{"id":7430,"date":"2020-10-25T11:28:02","date_gmt":"2020-10-25T11:28:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7430"},"modified":"2022-02-06T17:16:00","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T17:16:00","slug":"a-carta-um-escapou","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-carta-um-escapou\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para a pessoa que fugiu"},"content":{"rendered":"

J\u00e1 passou algum tempo desde que fal\u00e1mos. Sei que afinal querias ser meu amigo, mas n\u00e3o achei que fosse uma boa ideia.<\/p>\n

Sabes, \u00e9 dif\u00edcil ser amigo de algu\u00e9m de quem se gosta mais. <\/i><\/b>\u00c9 como se o teu c\u00e3o morresse e tu decidisses ficar com ele. \u00c9 imposs\u00edvel.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

So don\u2019t cry over spilled milk. You weren\u2019t the right one for me and you told me that in time. Your words about saving me from tears are still echoing around my head.<\/p>\n

I remember the day when you came to me and said that you didn\u2019t feel the same way as you used to. You said that you still couldn\u2019t decide if you needed an emotional partner.<\/p>\n

You were so confused when you were telling me about it and I saw that you cared about me. Unfortunately, that wasn\u2019t enough for our love to last.<\/p>\n

Sabes, \u00e0s vezes ainda penso em ti.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Lembro-me de todos os dias que pass\u00e1mos juntos a gozar a vida. Gosto de pensar em todas as coisas boas que me ensinaste a fazer.<\/p>\n

Lembro-me que me ensinaste a pescar e a fazer uma fogueira no bosque.<\/p>\n

Lembro-me que me ensinaste a conduzir um carro com transmiss\u00e3o manual e a ouvir m\u00fasica ao mesmo tempo.<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m me sinto feliz quando penso em todos os momentos agrad\u00e1veis que te proporcionei, porque te amei mais do que alguma vez pensei amar algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

It is true that I really fell hard for you but I don\u2019t care. Love is not love if it is not complicated. And ours was as complicated as hell.<\/p>\n

Por isso, agora, depois de todo este tempo passado sem ti, tenho de admitir que finalmente me sinto bem na minha pr\u00f3pria pele.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You see, I am writing this letter while sitting alone in the park and enjoying the sun\u2019s rays. And I don\u2019t need anyone else to be with me, because I can finally get that peace that I deserve so much.<\/p>\n

Estou finalmente viver a minha vida ao m\u00e1ximo<\/a> and I don\u2019t feel sorry about my decisions. They were a part of my life and they made me the person I am now.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 pena que n\u00e3o estejas aqui para ver o tipo de pessoa em que me tornei. Mas, devo dizer que quando me deixaste, algo mudou dentro de mim.<\/p>\n

I could have chosen to be a victim, as I had every single reason to do so, but I didn\u2019t. Instead, I decided to fight and to move on with my life.<\/p>\n

Because you only have one life and if I don\u2019t care about myself, nobody else will. I know you won\u2019t<\/i><\/b>.<\/p>\n

In case you sometimes wonder if I would ever accept you back, here is what I would say: \u201cYou lost me the day that you didn\u2019t choose me.\u201d And I was a girl who was so easy to love but unfortunately you couldn\u2019t understand that in time.<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Pensaste que o amor te voltaria a acontecer. Disseste-me que me amavas, mas que tinhas de te ir embora e que, assim que me deixasses, morrerias.<\/p>\n

Deixem-me perguntar-vos uma coisa: \u201cIf you said you would die without me, then why are you still breathing?\u201d<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t see this one coming, right? Well, that\u2019s who I am now, straight to the point, and I wouldn\u2019t change it for anything in the world.<\/p>\n

Now, all those dark things that happened during our relationship don\u2019t look so dark to me now. Because I found my own way and this time it is a way without you.<\/p>\n

Tu \u00e9 que ficaste com medo. Decidiu ir-se embora<\/a> e deixa-me em paz.<\/p>\n

For you, my problems and my feelings didn\u2019t exist because you were so preoccupied with your own problems.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

And I wasn\u2019t one of them. I just thank God that He saved me from you<\/i><\/b>.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t tell you how happy I am to be able to meet new people and enjoy life like I deserve. If I had stayed with you, I wouldn\u2019t have had the chance to do all this.<\/p>\n

Provavelmente, continuarias a ser o centro do meu mundo e a \u00fanica pessoa com quem eu falaria. Mas desta forma, ao perder-te, ganhei muito mais.<\/a><\/p>\n

Por isso, obrigado por teres desistido de mim. Fizeste-me perceber como sou uma pessoa digna.<\/p>\n

Gra\u00e7as a ti, aprendi a amar-me com todo o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e a deixar ir as coisas que me incomodavam no passado. E desta vez, tamb\u00e9m te estou a deixar ir.<\/p>\n

Se foste suficientemente est\u00fapido para te ires embora, eu serei suficientemente inteligente para te deixar ir!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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