{"id":7421,"date":"2020-07-25T10:56:52","date_gmt":"2020-07-25T10:56:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7421"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:29:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:29:06","slug":"estou-farto-de-esperar-para-ser-alguem-para-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estou-farto-de-esperar-para-ser-alguem-para-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"J\u00e1 estou farto de esperar para ser \"algu\u00e9m\" para ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

A pior parte da vida \u00e9 esperar. A melhor parte da vida \u00e9 ter algu\u00e9m por quem vale a pena esperar. <\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Meu querido algu\u00e9m,<\/p>\n

Nunca fui uma rapariga que apressasse as coisas. Continuei a acreditar que as coisas boas levavam tempo.<\/p>\n

Eu sabia que as coisas pelas quais se esperava muito tempo acabavam por ser as mais preciosas. Acho que a espera as tornou t\u00e3o especiais e preciosas em primeiro lugar.<\/p>\n

Sabes, eu nunca tive medo de esperar. Acreditava na beleza por detr\u00e1s da espera. <\/b><\/p>\n

At\u00e9 que me apercebi que podia ser \u00e0 espera de algu\u00e9m e de algo que muito provavelmente nunca aconteceria.<\/a> <\/b><\/p>\n

E n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de belo em esperar por algo que nunca veio na nossa dire\u00e7\u00e3o.  <\/b>I\u2019m sorry, but giving me just your crumbs wouldn\u2019t cut it.<\/p>\n

I am not the type of girl who is satisfied with the bare minimum. If I am ready to give you all of me, I\u2019d expect nothing less in return.<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

E embora contigo eu estivesse sempre a usar o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o na manga e tu soubesses qual era a tua posi\u00e7\u00e3o em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a mim, eu nunca soube qual era a minha posi\u00e7\u00e3o em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a ti.<\/p>\n

Quando amamos, devemos certificar-nos de que a outra pessoa sabe as coisas que queremos e que est\u00e3o no topo da nossa lista de prioridades. <\/b><\/p>\n

Unfortunately, I don\u2019t think I ever made it to your list to begin with.<\/b><\/p>\n

You held me at arm\u2019s length and that\u2019s exactly where you wanted me to be. Just close enough for you to reach me when you needed me and far enough for me to not be able to get too close to you.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e3o a ver o problema agora?<\/p>\n

If by now you can\u2019t wrap your mind around what you did wrong, then I have no problem pointing out the obvious:<\/p>\n

Queria que me escolhesses a mim.<\/b><\/a> I had no desire to be \u2018another fish in the sea\u2019. I didn\u2019t want to be anybody, Na verdade, eu queria ser algu\u00e9m para ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

Esperei e esperei que fizesses um esfor\u00e7o, que me mostrasses que me vias como eu era e esperei que me escolhesses. Como se estivesse \u00e0 espera de Godot.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No matter how much I was told waiting for you was in vain, I wasn\u2019t gonna listen. <\/b><\/p>\n

I guess I wasn\u2019t ready to let you go. I wasn\u2019t ready to free myself from the idea of what we could\u2019ve been. <\/b><\/p>\n

Eu tinha gravado na minha mente esta ideia de n\u00f3s os dois juntos e esta ideia perfeita de que tu querias mesmo que eu fosse algu\u00e9m para ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

Mas, como j\u00e1 disse, era apenas eu a imaginar-te idealmente.<\/p>\n

And I kept waiting for the ideal you to choose me. My dreams shattered when I realized that you weren\u2019t perfect at all, it was me who made you that way.<\/p>\n

See, this perfect you would never have led me on. This perfect you wouldn\u2019t have given me just enough attention so I\u2019d believe you were into me.<\/p>\n

This perfect you would never have used me the way you used me. It didn\u2019t just occur to me that we could have been something more, you actually made me believe it.<\/p>\n

And right when I got my hopes up, you pulled back. You decided I\u2019d gotten enough love from you and that you now had me for a lifetime.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When I started doubting us, you’d do your magic and I’d fall again for you again.<\/p>\n

I was hooked, truth be told. The naive side of me believed in this dream that I\u2019d finally found someone who cared for me and wanted me.<\/p>\n

O lado que tinha passado por muitas situa\u00e7\u00f5es infernais na vida sabia melhor. E finalmente deixei o outro lado tratar dessas coisas.<\/p>\n

Hoje, decidi que isto ia ser o dia em que deixei de esperar.<\/a> <\/b><\/p>\n

Hoje ia ser o dia em que deixaria de passar um minuto sequer do meu tempo a pensar em ti. <\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to think about the things we might\u2019ve been when you never actually believed we could be a thing in the first place. <\/b><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t beg someone to love me. I won\u2019t beg you to love me.<\/b> Aprendi h\u00e1 muito tempo que n\u00e3o vale a pena tentar fazer com que algu\u00e9m fique.<\/p>\n

I am too valuable to chase someone who doesn\u2019t know my worth and to keep waiting for someone who doesn\u2019t acknowledge my value.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I want to be loved unconditionally and I shouldn\u2019t have to fight so hard for it.  <\/b>Eu valho mais do que isso.<\/b><\/p>\n

Just so you know, whether this was your intention or not, you didn\u2019t get the best of me. You were pretty close, but I got out just in time.<\/p>\n

Waiting for you didn\u2019t leave me broken at the end, but it did teach me a valuable lesson.<\/p>\n

As a matter of fact, I still believe that good things take time. I\u2019m as naive as I was at the beginning of the story, you know.<\/p>\n

I choose to believe in love and in the existence of someone out there who won\u2019t have to think twice before choosing me. I believe there is someone who won\u2019t make love feel so hard.<\/p>\n

I believe there is someone who\u2019ll see my worth and acknowledge my value on his own. <\/b><\/p>\n

I believe that there is someone to whom I won\u2019t be just anybody but who\u2019ll want me to be his everything. That someone is worth the wait. You are not. <\/b><\/p>\n

I still believe good things take time. It\u2019s just that I have come to realize that you\u2019re not really a good thing for me.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, Goodbye My Somebody,<\/p>\n

A rapariga que merecia muito mais<\/p>\n

\"J\u00e1<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The worst part of life is waiting. The best part of life is having someone worth waiting for. My Dear Someone, I was never a girl who rushed things. I kept believing that good things took time. I knew that the things you waited a long time for ended up being the most precious ones….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":116453,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7421","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Im-Done-Waiting-To-Be-Someone-To-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7421","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7421"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7421\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116453"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7421"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7421"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7421"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}