{"id":7228,"date":"2020-08-20T12:39:12","date_gmt":"2020-08-20T12:39:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7228"},"modified":"2022-02-10T02:01:05","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T02:01:05","slug":"nao-lhe-deixaste-outra-alternativa-senao-desistir-de-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-lhe-deixaste-outra-alternativa-senao-desistir-de-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o lhe deixaste outra alternativa sen\u00e3o desistir de ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ela deu-lhe tudo o que tinha. E o que \u00e9 que tu fizeste? N\u00e3o lhe deste absolutamente nada em troca.<\/p>\n<p>You used her trust so many times that she couldn\u2019t trust you anymore. It was impossible. You failed. You failed hard.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o reparou no facto de ela ter feito um esfor\u00e7o extra por si. Todas as vezes.<\/p>\n<p>Ela moveria montanhas por ti. Escolher-te-ia sempre a ti em vez dela pr\u00f3pria. E mesmo assim, tu n\u00e3o lhe davas nada.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not a surprise she had to give up on you. You know that she did all the work in your relationship. She was the one who kept it alive.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s like you were just a coincidental spectator instead of a main actor in the whole thing. Why would anybody take that?<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ela deu-te toda a aten\u00e7\u00e3o e afeto que tinha. Certificou-se de que tinhas tudo. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ela deu-te um beijo de despedida quando sa\u00edste de casa e, mesmo assim, deixaste-a para \u00faltimo. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sabia-que-o-ultimo-beijo-beijava-mais\/\">Ela nunca recebeu um beijo de despedida.<\/a><\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113150\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste deitada no sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You took advantage of her kindness. You spat on her kind words and loving gestures because you didn\u2019t respect her.<\/p>\n<p>You should have taken her in your arms and never let her go. That\u2019s how she treated you. And you deserved none of it.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>She never met a person more selfish than you. How could you let yourself lose the one thing that made you a better man &#8211; her?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Slowly, you were becoming her burden. She could no longer carry you on her back. Her bones started to crack. She couldn\u2019t take it.<\/p>\n<p>Although she kept giving you second chances, you kept blowing them off. You destroyed them one by one and you wouldn\u2019t stop because you were sure you\u2019d get another chance.<\/p>\n<p>You knew she was good-hearted and she wouldn\u2019t leave you just like that and unfortunately, you took advantage of that.<\/p>\n<p>She would give up on you, though, because you gave her more sadness than happiness. That\u2019s the kind of life she didn\u2019t want to live.<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s even sadder is that she actually thought for a second that all of this was her fault. She thought she hadn\u2019t had enough patience and understanding for you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113151\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste com camisa de ganga\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9s tu que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/screw-making-think-shes-unlovable-one\/\">made her think she wasn\u2019t good enough. <\/a><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Eras t\u00e3o corajosa e confiante. Pensavas mesmo que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-pensavas-que-ela-nunca-se-iria-embora-mas-adivinha-o-que-ela-fez\/\">she didn\u2019t have the guts to leave you<\/a>. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Pensaste mesmo que ela te ia continuar a dar oportunidades. Estavas assim t\u00e3o confiante? Bem, devias ter pensado melhor.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Because, this time it was, \u201cBye-bye, see ya never!\u201d She had been putting up with you up until this point.<\/p>\n<p>She now won\u2019t be giving you any more shots because she knows you don\u2019t want to change. You don\u2019t want to grow and mature. She doesn\u2019t need that by her side.<\/p>\n<p>Ela desistiu de ti porque tu eras um idiota que a tomaste como garantida e pensaste que te podias safar.<\/p>\n<p>All you gave her were empty words and false promises which didn\u2019t mean anything.<\/p>\n<p>Agora j\u00e1 n\u00e3o. Ela confiava completamente em si e voc\u00ea falhou-lhe. Tudo o que fizeste foi desiludi-la, uma e outra vez.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113152\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada no sof\u00e1 e a pensar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She gave up on you because she didn\u2019t have a choice. You took her to a dead-end street.<\/p>\n<p>Encurralou-a e ela n\u00e3o teve outra alternativa sen\u00e3o ir-se embora. Ela deu-lhe tempo para se recompor.<\/p>\n<p>She had warned you several times that things weren\u2019t going to work this way.<\/p>\n<p>Mas tomou as suas palavras e ac\u00e7\u00f5es como garantidas e continuou a fazer as coisas \u00e0 sua maneira, sem a consultar, nem a ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o fizeste qualquer esfor\u00e7o para que os dois funcionassem, mas gostavas de estar com ela. Como \u00e9 que podias esperar algo mais do que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/finalmente-foi-se-embora\/\">ela a ir-se embora?<\/a><\/p>\n<p>In the grown-up world, things don\u2019t function the way you think they should.<\/p>\n<p>No mundo dos adultos, \u00e9 preciso muito sacrif\u00edcio e ren\u00fancia para melhorar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o e tornar o seu parceiro mais feliz. Por outras palavras, s\u00e3o precisos dois para dan\u00e7ar o tango.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113153\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste de \u00f3culos sentada \u00e0 janela\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-with-glasses-sitting-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><i>She gave up because she realized that she mattered. She won\u2019t be spending her life on losers and idiots like you. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>She won\u2019t be spending her life on someone who isn\u2019t worthy of her. Even if she loves you still, she won\u2019t be doing the same old things to herself anymore. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Finalmente, ela vai p\u00f4r-se em primeiro lugar porque pode. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Finalmente apercebeu-se de que pode encontrar algu\u00e9m que a ame como ela merece.<\/p>\n<p>Ela pode encontrar algu\u00e9m que a trate da mesma forma que ela o trata a ele.<\/p>\n<p>Ela pode encontrar algu\u00e9m que seja igual a ela.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t want to give up on you, but you gave her no other choice.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ja-nao-te-quer-de-volta\/\">She\u2019s sorry, but goodbye<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113149\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"N\u00e3o lhe deixaste outra alternativa sen\u00e3o desistir de ti\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She gave you all she had. And what did you do? You gave her absolutely nothing in return. You used her trust so many times that she couldn\u2019t trust you anymore. It was impossible. You failed. You failed hard. You missed the fact she went the extra mile for you. Every single time. She would&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":113154,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7228","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Left-Her-No-Choice-But-To-Give-Up-On-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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