{"id":7392,"date":"2019-10-25T10:26:46","date_gmt":"2019-10-25T10:26:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7392"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:21:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:21:10","slug":"obrigado-por-me-ter-quebrado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/obrigado-por-me-ter-quebrado\/","title":{"rendered":"Obrigado por me ter quebrado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Acho que devo agradecer-te por me tratares da forma como o fizeste. Porque agora sei como mere\u00e7o ser tratada. Mere\u00e7o um homem que me ou\u00e7a. Um homem que n\u00e3o fa\u00e7a piadas sobre os meus defeitos s\u00f3 porque o faz rir.<\/p>\n<p>I deserve a man who will respect me. I deserve someone who will be there. I deserve someone who will kiss my tears away\u2014not make me cry.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for cheating on me\u2014multiple times. Now I know that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/sinais-de-que-nao-e-uma-pessoa-sem-culpa\/\">n\u00e3o ser suficiente para ti nunca foi culpa minha.<\/a> And thank you for leaving me for one of them\u2014not sure which one. It saved my life.<\/p>\n<p>I should also thank you for not loving me. Now I love myself the way you never could. I love the sound of my laugh\u2014the one you hated. You said I sounded like a starting engine. I love my scars, because they tell the story that I survived. You said they were ugly, that I should cover them. I love my freckles, my weird toes and stretch marks. I love my imperfect body perfectly.<\/p>\n<p>Obrigado por te teres ido embora quando eu precisava de ti. Isso ensinou-me <a href=\"https:\/\/tinybuddha.com\/blog\/what-it-means-to-really-take-care-of-yourself\/\" rel=\"noopener\">como tomar conta de mim pr\u00f3prio.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>E, por \u00faltimo, obrigado por seres a pior coisa que alguma vez me aconteceu. Obrigado por me ensinares o que \u00e9 uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica. Obrigada por me teres feito em peda\u00e7os, s\u00f3 para que eu me pudesse levantar e amar cada parte partida de mim.<\/p>\n<p>I was ashamed for so long, ignoring everything you did to me. Hiding from my family, my friends\u2014just trying to hide the fact that I stayed in such a relationship for so long. But not anymore. I am not ashamed I stayed. I am not ashamed that I trusted you and loved you with all my heart. I\u2019m just ashamed that it took me so long to understand this.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I guess I should thank you for treating me the way you did. Because now I know how I deserve to be treated. I deserve a man who will listen to me. A man who will not make jokes about my flaws just because it makes him laugh. 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