{"id":73296,"date":"2020-05-20T11:28:49","date_gmt":"2020-05-20T11:28:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=73296"},"modified":"2022-12-01T11:42:53","modified_gmt":"2022-12-01T11:42:53","slug":"como-pedir-um-segundo-encontro-regras-de-ouro-para-manter-as-coisas-a-andar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-pedir-um-segundo-encontro-regras-de-ouro-para-manter-as-coisas-a-andar\/","title":{"rendered":"Como pedir um segundo encontro: Regras de ouro para manter as coisas em andamento"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Today, I&#8217;m going to play matchmaker, and teach you all about how to ask for a second date and keep the good times rolling. As a woman, I&#8217;ll offer a new perspective that could make all the difference.<\/p>\n<p>Sinto que a minha experi\u00eancia me permite transmitir alguma sabedoria e partilhar a minha <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-coisas-a-considerar-antes-de-dar-um-beijo-no-segundo-encontro\/\">segundo encontro<\/a> regras, ideias e factores de desempate.<\/p>\n<p>Para manter as boas vibra\u00e7\u00f5es ap\u00f3s o primeiro encontro, sugiro vivamente que continue a ler.<\/p>\n<p>Ao conseguir que uma mulher aceite v\u00ea-lo novamente, as suas hip\u00f3teses de um terceiro encontro aumentam exponencialmente.<\/p>\n<p>Mas para que isso aconte\u00e7a, \u00e9 preciso acertar em cheio no primeiro encontro (incluindo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/deve-beijar-se-no-primeiro-encontro\/\">beijo no primeiro encontro<\/a>) e saber como abordar a ideia de um encontro de acompanhamento.<\/p>\n<p>I know guys tend to overthink things, which is why I&#8217;ve come up with this awesome guide where I&#8217;ll cover everything from date ideas to the golden rules you must obey.<\/p>\n<p>Se quiser voltar a ver aquela rapariga (<em>e novamente<\/em>), here&#8217;s everything you need to know.<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/porque-me-amas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Porque \u00e9 que me amas? 120+ maneiras encantadoras de responder a esta pergunta<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong>Como \u00e9 que se consegue um encontro de acompanhamento?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<h2>1. Saber o momento certo para a convidar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73297\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-standing-beside-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem de p\u00e9 ao lado de uma mulher a segurar bebidas no meio da rua\" width=\"800\" height=\"542\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-standing-beside-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-standing-beside-woman-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-standing-beside-woman-768x520.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This means that you shouldn&#8217;t wait too long, or you might miss your boat. The optimal time period to ask is about three days after the first date.<\/p>\n<p>This gives her enough time to figure out if she wants to see you again and it&#8217;s not too soon so you don&#8217;t appear clingy.<\/p>\n<p>Texting her the next day is also a good start, simply to check up on her and see how she&#8217;s doing.<\/p>\n<p>Isto permite-lhe desenvolver uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional que aumentar\u00e1 as suas hip\u00f3teses de conseguir que ela o volte a ver.<\/p>\n<p>Try to arrange the date within seven days after the first one. It&#8217;s likely that you&#8217;re both busy, so finding the right time-frame might be a challenge.<\/p>\n<p>If it takes a while to set it up, be sure to keep in touch to stay in her mind and show her you&#8217;re still into her.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever you do, don&#8217;t ask her out again at the end of the first date.<\/p>\n<p>This puts her on the spot and is somewhat awkward. If you&#8217;ve enjoyed a great first date, chances are you won&#8217;t have a problem getting a second one.<\/p>\n<h2>2. O sentido de humor \u00e9 o teu melhor amigo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73298\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-calling.jpg\" alt=\"homem a falar ao telefone no exterior de um edif\u00edcio\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-calling.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-calling-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-calling-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Fazer uma rapariga rir genuinamente \u00e9 uma forma infal\u00edvel de a conquistar num instante. Isto tamb\u00e9m pode ser \u00fatil quando a convidar para sair novamente.<\/p>\n<p>Wondering how to ask for a second date? Tease her in a playful manner! Girls love to laugh, and it&#8217;s much less likely that she&#8217;ll say no if you can make her laugh her booty off.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s another useful insight. As a girl, trust me when I tell you that all women know how important they are. She can see how eager you are for round two, so you shouldn&#8217;t try too hard.<\/p>\n<p>Let her know that you&#8217;d definitely be happy to see her again, but you won&#8217;t be too affected if she says no. That way, the ball is in your court.<\/p>\n<p>If you decide to call her up, let the phone call be chill and with no pressure. Ask her how she is and what she&#8217;s been up to. Maybe throw in a subtle joke that can segway into what you wanted to ask her.<\/p>\n<p>My main second date advice is to not take it all too seriously. Your life doesn&#8217;t depend on her answer. If she says yes, awesome. But if she doesn&#8217;t, life goes on!<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sinais-de-que-o-seu-ex-quer-tentar-de-novo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ser\u00e1 que ela vai voltar? 13 sinais de que seu ex quer tentar de novo<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>3. Ser confiante no que quer<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73299\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-and-woman-on-the-bridge.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher na ponte a falar e de p\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-and-woman-on-the-bridge.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-and-woman-on-the-bridge-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-and-woman-on-the-bridge-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re adamant to meet up with her again, show off your confidence.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t be afraid to say something along the lines of &#8221;<em>Gostaria muito de o voltar a ver<\/em>.&#8221; This shows her you&#8217;re serious in your intent.<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, a conversa de circunst\u00e2ncia \u00e9 uma forma eficaz de desarmar a pessoa e de aliviar o ambiente. Mas, a dada altura, vista as suas cal\u00e7as grandes e pergunte-lhe com toda a confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t create false assumptions that will steer you off your intentions. Her body language will tell you most of what you need to know.<\/p>\n<p>Mas se lhe fizer o pedido atrav\u00e9s de um telefonema, seja assertivo, mas nunca demasiado insistente. Um potencial parceiro diz sim com base na sua confian\u00e7a, n\u00e3o nas suas ideias para encontros.<\/p>\n<p>Ask her as if this is your 10th date together. She&#8217;ll be much more likely to positively respond if she sees how much you really like her.<\/p>\n<p>Ao pensar em como pedir um segundo encontro, tenha em mente que a confian\u00e7a \u00e9 fundamental e que a incerteza \u00e9 desanimadora.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Ter um plano em vigor<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73300\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-watching-tv.jpg\" alt=\"casal a ver televis\u00e3o com pipocas e luzes fracas\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-watching-tv.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-watching-tv-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-watching-tv-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Antes de lhe perguntar, pense num plano para o vosso pr\u00f3ximo encontro. Escolha um s\u00edtio de que ela possa ter dado a entender que gosta muito ou fa\u00e7a algo giro e pessoal.<\/p>\n<p>Assim, quando ela disser que sim, podes surpreend\u00ea-la com a tua ideia fant\u00e1stica. As raparigas apreciam a prepara\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>It shows your commitment and reliability. It&#8217;s reassuring not having to be always on top of things.<\/p>\n<p>Knowing you&#8217;ve got it all planned out alleviates stress off her and makes her look forward to seeing you again.<\/p>\n<p>Even if it&#8217;s just watching Netflix and ordering takeout, she&#8217;ll appreciate it because you initiated the whole thing. Also, low-key intimate nights in are the best date ideas ever!<\/p>\n<p>Transmitir o filme perfeito, preparar o vinho e as pipocas e criar um ambiente rom\u00e2ntico sob luzes t\u00e9nues \u00e9 tudo o que precisa para conseguir um terceiro encontro.<\/p>\n<p>If at the end of the date you don&#8217;t end up getting at least a sweet kiss goodbye, I&#8217;d be extremely surprised.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele-mandou-uma-mensagem-depois-do-primeiro-encontro-mas-nao-desde-entao\/\">Ele mandou uma mensagem depois do primeiro encontro, mas n\u00e3o mandou mais? Eis o que se passa<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong>7 regras de ouro para segundos encontros<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t want to end up on Tinder and having to go back to online dating, it&#8217;s imperative you abide by these golden rules. They are your ticket to a mighty good time!<\/p>\n<h2>1. Don&#8217;t smother her with romance<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73301\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/multiracial-couple.jpg\" alt=\"casal multirracial dentro de uma tenda a conversar com caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/multiracial-couple.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/multiracial-couple-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/multiracial-couple-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s a useful dating tip. Don&#8217;t be overly romantic so soon or you&#8217;ll have her run for the hills. You don&#8217;t need a dating coach to tell you that being all lovey-dovey after one date is off-putting.<\/p>\n<p>Be laid back and let her see the real you. Don&#8217;t pretend to be someone you&#8217;re not and just let things develop organically at their own pace.<\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 a sua grande oportunidade de a conquistar com o seu intelecto e sentido de humor, e mostrar-lhe que o \u00faltimo encontro foi apenas uma fra\u00e7\u00e3o do que este pode vir a ser.<\/p>\n<p>Pode fazer-lhe algumas perguntas perspicazes para o segundo encontro, que lhe far\u00e3o c\u00f3cegas e a levar\u00e3o a abrir-se.<\/p>\n<p>For example, ask her about where she grew up, what her biggest passions in life are, and if there&#8217;s anything she regrets in life.<\/p>\n<p>Estas s\u00e3o suficientemente provocadoras e podem levar a uma \u00f3ptima conversa no segundo encontro.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Deixar a rapariga falar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73302\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-having-lunch.jpg\" alt=\"casal a almo\u00e7ar num caf\u00e9 com a m\u00e3o do homem a apoiar a cabe\u00e7a enquanto ouve\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-having-lunch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-having-lunch-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-having-lunch-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m guessing since your first date went so great, you\u2019re ready to start talking about yourself, thinking that\u2019s the right move. It\u2019s not.<\/p>\n<p>Agora \u00e9 a sua oportunidade de falar menos e ouvir mais. Permita que a sua potencial parceira partilhe as suas pr\u00f3prias hist\u00f3rias e conte algumas piadas.<\/p>\n<p>There are so many fun things you can cover. But it\u2019s wrong to think you\u2019re the only one worthy of talking.<\/p>\n<p>Este \u00e9 o seu momento de brilhar de uma forma que lhe permita ver o homem gentil, paciente e atencioso que \u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Sente-se, ou\u00e7a e absorva tudo. Esta rapariga dir-lhe-\u00e1 tudo o que quer saber sem que tenha de fazer muitas perguntas.<\/p>\n<p>The secret is in listening. When she feels like she\u2019s being heard, chances of her opening up and wanting to see you yet again are enormous.<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/frases-de-engate-que-sao-simultaneamente-insultuosas-e-hilariantes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Mais de 140 frases de engate maldosas que s\u00e3o simultaneamente insultuosas e hilariantes<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>3. Don\u2019t cut things short and show up on time<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73303\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-date-night.jpg\" alt=\"casal a sair \u00e0 noite num bar homem a sussurrar a mulher sorridente\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-date-night.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-date-night-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-date-night-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s always a chance of something coming up last minute that might affect your date. If it\u2019s a work emergency or a family thing, it\u2019s understandable.<\/p>\n<p>But don\u2019t schedule your date around a time you know might not be convenient for you. This is why weekends are your best bet.<\/p>\n<p>Chances of something work-related creeping up are very low, and you can stay as long as you want because you don\u2019t have to get up early in the AM.<\/p>\n<p>Show your girl you care about giving her your time by being in the moment. Don\u2019t think about anything other than being there and having a good time.<\/p>\n<p>Girls can sense when there\u2019s something else on your mind or if there\u2019s somewhere else you need to be.<\/p>\n<p>So just be there in mind, body, and spirit, or don\u2019t bother showing up at all.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Deixar de lado os ex-arquivos e os temas controversos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73304\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-on-date.jpg\" alt=\"casal num encontro com sushi e copo de vinho e jogo de realidade virtual\" width=\"800\" height=\"516\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-on-date.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-on-date-300x194.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-on-date-768x495.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sure I don\u2019t have to tell you this, but oversharing about an ex on your first date or the second is extremely undesirable.<\/p>\n<p>Estes temas devem ser guardados para uma altura posterior, quando perceberem se t\u00eam realmente um futuro, o que tornaria apropriado discutir tais assuntos.<\/p>\n<p>Veja as coisas desta forma. Como se sentiria se o seu par continuasse a falar do ex dela e de tudo o que gosta\/despreza nele?<\/p>\n<p>My guess is that you\u2019d feel overwhelmed, insecure, and unsure how to respond. Ex-files are for a later time with good reason!<\/p>\n<p>Now is the time to get to know each other, open up, and figure out if there\u2019s a spark between you two!<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, evite falar do seu ex, de pol\u00edtica, de finan\u00e7as ou de qualquer outro t\u00f3pico possivelmente arriscado sobre o qual possa encontrar opini\u00f5es opostas. O segundo encontro \u00e9 sobre divers\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Don\u2019t get distracted by your phone<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73305\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/uncomfortable-woman-dating.jpg\" alt=\"mulher desconfort\u00e1vel a namorar um homem ocupado a atender uma chamada do telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/uncomfortable-woman-dating.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/uncomfortable-woman-dating-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/uncomfortable-woman-dating-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>To me, there\u2019s nothing more infuriating or disrespectful than going on a date with someone who can\u2019t lay off their phone. Seriously?<\/p>\n<p>You want to have a conversation, get to know me, and get another date by grabbing your phone every 10 minutes? I don\u2019t think so.<\/p>\n<p>Take it from a girl who knows what she\u2019s talking about. We HATE it when the guy pays more attention to their smartphone than us.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s okay if you don\u2019t want to see me again, but why did you ask me out just to ignore me? Am I right?<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, deixe o seu telem\u00f3vel no sil\u00eancio e dedique a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o a ela!<\/p>\n<p>Respeite-a o suficiente para lhe mostrar dec\u00eancia comum e para a envolver numa conversa de qualidade. Se a queres voltar a ver, esta \u00e9 a \u00fanica forma.<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-saber-se-a-tua-paixao-gosta-de-ti\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Como saber se a sua paix\u00e3o gosta de voc\u00ea: 13 sinais de que ela est\u00e1 a fim de voc\u00ea<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>6. Ter olhos s\u00f3 para ela<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73306\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-having-a-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"casal a tomar um caf\u00e9 num caf\u00e9 fora do edif\u00edcio\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-having-a-coffee.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-having-a-coffee-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-having-a-coffee-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In translation \u2013 don\u2019t look at every hot girl that walks by. Don\u2019t make your date feel unworthy of your attention because you can\u2019t resist seeing a fine piece of ass.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s extremely impolite in any social situation, but when you\u2019re on a date, it\u2019s the biggest no.<\/p>\n<p>Have eyes only for the girl in front of you. Don\u2019t look at anyone else unless just to say hi to someone you may know.<\/p>\n<p>As a girl who\u2019s been treated this way more than a few times, trust me when I tell you it sucks.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t even know what goes through the girl\u2019s mind when she sees you all flirtatious with other girls or how insignificant it makes her feel.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re on a date with someone, be with them. Show them the respect they deserve by being interested in only them.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t have to put up with this behavior. Don\u2019t be surprised if you don\u2019t hear from her ever again if you keep letting your eyes wander.<\/p>\n<p>Olhe para ela quando fala com ela e esteja genuinamente presente. Deixe-a ser vista, ouvida e apreciada.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Seja gentil e elogie-a<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73307\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-with-bunch-of-red-roses.jpg\" alt=\"homem com um ramo de rosas vermelhas oferecido a uma mulher de vestido branco\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-with-bunch-of-red-roses.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-with-bunch-of-red-roses-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-with-bunch-of-red-roses-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You know what they say: Kindness never goes out of style! Throw in a few compliments too, and you&#8217;re golden.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s really reassuring when you\u2019re treated with respect, kindness, and generosity without expecting much in return.<\/p>\n<p>Normalmente, os rapazes comportam-se de uma certa maneira porque esperam uma certa coisa (que uma rapariga d\u00ea nas vistas).<\/p>\n<p>This is why it can get so confusing when a guy is being all nice and stuff, as you never know if he\u2019s trying to get into your panties.<\/p>\n<p>So my crucial bit of advice is to be on your best behavior without expecting anything in return. She doesn\u2019t owe you anything for being kind.<\/p>\n<p>Be a decent human being, it\u2019s that simple. If things go great, you\u2019ll eventually do the deed. But isn\u2019t it nice to just get to know her first?<\/p>\n<p>As raparigas reagem bem \u00e0 paci\u00eancia. Tenha paci\u00eancia com ela enquanto ela se abre lentamente para si e prometo que as coisas v\u00e3o avan\u00e7ar organicamente.<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/tudo-vai-ficar-bem-citacoes-para-dias-maus\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Cita\u00e7\u00f5es de Everything Will Be OK: 90 Cita\u00e7\u00f5es tranquilizadoras para dias maus<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong>Ideias brilhantes e criativas para um segundo encontro<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73308\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couples-wine-glass.jpg\" alt=\"o copo de vinho de um casal chocou com um casal pr\u00f3ximo um do outro num \u00e2ngulo descendente\" width=\"800\" height=\"511\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couples-wine-glass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couples-wine-glass-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couples-wine-glass-768x491.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And now that we\u2019ve covered the basic code of conduct, it\u2019s time to see what your options are with regards to where to take her. Here are some fun ideas:<\/p>\n<h2>\u2022 Do karaoke<\/h2>\n<p>Singing, drinking, embarrassing yourself, and just laughing like crazy is all part of this deal. Doesn\u2019t it sound like fun?<\/p>\n<p>Convide o seu par e divirtam-se \u00e0 grande! A vida \u00e9 demasiado curta para n\u00e3o cantar alguns \u00eaxitos cl\u00e1ssicos da Mariah ou da Whitney, meio b\u00eabado, em frente a estranhos. For\u00e7a!<\/p>\n<h2>\u2022 Happy hour shenanigans<\/h2>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to wait for 8 PM to start your date. Go find a happy hour and enjoy an abundance of cheap drinks and fun conversations!<\/p>\n<p>Life is so much more fun when you don\u2019t play by the rules. Go break some and see how it feels. Have your favorite beverages in hand, watch the sunset, and just talk.<\/p>\n<h2>\u2022 An outdoor concert experience<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73309\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/people-on-concert.jpg\" alt=\"pessoas em concerto a desfrutar do ar livre durante a noite\" width=\"800\" height=\"516\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/people-on-concert.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/people-on-concert-300x194.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/people-on-concert-768x495.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 algum concerto a decorrer na sua \u00e1rea de resid\u00eancia ou nos arredores? Descubra e leve-a l\u00e1!<\/p>\n<p>Uma noite cheia de m\u00fasica ao vivo, sob as estrelas, com algu\u00e9m de quem gostamos \u00e9 t\u00e3o subestimada! Isto criar\u00e1 uma bela recorda\u00e7\u00e3o e uni-los-\u00e1 atrav\u00e9s do poder da m\u00fasica!<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/pessoa-certa-hora-errada\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Pessoa certa, hora errada: porque \u00e9 que nos acontece sempre o mesmo?<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>\u2022 Go to a rooftop bar<\/h2>\n<p>A date with a view to die for\u2026 sounds too good to be true. But it\u2019s totally not! That is if you\u2019re lucky enough to have the pleasure of a gorgeous view where you live.<\/p>\n<p>Simply find the nearest rooftop bar, wine and dine her under the stars with just the right vibe (romantic or lively, whatever you think she\u2019d prefer). This is a winner! Simple, yet breath-taking!<\/p>\n<h2>\u2022 Take her on a scenic drive<\/h2>\n<p>Se achar que o primeiro encontro correu bem, fa\u00e7a algo diferente no segundo e leve-a a dar um passeio rom\u00e2ntico num s\u00edtio especial.<\/p>\n<p>Plan a little picnic at a gorgeous spot (think of it in advance), bring a blanket, some food and wine, and after a hopefully pleasant, fun drive. Just relax under the sky and enjoy each other\u2019s company.<\/p>\n<h2>\u2022 Hit the beach<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73312\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-lunchdate-by-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"casal a almo\u00e7ar na praia com uma empregada de mesa a servi-los\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-lunchdate-by-the-beach.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-lunchdate-by-the-beach-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-lunchdate-by-the-beach-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, opte por esta ideia apenas se o tempo o permitir. Nenhuma rapariga recusar\u00e1 um dia divertido ao sol com um rapaz giro!<\/p>\n<p>Traga protetor solar, snacks e bebidas frescas. Tentem encontrar um local isolado onde possam ter alguma privacidade e vibrar juntos. O dia \u00e9 vosso.<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/beleza-interior-citacoes-inspiradoras\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Cita\u00e7\u00f5es de beleza interior: 60 frases inspiradoras sobre o que realmente importa<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>\u2022 A bonfire night<\/h2>\n<p>I can\u2019t really say what it is about bonfires that strikes me as so magical and full of intimacy, but there\u2019s definitely something there.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s fun, exciting, especially when there\u2019s music and possibly other people around. See if she\u2019d be into a group date, and you may even have a better time than you thought!<\/p>\n<h2>\u2022 Or go wine tasting<\/h2>\n<p>You won\u2019t have to worry about her saying no if you opt for this cultural (yet boozy!) adventure! This is a great opportunity to get mildly drunk and find out a few useful tidbits about wine!<\/p>\n<p>Tem um \u00f3timo pretexto para ter sempre um copo de vinho na m\u00e3o e ningu\u00e9m olhar\u00e1 para si de forma estranha.<\/p>\n<p>If this isn\u2019t an ideal date, I don\u2019t know what would constitute one! My point is \u2013 no girl will say no, so just go for it and seize your moment!<\/p>\n<h2>Em conclus\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73313\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-dating-by-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"casal a namorar na praia com uma fogueira atr\u00e1s deles\" width=\"800\" height=\"511\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-dating-by-the-beach.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-dating-by-the-beach-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-dating-by-the-beach-768x491.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Hopefully, now you know how to ask for a second date, and more importantly \u2013 how to keep the fun going!<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s all about confidence, sense of humor, some creativity, and not taking it too seriously. The girl just wants to have fun with you, and be shown some kindness.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t turn something as fun and exciting as a date into in-depth research that will suck all the fun from it!<\/p>\n<p>Follow the rules I\u2019ve shared, and consider one of my brilliant second date ideas! Be creative and do things differently.<\/p>\n<p>That way, you\u2019ll leave a lasting impact and probably get a third date!<\/p>\n<p>Ladies love to be shown some creativity and manners. Take her somewhere she won\u2019t see coming and treat her like she&#8217;s the only woman there.<\/p>\n<p>At the end of the day, it doesn&#8217;t matter what you look like or what you&#8217;re wearing. If you make her feel safe, comfortable, and special, there&#8217;s no doubt you&#8217;ll be seeing her again!<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/dinamicas-de-relacionamento-o-que-sao\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Din\u00e2micas de relacionamento: O que s\u00e3o e a que estar atento<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73316\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/How-To-Ask-For-A-Second-Date_-Golden-Rules-To-Keep-Things-Going-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Como pedir um segundo encontro: Regras de ouro para manter as coisas em andamento\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/How-To-Ask-For-A-Second-Date_-Golden-Rules-To-Keep-Things-Going-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/How-To-Ask-For-A-Second-Date_-Golden-Rules-To-Keep-Things-Going-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/How-To-Ask-For-A-Second-Date_-Golden-Rules-To-Keep-Things-Going-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/How-To-Ask-For-A-Second-Date_-Golden-Rules-To-Keep-Things-Going-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today, I&#8217;m going to play matchmaker, and teach you all about how to ask for a second date and keep the good times rolling. As a woman, I&#8217;ll offer a new perspective that could make all the difference. I feel like my experience allows me to impart some wisdom and share my second date rules,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":73314,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29640],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-73296","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-seducing-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29640,"label":"seducing women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/How-To-Ask-For-A-Second-Date-Golden-Rules-To-Keep-Things-Going.jpg",800,507,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29640,"name":"seducing women","slug":"seducing-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29640,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Seducing women requires a unique set of skills and mastering lots of dating tips. 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