixa que os teus sonhos se tornem realidade. Trabalhe em si para si pr\u00f3prio. S\u00ea simplesmente feliz. Isso vai deix\u00e1-los loucos.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110044\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/beautiful-woman-with-sunglasses-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita com \u00f3culos de sol a sorrir\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/beautiful-woman-with-sunglasses-smiling.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/beautiful-woman-with-sunglasses-smiling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/beautiful-woman-with-sunglasses-smiling-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/beautiful-woman-with-sunglasses-smiling-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/beautiful-woman-with-sunglasses-smiling-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/beautiful-woman-with-sunglasses-smiling-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/beautiful-woman-with-sunglasses-smiling-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/beautiful-woman-with-sunglasses-smiling-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Encontre coisas que lhe interessem. Deve haver algumas coisas que sempre quis fazer mas nunca o fez. Agora \u00e9 a altura certa.<\/p>\n<p>Fazer planos. Estabelecer objectivos. Persiga-os. Se vir que n\u00e3o est\u00e3o a funcionar, fa\u00e7a novos planos e v\u00e1 em frente.<\/p>\n<p><i> Don&#8217;t waste your time on revenge. Everybody gets what they deserve &#8211; life takes care of that. Take your life into your hands. Let the past go.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i> S\u00f3 arru\u00edna o teu futuro se te agarrares a ela. Deixe a vingan\u00e7a de lado. Ignore as pessoas que o magoaram; elas j\u00e1 n\u00e3o fazem parte da sua vida. Desfrute da sua vida sem eles. <\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>When you finally get into a state where you don&#8217;t care anymore, that&#8217;s when you win. Let your happiness speak for itself.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110050\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pinterest-The-Best-Revenge-Is-To-Simply-Be-Happy.jpg\" alt=\"A melhor vingan\u00e7a \u00e9 simplesmente ser feliz\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pinterest-The-Best-Revenge-Is-To-Simply-Be-Happy.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pinterest-The-Best-Revenge-Is-To-Simply-Be-Happy-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pinterest-The-Best-Revenge-Is-To-Simply-Be-Happy-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pinterest-The-Best-Revenge-Is-To-Simply-Be-Happy-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pinterest-The-Best-Revenge-Is-To-Simply-Be-Happy-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A smile on your face and happiness in your soul is the best revenge you can ever have. Trust me. It might take some time to realize it but it doesn&#8217;t make it any less true. The best revenge is not putting your emotions out in the open. Don&#8217;t give them the satisfaction of seeing&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":110046,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7204","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/The-Best-Revenge-Is-To-Simply-Be-Happy-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7204","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7204"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7204\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/110046"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7204"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7204"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7204"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}