{"id":7209,"date":"2023-09-27T12:14:00","date_gmt":"2023-09-27T12:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7209"},"modified":"2023-09-28T12:47:42","modified_gmt":"2023-09-28T12:47:42","slug":"parar-de-esperar-queria","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/parar-de-esperar-queria\/","title":{"rendered":"P\u00e1ra de esperar por ele: Se ele quisesse estar contigo, estaria"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know that you are experiencing a hard time of your life. I know that it hurts when your loved one doesn\u2019t want to choose you. But hey, in all that mess, you need to think of yourself first.<\/p>\n

Why would you wait for someone who doesn\u2019t even take care of your feelings?<\/p>\n

Por que raz\u00e3o perderia o seu precioso tempo com algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o vale a pena esperar?<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, parar de esperar por ele<\/a>, como se ele quisesse estar contigo, estaria contigo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

There aren\u2019t excuses good enough for what he was doing to you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

He deliberately chose to give up on you. He didn\u2019t even try to fight for you. Instead, he was fighting with you every single time.<\/p>\n

That crap that he couldn\u2019t choose between you and her is a such crap. Don\u2019t you see that a sua indecis\u00e3o era uma decis\u00e3o?<\/a><\/p>\n

And if he really wanted to choose one of you, you should have told him that he should choose her, because if he ever loved you, he wouldn\u2019t be thinking about choosing one of you.<\/p>\n

Ele j\u00e1 sabia que te iria magoar neste processo, mas continuou com o seu jogo.<\/p>\n

Ele queria estar um pouco consigo e, quando se cansava, ia ter com ela.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Well, buddy, things don\u2019t function that way. You can\u2019t play for both of the teams.<\/p>\n

You need to make a decision and not play with someone\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 espero que percebas que ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 digno do teu amor e aten\u00e7\u00e3o<\/i><\/b>.<\/p>\n

Podes ver isso por todas as coisas que ele te fez. Por isso, por favor, ouve-me e livra-te dele. Faz isso rapidamente para que doa menos.<\/p>\n

Do it like you are taking off a Band-Aid from your skin – one sharp move and it is gone. That is the only way you will feel less pain.<\/p>\n

I am not saying that you won\u2019t suffer at all. There will be days and weeks when you will feel like a piece of crap because of him.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Haver\u00e1 dias em que lhe apetecer\u00e1 telefonar-lhe e pedir-lhe que tente de novo.<\/p>\n

Depois, vais perceber que, ao fazeres isso, est\u00e1s a implorar-lhe que fique contigo e that\u2019s not the love you deserve. <\/a><\/p>\n

Haver\u00e1 coisas que vos far\u00e3o lembrar dele, como a vossa can\u00e7\u00e3o preferida que vos p\u00f4s a dan\u00e7ar a meio da noite, completamente molhados da chuva que ca\u00eda impiedosamente sobre os vossos corpos.<\/p>\n

Haver\u00e1 um homem que ter\u00e1 o mesmo cheiro que ele, para que se vire para o apanhar e tente respirar esse cheiro doce que ainda a deixa gelada.<\/p>\n

Agora, tenham todas estas coisas em considera\u00e7\u00e3o quando pensarem em odi\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Alguma vez te mostrou que se sentia assim? Alguma vez te desejou e observou todas as raparigas que se pareciam contigo?<\/p>\n

I bet he didn\u2019t, because otherwise he wouldn\u2019t have to make this decision now. He was selfish enough to think about himself and his feelings only.<\/p>\n

Nunca te telefonou para saber como estavas. Nunca te perguntou se te sentias bem.<\/p>\n

Ele simplesmente desapareceu da tua vida como se nunca tivesse feito parte dela. E isso \u00e9 mau.<\/p>\n

Mas \u00e9 ainda mais dif\u00edcil ter de lidar com o facto de ele nunca a ter amado o suficiente para fazer com que as coisas funcionassem.<\/p>\n

I know that everything I say won\u2019t be enough for you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

As minhas palavras podem apenas levar-te a pensar de novo na tua vida. S\u00f3 posso tentar fazer-te acreditar que n\u00e3o \u00e9s culpado do que aconteceu.<\/p>\n

Ele era culpado de tudo e tu eras apenas a pessoa certa na altura errada.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t cry over spilled milk now. He harmed you but you are a strong woman and you will soon get over him.<\/p>\n

Se ele foi suficientemente est\u00fapido para se ir embora, tu devias ser suficientemente inteligente para deix\u00e1-lo ir.<\/a><\/p>\n

\"namorada<\/p>\n

Ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 o homem que tu mereces. Ele foi apenas uma li\u00e7\u00e3o de vida que te ensinou que tipo de tratamento nunca mais deves permitir.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t forget that in all this mess you actually learned how amazing and a unique person you are.<\/p>\n

But since he didn\u2019t think about you in this way, he just chose to let you go.<\/p>\n

In the end, if he ever realizes what kind of person he had next to himself and if he tries to get back to you, don\u2019t let him back into your life.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

A decis\u00e3o foi tomada h\u00e1 muito tempo. Se ele quisesse estar consigo, estaria consigo!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"P\u00e1ra<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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