{"id":72353,"date":"2020-05-20T11:21:57","date_gmt":"2020-05-20T11:21:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=72353"},"modified":"2022-01-12T22:36:23","modified_gmt":"2022-01-12T22:36:23","slug":"ele-acabou-por-ser-tudo-o-que-disse-que-nao-seria-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele-acabou-por-ser-tudo-o-que-disse-que-nao-seria-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Ele acabou por ser tudo o que disse que n\u00e3o seria"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando se \u00e9 uma pessoa que d\u00e1 tudo de si \u00e0 pessoa que ama, sabe-se como \u00e9 doloroso perder essa pessoa devido a uma quebra de confian\u00e7a.<\/span><\/p>\n

A relationship is about working on something together. That\u2019s the only thing I wanted. Someone I could count on to have my back and make me feel safe and happy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Queria que o meu homem fosse uma base s\u00f3lida sobre a qual pudesse construir a minha vida. Queria ter um amante e um amigo na mesma pessoa. Queria am\u00e1-lo como nenhum outro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Escusado ser\u00e1 dizer que fiquei desiludido quando nada disso aconteceu.<\/span><\/p>\n

O homem que eu pensava conhecer n\u00e3o era nada do que ele dizia ser.<\/span><\/p>\n

He made me believe he was the one for me. He took extra steps to ensure I fell for him hard. He made me believe he loved me… and that was the scariest part because I believed\u2014and he lied.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I was the most vulnerable with a man who used me. I opened my heart to someone who didn\u2019t care about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca percebi porque \u00e9 que somos atra\u00eddos por coisas e pessoas que fazem o oposto daquilo que queremos. Ser\u00e1 que \u00e9 para aprendermos sobre as coisas que nos faltam?<\/span><\/p>\n

Whatever the reason, I still can\u2019t believe I ever believed his lies and helped him build his fake world with himself as the center while everyone else, including me, was orbiting around his needs.<\/span><\/p>\n

J\u00e1 sei que me vai levar<\/span> anos<\/span><\/i> para come\u00e7ar a confiar nos homens e at\u00e9 em mim pr\u00f3pria.<\/span><\/p>\n

Demorei algum tempo a aperceber-me de todos os jogos mentais que ele fazia comigo e das formas como me enganava. Com o passar do tempo, apercebo-me ainda mais.<\/span><\/p>\n

A forma como ele fez com que todos os seus defeitos fossem culpa minha foi uma das mentiras mais convincentes que ele usou.<\/span><\/p>\n

Colocava pequenas frac\u00e7\u00f5es de verdade em grandes mentiras e fazia-me acreditar em cada palavra. Fazia-me questionar a minha pr\u00f3pria sanidade mental, acusando-me de coisas que nunca fiz.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Em vez de me proteger, ele tornou-se algo de que eu tinha medo.<\/span><\/p>\n

No matter how bad my experiences were, I still think about him because I can\u2019t wrap my head around the fact that what I thought of him and what he really is isn\u2019t the same person.<\/span><\/p>\n

I can\u2019t help but feel sad over losing something that, in reality, never existed.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quando me apercebi do que estava a acontecer, j\u00e1 era demasiado tarde. Estava suficientemente apaixonado para ficar com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido.<\/span><\/p>\n

Parti o meu pr\u00f3prio cora\u00e7\u00e3o ao acreditar em algu\u00e9m<\/a> who didn\u2019t care. I gave my everything to a person who never even wanted to stick around.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quero curar o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e seguir em frente com a minha vida. Quero voltar a acreditar que existem homens bons e honestos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quero encontrar um homem que me prove que tudo o que me aconteceu foi apenas um teste e uma li\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

Um dia, ficarei em paz com tudo o que me aconteceu. Sei que tudo o que aconteceu far\u00e1 sentido.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to become one of those people who closes their heart forever after a heartbreak.<\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to give up on myself because I deserve better. I deserve to be loved by someone who will accept me as I am and build his life on trust in his partner.<\/span><\/p>\n

I deserve to be loved by the right person who won\u2019t make me feel smaller.<\/span><\/p>\n

Acima de tudo, mere\u00e7o ser amada por mim pr\u00f3pria. Quero-me de volta. Quero que ela viva a sua vida sem medo, especialmente perto das pessoas que ela ama.<\/span><\/p>\n

Life should be big, bold, and beautiful and there\u2019s no way of getting that without letting go of all the past hurt.<\/span><\/p>\n

Let go of everything that made you think you\u2019re not worthy of a good life and start believing in yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Embrace the pain that led you to growth and start your life over, knowing you\u2019ll win every struggle life puts you through because you\u2019ve got nothing to lose once you finally have yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Ele<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you\u2019re a person who gives their all to the person they love, you know how painful it is to lose that person because of broken trust. A relationship is about working on something together. That\u2019s the only thing I wanted. Someone I could count on to have my back and make me feel safe…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":72363,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-72353","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/He-Turned-Out-To-Be-Everything-He-Said-He-Wouldnt-Be.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72353","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=72353"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72353\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/72363"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=72353"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=72353"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=72353"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}