{"id":73239,"date":"2020-05-22T11:24:25","date_gmt":"2020-05-22T11:24:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=73239"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:58:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:58:20","slug":"nao-se-pode-controlar-quem-se-perde","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-se-pode-controlar-quem-se-perde\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o podemos controlar quem perdemos, mas podemos controlar quem est\u00e1 na nossa vida"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando <\/span>miss someone you know you shouldn\u2019t<\/span><\/a>, you can\u2019t help but feel guilty.<\/span><\/p>\n

After everything this person has done to you and after all the pain they\u2019ve caused you, it\u2019s natural that you want them out of your life and system as soon as possible.<\/span><\/p>\n

Isto aplica-se a todas as pessoas que a abandonaram e, sobretudo, aos seus ex-namorados. Afinal, eram estes os homens com quem queria partilhar a sua vida e as pessoas que mais amava.<\/span><\/p>\n

Isto aplica-se a todos os tipos que te partiram o cora\u00e7\u00e3o, que te enganaram ou que se afastaram de ti sem olhar para tr\u00e1s.<\/span><\/p>\n

For all the guys who didn\u2019t want to label your relationship, who ghosted you, and who left you hanging.<\/span><\/p>\n

Or are we talking about a specific man? A man you can\u2019t get out of your head, as much as you try?<\/span><\/p>\n

Seja como for, o resultado final \u00e9 o mesmo: <\/span>You feel like by missing him, you\u2019re betraying yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You\u2019re giving him even more power over your heart and soul. You\u2019re giving him meaning and purpose.<\/span><\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019ve kicked him out of your life, so why can\u2019t he be gone from your heart, as well?<\/span><\/p>\n

Are you that weak that you don\u2019t have the ability to see things clearly and to stop missing someone who doesn\u2019t deserve your attention?<\/b><\/p>\n

Bem, a resposta \u00e9: sim. Na verdade, todos n\u00f3s somos.<\/b><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nenhuma pessoa viva que possa controlar quem ama e de quem sente falta. Quem disser o contr\u00e1rio est\u00e1 a mentir.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, you\u2019re not an exception. Remember: <\/span>you\u2019re a human being made of flesh and blood \u2013 not a robot who can be programmed and whose emotions can be switched off and on.<\/b><\/p>\n

Therefore, it\u2019s perfectly natural that you can\u2019t control your thoughts and feelings and that you don\u2019t have the capacity to order your heart and mind around. <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, o que pode controlar \u00e9 quem pode estar na sua vida. Pode controlar quem tem acesso a si e quem pode ser honrado pela sua presen\u00e7a. <\/span><\/p>\n

Podemos controlar a quem dedicamos o nosso tempo, energia e paci\u00eancia.<\/span><\/p>\n

Basicamente, <\/span>what I\u2019m trying to say is that you should stop blaming yourself for <\/b>falta de algu\u00e9m<\/b><\/a>.<\/b> <\/span><\/p>\n

I know that sometimes you feel crazy and you can\u2019t believe that you still have feelings for the man who has hurt you so much.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, it\u2019s completely normal to feel this way. In fact, most women go through the same thing after a devastating breakup.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Confia em mim quando te digo que tudo isto faz parte da tua recupera\u00e7\u00e3o. Esta \u00e9 apenas uma fase do processo de seguir em frente.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t put yourself down for all the overwhelming emotions you feel. Don\u2019t burden yourself for feeling the way you do. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of seeing yourself as a weak woman, be proud of your strength. Be proud that you have the power to resist your urges, instincts, and heart\u2019s desires.<\/b><\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re not allowing this man back in your life, despite the fact that you miss him, are you? You\u2019re not giving him a second chance, even though there are times when you feel like you\u2019ll die without him by your side. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not on this man\u2019s doorstep, begging him to come back, despite the devastating pain that\u2019s been killing you from the inside.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not letting him see what an <\/span>destro\u00e7o emocional<\/span><\/a> e n\u00e3o lhe est\u00e1 a dar a satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o de saber que ainda sente algo por ele.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 isso que \u00e9 a coragem. \u00c9 isso que significa for\u00e7a interior: lutar consigo pr\u00f3prio todos os dias e vencer cada uma dessas batalhas dif\u00edceis. <\/b><\/p>\n

So, keep on missing him \u2013 nobody can deny you that right. Miss the man and love him for as long as you want.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t repress your emotions and don\u2019t pretend that they don\u2019t exist. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aprende a viver com eles e, assim que o fizeres, prometo-te que eles desaparecer\u00e3o. Assim que deixar de fugir dos seus dem\u00f3nios, prometo-lhe que eles deixar\u00e3o de o perseguir.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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