{"id":74055,"date":"2020-05-22T11:35:49","date_gmt":"2020-05-22T11:35:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=74055"},"modified":"2022-04-26T13:28:38","modified_gmt":"2022-04-26T13:28:38","slug":"ele-esta-a-afastar-se-ou-a-acabar-consigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele-esta-a-afastar-se-ou-a-acabar-consigo\/","title":{"rendered":"Ele est\u00e1 se afastando ou terminando com voc\u00ea? 17 maneiras de saber"},"content":{"rendered":"

Every relationship has its ups and downs and the fact is that all couples have some conflicts and fights; it\u2019s a part of every <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

We all have different opinions and perspectives about some things and it’s normal that we’ll have some disagreements about those things but it doesn’t mean that your relationship is doomed to fail. <\/span><\/p>\n

O importante \u00e9 a forma como lidamos com essas brigas e com elas. \u00c9 preciso ser compreensivo e estar pronto a pedir desculpa e a perdoar o seu parceiro quando ele se desculpa primeiro.  <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, pode haver alturas em que se sinta desligado do seu parceiro sem qualquer raz\u00e3o. Pode ser confuso <\/span>and you will ask yourself, “Is he pulling away or breaking up with me?” <\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t panic right away. There are many reasons why a <\/span>homem puxa<\/span> away and it doesn’t have to mean that he is going to <\/span>acabar consigo<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

That’s not a reason for you to start <\/span>fantasma<\/span> him right away, especially if you’re in a <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trust me, that’s the <\/span>\u00faltima coisa<\/span> you should do because that’s just how you’ll scare him away. Give him space because he obviously needs it. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, if you’re afraid of a break-up and want to know why <\/span>homens puxam<\/span> no <\/span>primeiro lugar<\/span>Aqui est\u00e3o as diferen\u00e7as mais importantes entre o afastamento e a rutura.<\/span><\/p>\n

Afastamento vs rutura<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sometimes it’s hard to tell whether your problems and conflitos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> s\u00e3o apenas tempor\u00e1rios ou conduzem a algo maior. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 especialmente confuso para aqueles que conheceram o seu parceiro numa dessas <\/span>aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros online<\/span> e ainda namoram online.<\/span><\/p>\n

They haven\u2019t gotten to know their partner well enough and they can’t tell whether they’re pulling away to break up with them or if it’s because of something else. <\/span><\/p>\n

No <\/span>lado oposto<\/span>, it may be even more confusing if you’re in a <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura<\/span> because you’ll definitely be afraid of your partner leaving.<\/span><\/p>\n

Isso pode lev\u00e1-lo a reagir de forma errada; por exemplo, dando-lhe uma resposta dura<\/span> tempo<\/span> por se ter afastado. <\/span><\/p>\n

Either way, you shouldn’t be worried. If your man is about to break up with you, it’ll be easy to see those <\/span>bandeiras vermelhas<\/span> em todo o lado \u00e0 sua volta. <\/span><\/p>\n

He is breaking up with you if…  <\/h2>\n

1. Ele tem muitos planos a solo<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Se estiver numa <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso<\/span>, you’ll do most things together. If he suddenly starts making plans on his own, it means that he is doing something he shouldn’t because you probably wouldn’t approve of it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, it means that your partner doesn’t feel comfortable with you hanging out with their family or friends anymore. <\/span><\/p>\n

If he suddenly starts excluding you from his activities or starts choosing his friends over you, there must be a good reason for that. The most obvious one is that he’s just preparing for a break-up. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. He doesn’t have time for you<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, passaram um <\/span>muito tempo<\/span> together. Now, you barely even see him because he doesn’t have much free time to hang out with you. <\/span><\/p>\n

It shouldn’t be like that. If a man truly loves you, you’ll be his priority and he won’t neglect you, no matter how busy he is. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you aren’t his priority, then it means that he isn’t serious about you. If he doesn’t want to make time for you, then you shouldn’t waste your time on him either. <\/span><\/p>\n

3. Ele nunca te telefona primeiro<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 habituada a que ele seja <\/span>o \u00fanico<\/span> quem \u00e9 que manda sempre a primeira mensagem de manh\u00e3 ou uma mensagem de boa noite? Agora isso <\/span>mensagens de texto<\/span> e os <\/span>chamadas telef\u00f3nicas<\/span> pararam de repente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ele nunca <\/span>mensagens de texto ou chamadas primeiro<\/span><\/a> mais, o que \u00e9 o mais \u00f3bvio <\/span>bandeira vermelha<\/span> for you. He doesn’t care about how your day was, nor does he want to talk about his.  <\/span><\/p>\n

4. Ele retirou-te dos seus planos futuros<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Do you remember how in the beginning he used ‘we’ whenever he talked about the future? Now he’s back using ‘I’. <\/span><\/p>\n

It obviously means that he doesn’t see you anywhere in his future. He has plans and dreams but you aren’t a part of those. <\/span><\/p>\n

If he has removed you from all of his plans for the future, it means that he already made the decision to break up but he still isn’t ready to tell you that yet. <\/span><\/p>\n

5. Come\u00e7ou a passar mais tempo nas redes sociais<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Se, por exemplo, ele tivesse uma fotografia de perfil consigo no seu <\/span>redes sociais<\/span> e ele de repente mudou-a para uma em que est\u00e1 sozinho, isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 motivo para p\u00e2nico. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, if he deletes all the photos where you two are together, it’s a clue that he wants to hide that he is in a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se calhar, at\u00e9 o faz para que comeces uma discuss\u00e3o e lhe d\u00eas a oportunidade perfeita para te deixar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se notar que o seu parceiro est\u00e1 a passar mais tempo com o seu <\/span>redes sociais<\/span> do que costumava fazer, deve encontrar uma forma de verificar o telem\u00f3vel dele.<\/span><\/p>\n

Verificar a sua <\/span>mensagens de texto<\/span> first, then his gallery and his call history… Look for any signs that he isn’t being loyal to you. <\/span><\/p>\n

6. He doesn’t want to be intimate anymore<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

A intimidade f\u00edsica \u00e9 essencial para todos os <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/span>. It’s how you show your partner that you trust him and that you care for him. <\/span><\/p>\n

In the beginning, you couldn’t keep your hands off each other but now something has changed. He doesn’t even touch you for a day or even for weeks. <\/span><\/p>\n

Uma coisa que deve saber \u00e9 que os homens podem facilmente <\/span>perder o interesse<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

I agree that there are some other explanations why he doesn’t want to be intimate with you anymore but the most common one is that he is no longer in love with you. <\/span><\/p>\n

7. Est\u00e1 sempre a provocar brigas<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Like we’ve already said, all couples fight and that’s a fact; it\u2019s perfectly normal for every <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/span>. No entanto, se o seu homem come\u00e7ar a discutir por causa de coisas tolas, ent\u00e3o algo est\u00e1 definitivamente errado. <\/span><\/p>\n

He gets upset at the smallest things and whenever you try to talk to him about those fights, it ends up even worse. It seems to you like you can’t have a normal conversation anymore without fighting over something. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 a provocar brigas s\u00f3 porque quer obrig\u00e1-la a acabar com ele, porque \u00e9 \u00f3bvio que n\u00e3o \u00e9 homem suficiente para o fazer sozinho. <\/span><\/p>\n

8. He doesn’t care about your interests anymore<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Do you want to know about all the things that are important to him but he doesn’t care about your interests? He doesn’t care even about your job or how your day was?<\/span><\/p>\n

If you invite him to an event that\u2019s important to you and he doesn’t go, using his busy schedule as an excuse, the truth is that he doesn’t care about you. A guy doesn\u2019t get too busy for a girl he really cares about. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you have to try hard to keep your boyfriend in your life, it’s also a <\/span>bandeira vermelha<\/span> that he doesn’t care about you or that he wants to end your relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

True love is never hard and you should never try to keep in your life someone who obviously doesn’t want to be a part of it anymore.<\/span><\/p>\n

9. Deixou de ser ciumento<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Os ci\u00fames numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o s\u00e3o necessariamente uma coisa m\u00e1, pois mostram que o seu parceiro gosta de si. \u00c9 claro que o excesso de qualquer coisa pode ser prejudicial \u00e0 sa\u00fade.<\/span><\/p>\n

There are some healthy boundaries and you should never let your partner totally control you because he’s too jealous. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se, de repente, ele deixar de ser ciumento e n\u00e3o se importar que saia com outros homens, isso significa que ele perdeu o interesse em si<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can test him. Make him jealous with another man, just to see his reaction. If he does nothing, it is more than a clear sign that he doesn’t have feelings for you any longer. <\/span><\/p>\n

A guy is pulling away if…<\/h2>\n

1. He\u2019s acting distant toward you all of a sudden<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sabes que n\u00e3o fizeste nada de mal, mas mesmo assim, ele come\u00e7a a agir de forma distante<\/a> em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a si. De um homem que partilhava todos os seus segredos consigo, passou a ser algu\u00e9m t\u00e3o distante e frio consigo, como um estranho. <\/span><\/p>\n

First, you have to calm down. Freaking out isn\u2019t going to get you anywhere. I’m sure there is a perfectly good explanation for his behavior, like maybe he has some problems at work. Maybe it’s not you at all. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. He doesn’t text back immediately<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You shouldn’t start panicking if you don’t get a response immediately. Maybe it’s just that your partner is busy at that moment or maybe he needs some time alone. <\/span><\/p>\n

O mais importante \u00e9 o facto de ele acabar por responder \u00e0s mensagens. Isso significa que ele ainda gosta de si, mas talvez s\u00f3 precise de se afastar para pensar em algumas coisas. <\/span><\/p>\n

3. Ele cancela o encontro \u00e0 \u00faltima da hora<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If he becomes too busy to hang out with you and starts using many excuses, it’s a clear sign for you that something is happening and that it’s bothering him. <\/span><\/p>\n

This may be so frustrating for you but still, you have to be full of understanding for your man because you aren’t sure what’s happening.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pode parecer que ele se est\u00e1 a afastar, mas talvez esteja a esconder alguma coisa para a proteger.  <\/span><\/p>\n

4. Ele est\u00e1 a ser reservado<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

This is probably the most confusing one. All of a sudden, he starts hiding his phone or he doesn’t tell you where he is going.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t know what to think, whether he is pulling away or he wants to <\/span>acabar consigo<\/span>? Ou pior ainda, que talvez ele a esteja a trair. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, all you can do is have an honest conversation with him. Don’t start <\/span>fantasma<\/span> ele em <\/span>redes sociais<\/span> ou segui-lo para onde quer que ele v\u00e1. Qualquer uma das duas seria a pior decis\u00e3o nesta situa\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

5. He isn’t the same in bed<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You don’t feel the same spark when you’re in bed. It seems like he has something else on his mind and he becomes distant in bed too. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tenta <\/span>algumas coisas novas para o intrigar<\/span><\/a> but they don\u2019t work either. Sometimes he even goes to bed before you, just to avoid it. <\/span><\/p>\n

You start thinking that it’s you. You think he isn’t attracted to you anymore and you want to work on yourself and change your appearance. <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, working on yourself is never wrong but you won’t make this situation better by losing weight or wearing some hot lingerie. <\/span><\/p>\n

The only way you can fix that situation is to talk to your partner. Ask him what’s happening and why he has distanced himself from you in bed. <\/span><\/p>\n

6. Ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o est\u00e1 atento<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He was crazy about you in the beginning and he wanted to know everything about you. Now, things have changed and he doesn’t even pay attention to what you’re saying. <\/span><\/p>\n

He wasn’t just your love partner, he was also your best friend; someone whom you could tell everything and who was always the best listener. <\/span><\/p>\n

Now it feels like he has just lost interest in you and that he is pulling away because he doesn’t like you anymore. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t even want to talk to him about personal things because you can’t help yourself but feel that you’re only bothering him. <\/span><\/p>\n

7. He doesn’t arrange any of those sweet surprises for you anymore<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sabia sempre como surpreender-te e fazer de ti a rapariga mais feliz e amada de todo o mundo. Ele era <\/span>o \u00fanico<\/span> que manteve essa fa\u00edsca na sua <\/span>vida amorosa<\/span> vivo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Now that\u2019s all gone too. He has even forgotten some important dates and it seems like he has lost interest in you. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you miss those days and want to find out what’s happening with your man, the best solution is to confront him and ask him for an explanation because you definitely deserve one. <\/span><\/p>\n

8. Tem mudan\u00e7as s\u00fabitas de humor<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Se o seu homem est\u00e1 sempre mal-humorado e a lidar com <\/span>as suas mudan\u00e7as de humor<\/span><\/a> becomes frustrating for you, you have to know that you shouldn’t take it personally. <\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe it has nothing to do with you. Maybe your partner is just going through a bad period in his life. And if that is so, he’s going to need your understanding and support. You shouldn’t let him go through it alone. <\/span><\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que os homens se afastam?<\/h2>\n

Penso que a quest\u00e3o mais importante \u00e9 <\/b>porque \u00e9 que os homens se afastam<\/b> no <\/b>primeiro lugar<\/b>. O que \u00e9 que os leva a tornarem-se t\u00e3o distantes e frios para connosco? <\/b><\/p>\n

Em primeiro lugar, nunca se deve considerar que a culpa \u00e9 sua, pois h\u00e1 v\u00e1rias raz\u00f5es para isso <\/span>os rapazes puxam<\/span> away. And the most important thing you should know is that it doesn’t have to mean that he is breaking up with you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o as raz\u00f5es mais comuns pelas quais um homem se torna distante de repente. <\/span><\/p>\n

1. Ele tem problemas no trabalho<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

It’s proven that stress at work can affect your relationship. If you have too many obligations and deadlines, you become moody and tired, which greatly affects your relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

That’s why you should always be a support to your man, especially if he has a stressful job. You have to find some ways to relax him and make him forget about his work when he is with you. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. Ele tem medo de compromissos<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

If he is young, then he’ll definitely pull away the moment you start speaking about making your relationship more serious. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ele \u00e9 <\/span>medo do compromisso<\/span><\/a> and he doesn’t know how to react when you have those talks about the future. So, don’t rush him into anything because once he feels ready, then he’ll talk about the future. <\/span><\/p>\n

3. Ele assustou-se porque as coisas estavam a ir demasiado depressa<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Men prefer to go slowly. You have to let them make the first move. Don’t start talking about the future yourself, especially if you have only been dating for a couple of months. <\/span><\/p>\n

Otherwise, you\u2019ll only scare your man away. Pulling away (and eventually breaking up with you) would seem like the best way out of that situation. <\/span><\/p>\n

4. He isn’t sure whether you’re the one<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

\u200bMaybe he just needs some more time to think about you and your relationship. He isn’t sure if you are <\/span>o \u00fanico<\/span> e ele precisa de algum tempo sozinho para pensar nisso. <\/span><\/p>\n

He’ll pull away for some time and the only thing you can do is give him space. Let him decide, accept his decision and make peace with it. <\/span><\/p>\n

The best way to find out whether he is pulling away or breaking up with you is just by giving him space. Don’t pressure him into anything. When he makes a decision, you’ll be the first one to know it for sure. <\/span><\/p>\n

Open and honest communication is the key to solving all problems in your relationship and it\u2019s also essential for having a <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

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