{"id":74203,"date":"2020-06-01T09:54:30","date_gmt":"2020-06-01T09:54:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=74203"},"modified":"2022-02-25T11:11:50","modified_gmt":"2022-02-25T11:11:50","slug":"o-poder-de-se-afastar-de-um-homem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-poder-de-se-afastar-de-um-homem\/","title":{"rendered":"O poder de se afastar de um homem: Deixe-o ver o que perdeu"},"content":{"rendered":"

Se me perguntarem, as criaturas mais confusas da Terra s\u00e3o os homens, enquanto uma das for\u00e7as mais poderosas do universo \u00e9 <\/span>o poder de se afastar de um homem<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

O cen\u00e1rio \u00e9 mais ou menos assim: <\/span>Telefona-lhe e envia-lhe mensagens com frequ\u00eancia, faz um esfor\u00e7o s\u00e9rio e respeita-a.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

He tries hard until he wins you, and then, a few days or months later, he either barely acknowledges you or he’s a changed man (for the worse). <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Parece-lhe familiar? <\/span><\/p>\n

Pare este ciclo vicioso com Scripts de paix\u00e3o<\/a>. Nenhum homem voltar\u00e1 a tratar-te como uma segunda op\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

E ent\u00e3o come\u00e7amos a perguntar-nos o que fizemos de errado para que ele mudasse assim. E a resposta \u00e9: <\/span>Absolutamente nada <\/b>(pelo menos na maioria dos casos)!<\/span><\/p>\n

And that’s where <\/span>o poder de se afastar de um homem<\/span> comes into the story. Because men often don’t realize the real value of what’s in front of them until a woman reminds them of it.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

When a woman walks away from a man, she is sending him a message that she’s perfectly capable of being on her own and that she doesn’t NEED him, but she WANT(ED) him. <\/b><\/p>\n

Quando um homem se apercebe disso, come\u00e7a imediatamente a pensar no que fez de errado e apercebe-se do erro de tomar uma mulher como garantida e deix\u00e1-la ir. E \u00e9 nessa altura que <\/span>ele come\u00e7a a <\/span>perseguir-te<\/span><\/a>!<\/span><\/p>\n

Seguir ESTE GUIA<\/a> and you’ll become irresistible to him!<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso uma mulher forte para se afastar de um homem e ensinar-lhe uma li\u00e7\u00e3o!<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Mulheres fortes<\/span> don’t beg, they don’t nag, and they don’t dance to other people’s selfish tunes. Instead, they take their well-being and happiness into their own hands. <\/span><\/p>\n

Eles t\u00eam normas e os <\/span>primeira vez<\/span> se repararem que um homem n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a cumprir esses padr\u00f5es, agem.<\/span><\/p>\n

They don’t wait for the man to somehow magically change because they know that the chances of that happening are slim. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pelo contr\u00e1rio, sabem que os homens se apaixonam na sua aus\u00eancia e n\u00e3o na sua presen\u00e7a.<\/b><\/p>\n

Os homens come\u00e7am a respeitar-nos e a tratar-nos como merecemos quando aplicar a regra de n\u00e3o contacto<\/a> e mostrar-lhes que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o vos t\u00eam.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Sometimes that’s the only way to let men know how you truly feel, and what they\u2019ve lost because they didn’t know how or refused to fight for it. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 necess\u00e1rio um <\/span>mulher forte<\/span> para <\/span>afastar-se de um homem<\/span> e ensinar-lhe uma li\u00e7\u00e3o valiosa, enviando-lhe uma mensagem de que ter\u00e1 de melhorar o seu jogo se a quiser de volta. <\/span><\/p>\n

That he will need to pursue her like a real man instead of acting like an immature boy because she won’t tolerate any of it. That he will need to respect her and fight for her because if he doesn’t, someone else will.<\/span><\/p>\n

And that’s <\/span>o poder de se afastar de um homem<\/span>! This power is every woman’s birthright and the key to switching from an almost relationship to a <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quando se deve ir embora<\/h2>\n

Como j\u00e1 foi referido, uma das principais raz\u00f5es pelas quais se deve afastar \u00e9 para ensinar uma li\u00e7\u00e3o valiosa a um homem e evitar potenciais <\/span>desgosto<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deve <\/span>afastar-se de um homem<\/span> para proteger o seu <\/span>respeito por si pr\u00f3prio<\/span> e colocar o seu <\/span>vida pr\u00f3pria<\/span> e a felicidade em primeiro lugar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Afastar-se n\u00e3o \u00e9, de modo algum, uma atitude ego\u00edsta ou cobarde. Afastar-se significa <\/span>amarmo-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios<\/span><\/a> and respecting yourself. It’s one of the best things you can do for yourself and those who care about you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eis algumas das raz\u00f5es pelas quais se deve ir embora:<\/span><\/p>\n

1. He’s taking you for granted<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

First and foremost, one of the main reasons why you should always walk away is if he’s taking you for granted. <\/span><\/p>\n

This problem is getting more and more common, so we could say that it’s a trend (no matter how weird it sounds).<\/span><\/p>\n

Ora, uma das principais raz\u00f5es pelas quais os homens tendem a tomar as suas mulheres por garantidas numa determinada altura da rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a seguinte: <\/span>Because they feel like they\u2019ve won you!<\/b><\/p>\n

Needless to say, men live for chase! It’s in their blood to fight for a woman, to work their magic and win her! It’s in their blood to compete with other men and to be the best; to be the chosen ones.<\/span><\/p>\n

Assim, quando come\u00e7ar a sair com um homem e se ele gostar mesmo de si, far\u00e1 tudo para a conquistar.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Ele responder\u00e1 a todas as vossas <\/span>chamadas telef\u00f3nicas<\/span>, vai enviar-te mensagens de texto regularmente e vai gostar de todas as fotografias do teu <\/span>contas nas redes sociais<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

At\u00e9 morrer\u00e1 por ti, se necess\u00e1rio.<\/span><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 bem, foi um exagero, mas percebem o que quero dizer.<\/span><\/p>\n

E depois, quando um homem se apercebe que uma mulher come\u00e7a a mostrar interesse, que se apaixonou por ele e que pode finalmente chamar-lhe sua, come\u00e7a a tom\u00e1-la por garantida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Porqu\u00ea? Porque ele pensa que, uma vez que a tem, toda a persegui\u00e7\u00e3o acaba automaticamente e tudo o que ele precisa de fazer \u00e9 divertir-se a gabar-se da mulher fant\u00e1stica que acabou de ganhar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas os homens esquecem-se de uma coisa. Esquecem-se de que, quando uma mulher come\u00e7a a sentir-se negligenciada, perde o interesse e afasta-se deles! <\/span><\/p>\n

E adivinha o que acontece quando ela se afasta? O modo de persegui\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 ativado novamente.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. He’s ignoring you (“and was never really into you”)<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When we’re really crazy about someone, we tend to do stupid things (yes, I\u2019m speaking from experience). <\/span><\/p>\n

So, if a man ignores you and is not really into you, you might start thinking that you’re doing something wrong and that if you boost your performance, he will start noticing you.<\/span><\/p>\n

But, this doesn’t happen, of course. The more you shower him with attention or pretend to be his <\/span>melhor amigo<\/span> (enquanto espera pacientemente que ele mude de ideias quanto a sair consigo), mais o afasta de si. <\/span><\/p>\n

Agora, h\u00e1 dois raz\u00f5es pelas quais um homem a pode ignorar<\/a>:<\/span><\/p>\n

    \n
  1. “He’s not interested in you.”<\/span><\/li>\n
  2.  He’s playing hard to get (faking not being interested in you).<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    As you can see, I put the first point in quotation marks and I did it for the following reason: Sometimes men don’t know whether or not they’re genuinely interested in you because you shower them with too much affection.<\/span><\/p>\n

    In that case, even if they are really crazy about you (or were), they will gradually start losing interest because you’re the one pursuing them when it should be the other way round, remember?<\/span><\/p>\n

    Also, some men tend to play hard to get for an eternity because they basically want to boost their egos for as long as possible. And that’s why walking away is the best thing you can do!<\/span><\/p>\n

    When you walk away, a man will realize whether he’s genuinely interested in you and he will DEFINITELY stop <\/span>jogar duro para conseguir<\/span><\/a> if he doesn’t want to lose you.<\/span><\/p>\n

    3. He’s sending mixed signals<\/h2>\n

    \"homem<\/p>\n

    Sending mixed signals is the biggest feature of an indecisive man. One day he’s totally, crazily in love with you, and the next day he literally wants to <\/span>romper<\/span> convosco. <\/span><\/p>\n

    Estar com um homem assim \u00e9 como estar num limbo. N\u00e3o faz ideia de como se pode salvar do seu padr\u00e3o t\u00f3xico ou do que lhe deve dizer (especialmente se gosta mesmo dele). <\/span><\/p>\n

    And sometimes, you’re unaware of the fact that he’s sending you mixed signals because you\u2019re busy looking for excuses that will justify his behaviour towards you. But, deep down in your heart you know you shouldn’t do it.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Because he’s an indecisive man playing a game called “mixed signals” and driving you crazy. Now guess what happens if you continue tolerating such behaviour?<\/span><\/p>\n

    N\u00e3o acontece nada. Ele continua a enviar esses sinais confusos e tu continuas a justific\u00e1-los. Mas, adivinha o que acontecer\u00e1 se te afastares de um homem assim?<\/span><\/p>\n

    Revela\u00e7\u00e3o! <\/b><\/p>\n

    There’s only one way to deal with confused or indecisive men and that is to walk away from them. They need to realize what they had and what they lost.<\/span><\/p>\n

    When a man realizes that, he will feel like he’s been given an ultimatum and he will have to make a decision! <\/span><\/p>\n

    He’s either with you or not! He either cares about you or he doesn’t. There’s no <\/span>zona cinzenta<\/span> here and that’s the message you want to send him!<\/span><\/p>\n

    O que acontece quando nos afastamos dele<\/h2>\n

    Once you decide to walk away from him, it’s natural that you\u2019ll start wondering about all the possible outcomes. I mean, it’s what every <\/span>ser humano<\/span> faria. <\/span><\/p>\n

    Doing things on impulse means not thinking in advance about the consequences of our actions, so it’s always good to ask yourself what exactly will change once you perform a certain action. <\/span><\/p>\n

    Neste caso espec\u00edfico, quando se decide <\/span>afastar-se de um homem<\/span><\/a>, \u00e9 de esperar que aconte\u00e7am muitas coisas. <\/span><\/p>\n

    Certamente, o homem entrar\u00e1 num estado de confus\u00e3o e ficar\u00e1 literalmente chocado com a sua decis\u00e3o de se afastar dele.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Depois disso, vem a parte mais importante, que \u00e9 o resultado final. Isto acontece por fases, \u00e0 medida que ele abre os olhos e come\u00e7a a aperceber-se do que perdeu.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Now, it’s important to mention that this is the most common outcome if he’s meant to be with you!<\/span><\/p>\n

    Quando se trata de <\/span>amor verdadeiro<\/span><\/a>, <\/span>almas g\u00e9meas<\/span> enfrentam frequentemente obst\u00e1culos cujo objetivo \u00e9 refor\u00e7ar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e aproxim\u00e1-los.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Nesse caso, afastar-se \u00e9 apenas uma parte dos desafios que se destinam a ligar duas almas. <\/span><\/p>\n

    Eis alguns dos resultados mais comuns que ocorrem quando se decide abandonar a atividade:<\/span><\/p>\n

    1. Ele come\u00e7a a perseguir-te<\/h2>\n

    \"homem<\/p>\n

    Sim! Como j\u00e1 foi dito, os homens VIVEM para a persegui\u00e7\u00e3o! Por essa raz\u00e3o, gosto de os comparar aos gatos. <\/span><\/p>\n

    By observing my own cat, I’ve noticed that the only time she’s interested in chasing a certain toy is when that thing is running away or hiding.<\/span><\/p>\n

    E quando deixo deliberadamente o brinquedo ao lado da gata, ela perde imediatamente o interesse. <\/span><\/p>\n

    Why? Because there’s no chase. And that’s exactly how men function in <\/span>VIDA REAL<\/span> tamb\u00e9m. Acentuei <\/span>vida real<\/span> porque todos os romances retratados na televis\u00e3o e promovidos pelos media s\u00e3o apenas uma ilus\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

    For example, there’s a girl <\/span>mensagens de texto<\/span> um rapaz regularmente e o encher de afeto, ele retribui e acabam por viver felizes para sempre. <\/span>Vida real<\/span> n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim t\u00e3o simples. <\/span><\/p>\n

    Posso confirmar, com base nas minhas experi\u00eancias pessoais, que atrair homens tem tudo a ver com a persegui\u00e7\u00e3o. Por isso, assim que <\/span>afastar-se de um homem<\/span>, d\u00e1-lhe a oportunidade de <\/span>perseguir-te<\/span> back. That’s the most powerful lesson a mente masculina durante o n\u00e3o contacto<\/a> aprende sempre.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Men don’t like it when things are given to them on a plate. They want to earn it, they want to fight for it, and they want to WIN it! <\/span><\/p>\n

    Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that we women are a toy that needs to be won, but that’s just how their brain functions. So, the sooner you accept it, the better.<\/span><\/p>\n

    2. Ele reconhece a tua independ\u00eancia<\/h2>\n

    \"homem<\/p>\n

    Quando finalmente conquistam uma mulher, muitos homens come\u00e7am a v\u00ea-la como sua e apenas sua. Ficam convencidos de que nada vai mudar isso, porque trabalharam muito para a conquistar e agora ela pertence-lhes.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Esquecem-se que a mesma mulher que conquistaram continua a ser independente (ou preferem esquecer-se). Pensam que, independentemente da forma como a tratam, ela vai ficar com eles.<\/span><\/p>\n

    A <\/b>alta qualidade<\/b> a mulher n\u00e3o tem medo de <\/b>seguir em frente<\/b>. <\/b><\/p>\n

    And that’s exactly what every man realizes once a woman walks away from him. They suddenly wake up and realize that you don’t need them to be happy; that you’re perfectly fine on your own.<\/span><\/p>\n

    They see that you won’t tolerate their bad behaviour forever because you have standards. A <\/span>alta qualidade<\/span> A mulher mant\u00e9m-se sempre fiel aos seus padr\u00f5es, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/span><\/p>\n

    If she notices that a man is not reciprocating and she’s not getting what she wants and needs, she walks away. She doesn’t nag or beg him to change or notice her. <\/span><\/p>\n

    By walking away, she’s sending him a message that he no longer has her because he didn’t know how to appreciate her. <\/span><\/p>\n

    And that is a massive shock for every man! They start feeling like they’re incapable of keeping such strong, independent women and that’s why they start working hard to prove otherwise!<\/span><\/p>\n

    Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span>10 raz\u00f5es pelas quais se deve orgulhar de ter ido embora<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

    3. He realizes he’s replaceable<\/h2>\n

    \"homem<\/p>\n

    Uma das maiores raz\u00f5es pelas quais os homens adoram a persegui\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de serem insubstitu\u00edveis. Quando perseguem uma mulher, sabem que t\u00eam de competir com outros homens pela aten\u00e7\u00e3o dela. <\/span><\/p>\n

    They have to be the best because only the best gets to be the chosen one. After a period of pursuit, when a man finally wins a woman, he starts to feel like he’s irreplaceable. <\/span><\/p>\n

    He starts feeling like there is no other man like him out there and that he’s the winner. And he enjoys that title until the woman realizes that she’s not <\/span>ser tratada como merece<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

    So, when you walk away, he suddenly realizes that he’s actually replaceable. He gets scared that you’ll meet someone better and stronger than him.<\/span><\/p>\n

    All of a sudden, the urge to compete with the other fish in the sea becomes strong. No one likes to feel replaceable (and especially men) because that’s a huge attack on their ego. <\/span><\/p>\n

    Os homens querem ser e sentir-se os mais fortes, os melhores e insubstitu\u00edveis. Afastar-se dele vai ensin\u00e1-lo que ele precisa de melhorar o seu jogo e trabalhar mais se quiser reconquist\u00e1-la.<\/span><\/p>\n

    And that’s <\/span>o poder de se afastar de um homem<\/span>!<\/span><\/p>\n

    4. He realizes he’s no longer in control<\/h2>\n

    \"homem<\/p>\n

    Quando um homem a toma por garantida, se faz de dif\u00edcil ou a ignora, ele sabe que tem todo o controlo na rela\u00e7\u00e3o (este aspeto est\u00e1 fortemente relacionado com <\/span>narcisistas<\/span>).<\/span><\/p>\n

    And when you’re in control, you set the rules of the game. <\/span><\/p>\n

    Assim, ele sabe que, independentemente do que fa\u00e7a, a mulher obedecer\u00e1 ou far\u00e1 vista grossa, porque ele sabe que ela gosta muito dele. <\/span><\/p>\n

    Control gives him total freedom to do what he wants and say what he wants, without thinking about the possible consequences because there won’t be any.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Or that’s what he thinks. <\/b><\/p>\n

    When a woman walks away from a man, he realizes that he’s no longer the one in full control. Walking away creates balance in the power between a man and woman.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Ele apercebe-se de que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o se pode dar ao luxo de fazer o que quiser na rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Ele sabe que, para fazer o <\/span>trabalho de relacionamento<\/span>, he will have to roll up his sleeves and prove that he’s worthy of being with her.<\/span><\/p>\n

    He’ll realize that he can no longer control everything, but only his own actions and words, and if he wants to get her back, he will have to improve his performance instead sitting on a throne.<\/span><\/p>\n

    5. Ele percebe que precisa mais de ti do que tu dele<\/h2>\n

    \"homem<\/p>\n

    The first thing that popped into my mind when I wrote this was Ed Sheeran’s lyrics for one of his songs: <\/span>You need me, but I don’t need you!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

    Indeed, there is something utterly powerful in those few words. As long as you’re showering him with affection, dancing to his tunes, and trying to be the best woman he’s ever been with, he will feel like you NEED him. <\/span><\/p>\n

    He will think the essence of your happiness is making him happy instead of yourself. If you beg for his attention when he’s not even trying to notice you, he will think of you as needy. <\/span><\/p>\n

    E sabem o que \u00e9 que os homens fazem com essas mulheres? Eles tomam-nas como garantidas. Todas. \u00fanica. vez.<\/span><\/p>\n

    O poder de se afastar de um homem<\/i><\/b> est\u00e1 em faz\u00ea-lo perceber que ele precisa mais de si do que voc\u00ea dele. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

    When he sees that you’re perfectly capable of being on your own without him, he will know that you’ve never been a needy woman (or that you no longer are). <\/span><\/p>\n

    And that’s when he starts feeling confused and he finally realizes that he needs you more than you need him.<\/span><\/p>\n

    6. Ele v\u00ea-o como uma mulher que valoriza o seu valor pr\u00f3prio<\/a><\/h2>\n

    \"mulher<\/p>\n

    He realizes that you’re thinking to yourself: <\/span>Este <\/span><\/i>o homem n\u00e3o<\/span><\/i>‘t deserve me.<\/span><\/i> A tua atitude ousada de te afastares dele grita o seguinte: <\/span>amor-pr\u00f3prio<\/span>, <\/span>autoestima<\/span>, <\/span>respeito por si pr\u00f3prio<\/span>!<\/span><\/p>\n

    E nenhum homem pode ficar indiferente a este conceito. Afastar-se de um homem que n\u00e3o \u00e9 digno de estar consigo significa valorizar a sua pr\u00f3pria autoestima. <\/span><\/p>\n

    He realizes that you’re not the kind of woman who will wait for an eternity for him to text back, and that you\u2019ll no longer make excuses for his bad behaviour and stay with him no matter what.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Ele come\u00e7a a v\u00ea-la como uma mulher que sabe o que quer e merece. E essa mulher \u00e9 o tipo de mulher mais poderoso! E agora ele entende o erro de perder uma mulher assim. <\/span><\/p>\n

    Ele come\u00e7a imediatamente a rebobinar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o para perceber o que fez de errado e come\u00e7a a elaborar uma estrat\u00e9gia para a reconquistar. <\/span><\/p>\n

    A man who genuinely cares about you will act in the above ways, and if he doesn’t, it means you’re not meant to be and you’re better off without him anyway!<\/b><\/p>\n

    Por vezes, afastar-se de um homem significa <\/span>seguir em frente<\/span> for good and learning valuable lessons that will shape you into the person you’re meant to become – the best version of yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n

    O poder de se afastar de um homem<\/span><\/i> also lies in realizing that you’re not meant to be.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

    Because if he doesn’t wake up and doesn’t realize what he lost, it means he was never worthy of being with you in the <\/span>primeiro lugar<\/span> e provavelmente nunca o ser\u00e1.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Lembra-te: <\/span>If he doesn’t <\/span>perseguir-te<\/span> quando te afastas, continua a andar<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

    \"O<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    If you ask me, the most confusing creatures on Earth are men, whereas one of the most powerful forces in the universe is the power of walking away from a man.  The scenario goes something like this: He calls you and texts you frequently, he makes a serious effort and he respects you. He tries…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":74238,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29630],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-74203","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-no-contact"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29630,"label":"no contact"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/The-Power-Of-Walking-Away-From-A-Man_-Let-Him-See-What-He-Lost.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29630,"name":"no contact","slug":"no-contact","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29630,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Sometimes silence speaks louder than words. Mastering the art of the No contact rule will save you a lot of trouble, so what are you waiting for?","parent":29627,"count":30,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29630,"category_count":30,"category_description":"Sometimes silence speaks louder than words. Mastering the art of the No contact rule will save you a lot of trouble, so what are you waiting for?","cat_name":"no contact","category_nicename":"no-contact","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74203","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=74203"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74203\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/74238"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=74203"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=74203"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=74203"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}