{"id":72046,"date":"2020-05-20T11:12:22","date_gmt":"2020-05-20T11:12:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=72046"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:07:15","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:07:15","slug":"ultrapassaste-todos-os-meus-limites1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ultrapassaste-todos-os-meus-limites1\/","title":{"rendered":"Voc\u00ea disse que gosta de mim, mas ultrapassou todos os meus limites"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vieste para uma segunda oportunidade. <\/span>Depois de tudo o que me fizeste passar, quiseste fingir que nada aconteceu.<\/span> Pediste-me que acreditasse que me amas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, guess what? I don’t. I can’t believe you anymore.<\/span> I’ve had enough of your lies<\/span><\/a>. You don’t have to pretend that you care for me. It’s over.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s finally over. <\/span>I don’t know how or from where, but <\/span>I gathered the strength to leave you. I know that it’s something I should have done a long time ago, but I couldn’t.<\/span><\/p>\n

My love for you was so big, it was stopping me from leaving you, even though I knew you didn\u2019t love me.<\/span><\/p>\n

I had peace and calm in my life. I had some boundaries and I didn’t allow anyone to cross them. Then you showed up, crossed all my limits, and took all the calmness out of my world.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I set those boundaries because I didn’t want to get hurt, but you <\/span>were a player like no other. I didn’t know what I was getting myself into when I allowed you to become a part of my life.<\/span><\/p>\n

First, you made me fall in love with you so deeply to forget about everything else. You made me doubt myself. You made me insecure and fragile. I forgot how much I\u2019m worth and what I deserve.<\/span><\/p>\n

Depois mudou o seu jogo para o ataque. <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, it was easy because I already trusted you with all my life. I never could have imagined that you’d use me. <\/span><\/p>\n

Podes explicar-me, por favor? Como podes usar algu\u00e9m que te amou mais do que qualquer outra pessoa alguma vez amar\u00e1?<\/span><\/p>\n

Os meus sentimentos tornaram-me cego, mas agora vejo tudo claramente. <\/b>You didn’t have respect for <\/b>os meus limites<\/b><\/a>, which means you didn’t respect me.<\/b> <\/b><\/p>\n

You just wanted to test how much I could handle. I remember how you once said that you’d never make me sad. In the end, you were the sole reason for my unhappiness.<\/span><\/p>\n

I loved you and I hoped that one day things would change. That you’d realize that you really met a unique girl who gave you that once in a lifetime love. That movie kind of love everyone dreams of. <\/span><\/p>\n

Infelizmente, apercebeu-se disso, mas j\u00e1 era demasiado tarde.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quem diria que as coisas podiam mudar assim, n\u00e3o \u00e9? Agora \u00e9s tu que est\u00e1s a sofrer e eu estou a curar-me e a seguir em frente lentamente.<\/b><\/p>\n

I’m learning to live again because you broke me that much that I had to learn it all from  scratch. I am learning that I shouldn’t believe people so much. I am learning that some people don’t deserve my precious time.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I’m learning that some people don’t deserve my heart and my love, no matter how much I love them. This is a new beginning for me and I’m looking forward to it. I hope this time I’ll be smarter and less naive.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o tive outra hip\u00f3tese sen\u00e3o come\u00e7ar do princ\u00edpio. Entreguei-me \u00e0 nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n

Dei tudo de mim por ti. Que tolice a minha, acreditava sinceramente que me amavas e que merecias tudo.<\/b><\/p>\n

No fim, custou-me perder-me a mim pr\u00f3prio. Acabaste por ser o meu pior pesadelo. Agora estou a pagar o pre\u00e7o por isso. <\/span><\/p>\n

No, I’m not complaining, I know I deserve it for being so naive and foolish.  Still, after everything I did for you, for our relationship, you didn’t know to appreciate it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Investi o meu tempo e a minha energia em ti, mas nunca foste capaz de me dar o mesmo em troca.<\/span><\/p>\n

Juraste com todo o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o que me amavas. Mas o facto \u00e9 que as tuas ac\u00e7\u00f5es nunca corresponderam a essas palavras.<\/b><\/p>\n

As suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es mostraram-me<\/span><\/a> just the opposite. You can’t love someone if you’re constantly doing something they’ve asked you million times not to do.<\/span><\/p>\n

That’s not what hurts me the most. I\u2019ve already forgiven you for all of that.<\/b><\/p>\n

The fact I didn’t appreciate myself enough to stop you when it was <\/b>necessary is what’s killing me from the inside.<\/b><\/p>\n

Agora sei que tenho de manter a minha guarda, por muito que goste de algu\u00e9m. As pessoas podem mudar num instante, assim como os seus sentimentos.<\/span><\/p>\n

I’m setting some new rules and limits in my life. My newest one: Not giving second chances to people who don’t deserve it. Be sure that you never cross that one.<\/span><\/p>\n

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You came for a second chance. After everything you put me through, you wanted to pretend as nothing happened. You asked me to believe that you love me.  Well, guess what? I don’t. I can’t believe you anymore. I’ve had enough of your lies. You don’t have to pretend that you care for me. It’s…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":82990,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-72046","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-standing-alone.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72046","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=72046"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72046\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/82990"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=72046"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=72046"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=72046"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}