{"id":7233,"date":"2017-10-20T12:36:34","date_gmt":"2017-10-20T12:36:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7233"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:04:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:04:40","slug":"merecem-que-o-amor-permaneca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/merecem-que-o-amor-permaneca\/","title":{"rendered":"Mereces um amor que fique"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A vida fez um jogo contigo. A vida fez-te parecer um tolo.<\/p>\n<p>Lembra-se de todas as noites sem dormir em que andava a rebolar na cama, coberto de suor frio e incapaz de acalmar a sua mente. Os pensamentos andavam \u00e0 solta, deixando-o inquieto.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/kayla-diebold\/2017\/04\/to-the-ex-that-wants-my-forgiveness-this-is-what-you-can-do-for-me\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Lembra-te de toda a mis\u00e9ria e dor que ele te causou<\/a> by trying to be something that he wasn\u2019t, someone you deserve.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Lembra-te de todas as noites em que encharcaste a tua almofada com as tuas l\u00e1grimas e gritaste o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o na solid\u00e3o das tuas quatro paredes frias e apertadas. Elas estavam a ficar cada vez mais pequenas com cada grito que fazias.<\/p>\n<p>No one ever heard your cries or saw your pain. Only you know what you\u2019ve been through. That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t give up under the temptation of getting back to him. Sure, now it seems to you that you\u2019ve made a mistake. It\u2019s not a mistake.<\/p>\n<p>You are just remembering only the good things that the two of you shared. You\u2019ve forgotten the bad things that happened. And there were a lot more bad things than good ones. You forgot that.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Things won\u2019t get better if you fail to resist and go back to him. It will be the same, if not even worse.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.yourtango.com\/experts\/janet-ong-zimmerman\/how-get-him-back-without-being-needy-and-desperate-expert\" rel=\"noopener\">Queres voltar para ele<\/a> porque estamos habituados a t\u00ea-lo por perto. Se levarmos uma pequena pedra no bolso durante alguns dias e a perdermos, sentiremos a sua falta porque nos habitu\u00e1mos a t\u00ea-la connosco.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t go back to him because you deserve so much more than he is and more than he gives you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Mereces ser amado incondicionalmente.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t deserve being treated hot and cold. You don\u2019t deserve him being all over you one day, and the next he couldn\u2019t care less.<\/p>\n<p>Mereces beijos e abra\u00e7os sem mais nem menos. Mereces que ele te d\u00ea a m\u00e3o e te beije onde quer que estejas. Mereces que ele te mostre ao mundo.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/rania-naim\/2016\/11\/you-deserve-to-remember-how-it-feels-to-be-loved\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Mereces ser amado<\/a> como deveria ter sido desde o in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t deserve someone who\u2019ll pretend he\u2019s there for you and who will bail on you when things get rough. You don\u2019t deserve someone who is unworthy of your love.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t deserve to be left alone like a stray dog on the street &#8211; so sad and so alone.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Mereces algu\u00e9m que te cure as feridas e que repare o teu pobre cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido. Mereces algu\u00e9m que te fa\u00e7a lembrar o que \u00e9 o verdadeiro amor.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-7238 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pexels-photo-427547-1.jpg\" alt=\"Mereces um amor que fique\" width=\"800\" height=\"591\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pexels-photo-427547-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pexels-photo-427547-1-300x222.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pexels-photo-427547-1-768x567.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t deserve someone who keeps breaking your heart. Someone who makes you cry. Someone who you waste your tears on.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t deserve someone who made you doubt love. Someone who made you doubt its existence. Someone who made you doubt people. Someone who made you trust no one.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/you-dont-deserve-someone-who-comes-back\" rel=\"noopener\">You don\u2019t deserve someone<\/a> que te transformou de um ser humano amoroso numa pedra fria e sem emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Tens de saber e compreender que \u00e9s uma criatura linda. \u00c9s bela com os teus defeitos e tudo. H\u00e1 algu\u00e9m por a\u00ed que ver\u00e1 essa tua beleza e que far\u00e1 um voto de te amar para sempre.<\/p>\n<p>You are a mess &#8211; a beautiful mess. Your heart is broken and your mind is collapsing, but you hang in there. You are able to carry it all out. You are able to confront it and live with it. And despite all that, you are still beautiful.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>The love you had was unrequited. You know that love hurts. You just have to keep on fighting and you will make it. You have to look like you are fine when we all know you aren\u2019t. But pretending is what keeps you going. Pretending is what makes it easier for you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>But before you do anything, you have to learn or at least remind yourself how to love yourself again. Nothing is as important as that. You have to respect yourself and learn how to be alone. Because at the end of the day, you don\u2019t need anybody. You were born alone and you will die alone.<\/p>\n<p>Devote time to yourself. Do things you\u2019ve been wanting to do for a long time. Say no to everyone else\u2019s needs. Now, it\u2019s time to take care of you.<\/p>\n<p><em>Mereces ser feliz.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Mereces ser acarinhado todos os dias.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Mereces o amor incondicional de um homem.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Mereces n\u00e3o voltar a sentir tanta dor.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Tu mereces tudo.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Life played a game on you. Life made you look like a fool. Remember all those sleepless nights while you were rolling around your bed, covered in cold sweat and unable to settle down your mind. Thoughts were running wild, making you restless. Remember all that misery and pain he caused you by trying to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":7237,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7233","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pexels-photo-427547.jpg",800,591,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7233","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7233"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7233\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7237"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7233"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7233"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7233"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}