{"id":7402,"date":"2020-09-01T12:48:07","date_gmt":"2020-09-01T12:48:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7402"},"modified":"2022-02-14T23:53:52","modified_gmt":"2022-02-14T23:53:52","slug":"merecem-alguem-que-nao-consegue-fazer-a-cabeca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/merecem-alguem-que-nao-consegue-fazer-a-cabeca\/","title":{"rendered":"Mereces mais do que algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o consegue decidir-se por ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quero que saibas que te compreendo perfeitamente quando dizes que est\u00e1s perdidamente apaixonada por ele.<\/p>\n<p>Eu percebo; ele \u00e9 bonito, descontra\u00eddo e bem sucedido no que faz para viver. Eu sei como gostas de passar tempo com ele.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Nos momentos que passam juntos, h\u00e1 muita qu\u00edmica no ar.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s why I don\u2019t blame you for being <a href=\"http:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/how-to-be-happier-according-to-matthieu-ricard-the-worlds-happiest-man-2016-1\" rel=\"noopener\">a pessoa mais feliz do mundo quando est\u00e1 com ele<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Mas, quero que saibas uma coisa: todo esse brilho nos teus olhos acabar\u00e1 por desaparecer e tudo o que restar\u00e1 ser\u00e1 o teu amor por ele.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, abranda o que est\u00e1s a fazer agora. Eu sei que pensas que ele \u00e9 um homem fant\u00e1stico, mas tu tamb\u00e9m \u00e9s uma rapariga fant\u00e1stica.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que se contenta com menos do que merece?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>You see, you don\u2019t deserve a guy who can\u2019t decide what he wants in his life.<\/p>\n<p>If he wants to be with you then he has to make up his mind about you. Otherwise, it doesn\u2019t make any sense. I am telling you all this because I can see that you are overwhelmed by everything that is happening to you.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t think straight when you are in his company and he pretends that he is having a hard time because he needs to make a decision.<\/p>\n<p>Sabes que mais?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107302\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-frustrated-woman-looks-at-an-angry-man-after-an-argument.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher frustrada olha para um homem zangado depois de uma discuss\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-frustrated-woman-looks-at-an-angry-man-after-an-argument.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-frustrated-woman-looks-at-an-angry-man-after-an-argument-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-frustrated-woman-looks-at-an-angry-man-after-an-argument-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-frustrated-woman-looks-at-an-angry-man-after-an-argument-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-frustrated-woman-looks-at-an-angry-man-after-an-argument-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Choosing you shouldn\u2019t be a decision. It should be as normal as breathing.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ele \u00e9 apenas mais um idiota que a est\u00e1 a seduzir e a contar-lhe hist\u00f3rias bonitas <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/erin-cossetta\/2017\/05\/heres-how-people-try-to-take-advantage-of-you-based-on-your-zodiac-sign\/\" rel=\"noopener\">para se aproveitar de si<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t be crazy enough to let him get away with this.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00e1ra de esperar por ele. A sua indecis\u00e3o \u00e9 uma decis\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>He made up his mind a long time ago but you just don\u2019t get it yet.<\/p>\n<p>He lost you the day that he didn\u2019t choose you. So, don\u2019t be stupid and stick with him.<\/p>\n<p>You have so much to offer to the right one and the right one will know how to make you happy. So, by leaving him, don\u2019t think that you will miss something.<\/p>\n<p>You are just saving yourself from tears. Trust me, because I\u2019ve been there.<\/p>\n<p>Ao ficar por aqui, est\u00e1 apenas a fazer com que a sua agonia dure mais do que deveria.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Est\u00e1 a magoar-se deliberadamente <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/christine-hassler\/you-cant-change-him-so-st_b_927558.html\" rel=\"noopener\">porque achas que ele vai mudar.<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107303\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-sad-girl-looks-out-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"uma rapariga triste olha pela janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-sad-girl-looks-out-the-window.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-sad-girl-looks-out-the-window-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-sad-girl-looks-out-the-window-768x514.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-sad-girl-looks-out-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-sad-girl-looks-out-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tem a certeza de que o seu enorme amor por ele far\u00e1 dele uma pessoa melhor.<\/p>\n<p>Errado!<\/p>\n<p>It won\u2019t, because he is not ready for change.<\/p>\n<p>Ele vai mudar quando estiver pronto para isso, n\u00e3o quando tu quiseres. Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que haveria de mudar por ele?<\/p>\n<p>Ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 algu\u00e9m que mere\u00e7a isso.<\/p>\n<p>You are special and unique just the way you are and you shouldn\u2019t change for anyone but yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t you see that you deserve so much more than he can give to you?<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t you see that a man like that actually doesn\u2019t know what he wants in his life?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Num momento deseja-a e no outro sente que \u00e9 demasiado complicado para ele ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Come on, you don\u2019t need to put up with all that crap. You deserve someone who will choose you every single day.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107304\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-portrait-of-a-romantic-loving-couple-outside.jpg\" alt=\"um retrato de um casal rom\u00e2ntico e amoroso no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-portrait-of-a-romantic-loving-couple-outside.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-portrait-of-a-romantic-loving-couple-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-portrait-of-a-romantic-loving-couple-outside-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-portrait-of-a-romantic-loving-couple-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-portrait-of-a-romantic-loving-couple-outside-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Merece <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/no-mundo-do-tudo-instantaneo-eu-quero-um-amor-que-dure\/\">um amor que perdura<\/a> and the one your whole world makes sense in. Because in the end, love is not so complicated. You love or don\u2019t love. As simple as that.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want you to hate me for opening your eyes now. You will thank me later. I am just saving you from a bad and miserable life with a man who will never love you like you deserve.<\/p>\n<p>Estou apenas a tentar ajudar-te a obteres finalmente tudo o que mereces.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Porque, falando francamente, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/you-deserve-someone-better\" rel=\"noopener\">\u00e9s uma pessoa muito melhor do que ele.<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Eu sei que nunca farias isto a algu\u00e9m na tua vida. Sei que nunca enganarias um homem, jogando quente e frio com ele.<\/p>\n<p>Sei que \u00e9s sincera e essa carater\u00edstica faz de ti uma classe acima de todas as outras mulheres que conheci na minha vida.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, por favor, expulsa-o da tua vida. Mostra-lhe que o amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma rua de sentido \u00fanico.<\/p>\n<p>Tell him that he doesn\u2019t deserve a woman like you, because you are stronger than him, and you could eventually make him feel scared of you.<\/p>\n<p>E quando finalmente o deixarem ir, saiam e celebrem.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Porque a noite em que o deixares ir ser\u00e1 o pr\u00f3ximo cap\u00edtulo da tua vida. S\u00f3 que desta vez espero que seja com algu\u00e9m que valha a pena esperar!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107305 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/You-Deserve-More-Than-Someone-Who-Cant-Make-Up-His-Mind-About-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Mereces mais do que algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o consegue decidir-se por ti\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/You-Deserve-More-Than-Someone-Who-Cant-Make-Up-His-Mind-About-You-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/You-Deserve-More-Than-Someone-Who-Cant-Make-Up-His-Mind-About-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/You-Deserve-More-Than-Someone-Who-Cant-Make-Up-His-Mind-About-You-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/You-Deserve-More-Than-Someone-Who-Cant-Make-Up-His-Mind-About-You-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/You-Deserve-More-Than-Someone-Who-Cant-Make-Up-His-Mind-About-You-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I want you to know that I completely understand you when you say that you are head over heels in love with him. I get it; he is handsome, easygoing and successful in what he does for a living. I know how you like to spend time with him. In those moments the two of&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7402","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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