{"id":7265,"date":"2023-09-27T09:45:00","date_gmt":"2023-09-27T09:45:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7265"},"modified":"2023-09-28T12:54:17","modified_gmt":"2023-09-28T12:54:17","slug":"perdoar-pensar-que-preciso-de-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/perdoar-pensar-que-preciso-de-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Tenho de me perdoar por pensar que preciso de ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quero seguir em frente.<\/a> I don\u2019t want to waste my time on regrets. I know that if I don\u2019t forgive myself for all the mistakes I made when I was with him, I won\u2019t be able to continue with my life.<\/p>\n

Tenho de esquecer o passado e estou a come\u00e7ar por pedir perd\u00e3o a mim pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Estou a pedir perd\u00e3o a mim pr\u00f3prio porque acreditei em todas as suas desculpas esfarrapadas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Deixei-o entrar na minha vida mais vezes do que devia. Fui demasiado ing\u00e9nua. Para come\u00e7ar, nunca lhe devia ter dado uma segunda oportunidade.<\/p>\n

Lamento ter-lhe dado in\u00fameras oportunidades; dei-lhe apenas in\u00fameras oportunidades para me magoar.<\/p>\n

I am asking myself for forgiveness because I didn’t know better.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t know and I refused to listen to other people when they told me he was just a manipulative psychopath.<\/p>\n

Pensei que sabia mais. Pensei que ele tinha algo dentro de si que s\u00f3 eu podia ver. Estava enganada.<\/p>\n

Pe\u00e7o perd\u00e3o a mim pr\u00f3prio por ter desperdi\u00e7ado o meu precioso tempo.<\/strong>
\nDesperdicei toda a minha energia a tentar consert\u00e1-lo, consertar-nos.<\/p>\n

I am sorry I didn\u2019t fix myself. I could\u2019ve accomplished so many things if I had just focused on my goals.<\/p>\n

Eu poderia ter criado um futuro melhor para mim. Prometo que estou a trabalhar nisso agora.<\/p>\n

Estou a pedir perd\u00e3o a mim pr\u00f3prio porque Coloquei as necessidades dele \u00e0 frente das minhas.<\/a><\/strong> I should\u2019ve never done that.<\/p>\n

Ele arranjava tempo para todas as suas necessidades, enquanto eu ficava em casa \u00e0 espera de ver se ele arranjava tempo para mim.<\/p>\n

\"Tenho<\/p>\n

Estou a pedir perd\u00e3o a mim pr\u00f3pria porque era suposto estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o mas estava sozinha.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Eu estava sempre presente para o ouvir, para o compreender e para o aconselhar. Nunca pude contar com ele para fazer o mesmo por mim.<\/p>\n

Quando tinha um problema, tinha de o resolver sozinha. Ele nunca esteve presente para me apoiar, mas esperava sempre que eu estivesse presente para ele.<\/p>\n

Estou a pedir perd\u00e3o a mim pr\u00f3pria porque deixei que ele me fizesse sentir indigna.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He made me feel undeserving of love and respect. He made me feel like I should have been grateful to have him in my life, like I\u2019d won the lottery or something.<\/p>\n

Lamento I thought I wasn\u2019t enough.<\/a> I should have realized sooner that he wasn\u2019t good enough for me.<\/p>\n

Estou a pedir perd\u00e3o a mim pr\u00f3pria porque pensei que tinha de ser perfeita para que ele me amasse.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I realize now, what I already knew – nobody\u2019s perfect. We are all only humans, full of flaws and strong points.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what perfection really is. That\u2019s what love is really about – loving someone just the way they are.<\/p>\n

Estou a pedir perd\u00e3o a mim pr\u00f3prio porque demorei tanto tempo a aperceber-me de como sou fant\u00e1stico<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Perceber que sou autossuficiente. Conhecer o meu valor pr\u00f3prio. Sou competente. Sou capaz de fazer tudo o que me apetecer.<\/p>\n

I am loveable. I am smart. I am strong. I am sorry I ever thought I wasn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Estou a pedir perd\u00e3o a mim pr\u00f3pria porque o amava mais do que a pr\u00f3pria vida. Era demasiado.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Eu devia ter-me amado dessa maneira. Se o tivesse feito, nunca teria sentido tanta dor. Estou agora a aprender a fazer isso, a amar-me mais.<\/p>\n

I am asking myself for forgiveness because I didn\u2019t let him go sooner.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It was completely unnecessary to have him in my life for so long. I thought I needed him, I thought I couldn\u2019t live without him.<\/p>\n

I thought life would end when he was no longer part of it. It seems I was wrong. Life has just started and it\u2019s so much better now.\"Tenho<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I want to move on. I don\u2019t want to waste my time on regrets. I know that if I don\u2019t forgive myself for all the mistakes I made when I was with him, I won\u2019t be able to continue with my life. I have to let go of the past and I am starting by…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":38361,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7265","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/shutterstock_1075354412.jpg",800,450,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7265","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7265"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7265\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/38361"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7265"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7265"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7265"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}