{"id":7216,"date":"2020-05-20T12:12:22","date_gmt":"2020-05-20T12:12:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7216"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:06:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:06:17","slug":"lamento-partir-o-coracao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/lamento-partir-o-coracao\/","title":{"rendered":"Sinto muito por ter partido o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>S\u00f3 quero dizer o seguinte,<a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.co.uk\/jaelithe-leighbrown\/im-sorry-breaking-up-is-h_b_14793574.html\" rel=\"noopener\"> <em>\u201cI am truly sorry.\u201d<\/em><\/a> I know that&#8217;s not enough to repair the damage I caused you but I have to say it and hope you will forgive me someday.<\/p>\n<p>Lamento ter-te desiludido. \u00c9s o melhor homem que j\u00e1 conheci. \u00c9s t\u00e3o simples e t\u00e3o realista que isso te torna extraordin\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n<p>We could talk for hours about anything. Even with the things that didn&#8217;t interest you, you would pay attention because they were important to me. You made me feel special and reminded me of my worth.<\/p>\n<p>Estavas numa esp\u00e9cie de estado de sono profundo antes de me conheceres. Ficaste preso a uma rotina em que todos os dias pareciam iguais.<\/p>\n<p>Ainda bem que o amor que tinhas por mim te despertou desse sono e te fez perceber que podes fazer muito mais com a tua vida. Senti-me t\u00e3o orgulhoso por ter conseguido levar algu\u00e9m a tal grandeza.<\/p>\n<p><em>Pelo menos fiz uma coisa bem, embora ache que, no final, tu \u00e9 que a fizeste.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Quero que saibas que foste o meu melhor amigo. Apoiaste-me. Abra\u00e7aste-me quando eu estava em baixo.<\/p>\n<p>You stood by me when I was up. You did everything perfectly. Don&#8217;t you ever think that you didn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Toda esta confus\u00e3o \u00e9 inteiramente culpa minha.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You just seemed so right for me at the time. I couldn&#8217;t help falling for you, even though there never was that lightning moment.<\/p>\n<p>Fizeste um esfor\u00e7o para me conquistar. Senti-me bem ao estar contigo. Ent\u00e3o, <a href=\"https:\/\/tinybuddha.com\/blog\/honoring-inner-voice-make-right-choices-us\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Ignorei essa voz interior<\/a> que me disse que algo estava a faltar e eu segui a minha cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>Parece mau, mas foste t\u00e3o bom para o meu ego. Olhavas para mim como se eu fosse a mulher mais bonita do planeta. Admiravas tudo em mim, por dentro e por fora.<\/p>\n<p>Apreciaste-me e acarinhaste-me. Puseste as tuas necessidades em segundo lugar em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s minhas. Era tudo o que eu sempre quis.<\/p>\n<p>Era tudo o que eu sabia na minha mente que era bom para mim. Mas o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o recusou-se a seguir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You have to know that I didn&#8217;t realize that at the time. I never meant to hurt you on purpose. I\u2019d been so intoxicated with the attention that you gave me that I mistook it for love<\/strong><strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Eu era inconscientemente ego\u00edsta. Fiquei t\u00e3o impressionada com tudo o que fizeste por mim que nunca pensei em dar-te o mesmo. Deixei as coisas como estavam.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84871\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-looking-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a olhar para mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-looking-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-looking-at-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-looking-at-woman-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O momento em que me apercebi de tudo foi quando me perguntaste se eu achava que eras a pessoa certa para mim.<\/p>\n<p>I immediately said, \u201cI don&#8217;t know. I am not sure,\u201d without even thinking about it.<\/p>\n<p>Ainda me lembro da dor que vi nos teus olhos. Senti-me t\u00e3o mal, mas sabia que estava a ser sincero.<\/p>\n<p>Ainda esperavas que eu s\u00f3 precisasse de mais tempo do que tu para perceber que o nosso lugar era juntos. Sentia que faltava algo e n\u00e3o tinha palavras para o explicar.<\/p>\n<p><em>Nunca planeei isto, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.yourtango.com\/experts\/dr-randi-gunther\/i-didnt-mean-hurt-you-is-worst-thing-couples-say-after-fight\" rel=\"noopener\">Nunca te quis magoar,<\/a> mas fi-lo na mesma.<\/em> <em>E depois de todo este tempo, continuo a lamentar, apesar de saber que tomei a decis\u00e3o certa ao deixar-te.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>I wasn&#8217;t the right one and we were never meant to be.<\/strong> Precisas de algu\u00e9m melhor.<\/p>\n<p>Someone who will reciprocate your feelings and give you everything I couldn&#8217;t. I am certain you will find her someday and will make her the happiest woman on earth.<\/p>\n<p><em>Don&#8217;t let the bad experience you had with me ruin your pure heart.<\/em> Don&#8217;t fall back asleep in that deep state you were in before you met me. Get up and find the woman of your dreams.<\/p>\n<p>I am sorry that I didn&#8217;t know then what I do now, that when you truly love someone, there is no uncertainty, there is no second guessing, you just know that person is the one. You will see that I am right when you meet her.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Lamento muito. Espero que sejas feliz. Espero que talvez um dia encontres no teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o a possibilidade de me perdoar.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-84873 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Im-Sorry-For-Breaking-Your-Heart-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Sinto muito por ter partido o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Im-Sorry-For-Breaking-Your-Heart-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Im-Sorry-For-Breaking-Your-Heart-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Im-Sorry-For-Breaking-Your-Heart-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Im-Sorry-For-Breaking-Your-Heart-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Im-Sorry-For-Breaking-Your-Heart-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Im-Sorry-For-Breaking-Your-Heart-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I just want to say, \u201cI am truly sorry.\u201d I know that&#8217;s not enough to repair the damage I caused you but I have to say it and hope you will forgive me someday. I am sorry that I let you down. You are the best man I ever met. You are so simple and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":84870,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7216","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Im-Sorry-For-Breaking-Your-Heart.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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