{"id":74535,"date":"2020-05-22T11:39:02","date_gmt":"2020-05-22T11:39:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=74535"},"modified":"2022-09-14T08:41:15","modified_gmt":"2022-09-14T08:41:15","slug":"um-encontro-para-tomar-cafe-e-de-facto-a-melhor-ideia-para-um-primeiro-encontro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/um-encontro-para-tomar-cafe-e-de-facto-a-melhor-ideia-para-um-primeiro-encontro\/","title":{"rendered":"12 raz\u00f5es pelas quais um encontro num caf\u00e9 \u00e9, na verdade, a melhor ideia para um primeiro encontro"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As a girl who&#8217;s been on her fair share of (successful and utterly disastrous) dates, I&#8217;ve come to a rather insightful realization. A simple <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">encontro para caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e9 o mais <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ideia perfeita para um primeiro encontro<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ouvir, <\/b><b>primeiros encontros<\/b><b> aren&#8217;t supposed to be about grand romance. If we&#8217;re being honest, they&#8217;re sort of like a <\/b><b>entrevista de emprego<\/b><b> para examinar quem merece um <\/b><b>segundo encontro<\/b><b> e quem precisa de ir embora.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After scouring through a bunch of loud pubs, dive bars, movie nights, and whatnot, it&#8217;s become apparent that if you really want to get to know someone, a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cafetaria<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e9 o caminho a seguir!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primeira vez<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> conhecer uma pessoa \u00e9 a sua oportunidade de deixar uma grande <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primeira impress\u00e3o<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Fazer isso durante um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">copo de vinho<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (or three) is great \u2013 until you get too tipsy and realize you&#8217;ve totally overshared!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">muitas pessoas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Eu sei recorrer a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">encontros em linha<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> tais como <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bumble<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> como forma de eliminar <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vida real<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">constrangimento<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, curioso <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">baristas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">e <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pessoas a observar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> todos os seus movimentos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mas optar por um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ch\u00e1vena de caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> em <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Starbucks<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">encomendar o seu favorito <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">caf\u00e9 com leite<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">e aproveitar o dia descontra\u00eddo <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vibra\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e9 um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">de baixo risco<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> op\u00e7\u00e3o que toda a gente tem de experimentar!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Aqui est\u00e3o todas as raz\u00f5es pelas quais eu acredito firmemente que voc\u00ea deve dar uma chance a isso o mais r\u00e1pido poss\u00edvel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-maneiras-de-fazer-um-homem-perceber-que-esta-a-perder\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How To Make Him Realize He&#8217;s Using You? 10 Ways To Success<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Porque \u00e9 que deve ter o seu primeiro encontro durante uma ch\u00e1vena de caf\u00e9?<\/h2>\n<h2>1. It&#8217;s the most affordable option<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74557 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-cups-of-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher segurando ch\u00e1venas de caf\u00e9 num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-cups-of-coffee.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-cups-of-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-cups-of-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&#8217;s start with the obvious. While there are numerous pros to this ultimate dating idea, price has to play a role.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you opt for this, you don&#8217;t have to worry about accidentally exceeding your intended budget the way you would at a boozy date. If you ask me \u2013 a major plus.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&#8217;s not much I hate more than overspending on a crappy date, knowing I&#8217;ll never see this person again. But grabbing a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ch\u00e1vena de caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is a low investment that you won&#8217;t be sorry you chose.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, it&#8217;s better to think practically. You never know how well the date will go, so you might as well ensure not to pay the price (literally and figuratively).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you have fun, then you may proceed to more elaborate options. But if not, at least you&#8217;ve been financially responsible.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. A forma como tratam o barista diz muito sobre o seu car\u00e1cter<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74569 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-talking-to-barista.jpg\" alt=\"homem a falar com um barista enquanto est\u00e1 sentado \u00e0 mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-talking-to-barista.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-talking-to-barista-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-talking-to-barista-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pessoalmente, afasto-me de pessoas com uma personalidade feia e sem maneiras. E a forma como o seu par trata a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">barista<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> mostrar\u00e1 como eles merecem a sua empresa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u00e3o demasiado espec\u00edficos na sua encomenda e exigem a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">barista<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to go back and forth three times? Do they complain about the service when there&#8217;s nothing to complain about?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pay attention to all of these signs, as they are a reflection of your date&#8217;s true character.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You want a kind, considerate, and humble person who treats everyone with respect. The moment I see them lashing out at the service staff and acting above them, I&#8217;m out the door.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nada pode <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">maquilhagem<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> para uma atitude mais santa do que tu!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/coisas-para-falar-com-um-rapaz-para-o-manter-interessado\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Coisas para falar com um rapaz: 13 maneiras de o manter interessado<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>3. It&#8217;s the best way to get to know them without interruptions<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74575 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"homem a beber caf\u00e9 enquanto est\u00e1 sentado perto de uma mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As you&#8217;re sitting there, sipping your favorite coffee order, listening to light jazz (or some perfect ambiance music mix) there&#8217;s literally nothing to do other than talk!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And isn&#8217;t that the whole point? Talking, sharing, opening up, and getting to know the person you&#8217;re with. While pubs and such can offer a great atmosphere, it&#8217;s almost impossible to hold a conversation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And constantly shouting over other people, loud music, and each other is awkward and doesn&#8217;t really scream &#8220;best date ever.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Veja agora como <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">encontros para caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> s\u00e3o t\u00e3o subestimados? D\u00e3o-lhe a oportunidade perfeita para uma conversa sem interrup\u00e7\u00f5es, sem ter de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">encolher-se<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> a cada dois segundos, sem saber do que o seu par est\u00e1 a falar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&#8217;s time for these types of dates later once you&#8217;ve become familiar with each other. But grabbing coffee is <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">como<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> figure out who this person is and if they&#8217;re worth your bother.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>4. They won&#8217;t meet your drunk alter ego<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74579 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-cups-of-coffee-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de camisola vermelha e homem com ch\u00e1venas de caf\u00e9 na m\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-cups-of-coffee-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-cups-of-coffee-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-cups-of-coffee-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don&#8217;t know about you, but I am a very loud, talkative drunk.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&#8217;s no stopping me when I&#8217;m on my fourth <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">copo de vinho<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. So you might say that there&#8217;s a high risk of oversharing and chasing them away.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Todos n\u00f3s temos um alter-ego b\u00eabado. Mas na minha opini\u00e3o, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primeiros encontros<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> n\u00e3o s\u00e3o, definitivamente, a altura certa para o expor ao mundo. Espere pelo menos at\u00e9 ao terceiro ou quarto encontro.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Beber caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> instead of tequila and there&#8217;s zero chance of having regrets the next day. Your date really doesn&#8217;t have to know about your annoying friend Becky \u2013 or worse off, your cheating ex \u2013 in the first hour of knowing you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por agora, comporte-se da melhor forma e, se o seu par se revelar digno, agracie-o com todos os seus tra\u00e7os de personalidade divertidos mais tarde.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>5. You can easily get out if the date&#8217;s a snoozefest<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74585 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking-.jpg\" alt=\"mulher e homem a conversar num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking-.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking--768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here&#8217;s an awesome thing about a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">encontro para caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Pode ser rom\u00e2ntico, divertido, excitante e oferecer-lhe uma \u00f3ptima oportunidade para conhecer algu\u00e9m.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the other hand, it can prove to be such a snoozefest that you can&#8217;t get out of there soon enough. And when that happens, it&#8217;s so easy to get out!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can order a small coffee until you figure out if you want to stay, and if you don&#8217;t, you can just say you&#8217;re in a hurry and you have to go. Simple as that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But if they prove to be interesting, you can get your favorite order and enjoy their company. Your options are wide open. Nobody expects you to sit there for three hours if you&#8217;re bored.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But in case it goes well, you totally can. That&#8217;s why this is the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">melhores conselhos para encontros<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you&#8217;ll hear today. From now on, I&#8217;m having all of my <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primeiros encontros<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> em <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Starbucks<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Quem \u00e9 que tem tempo a perder hoje em dia?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/como-encontrar-o-poder-feminino\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Poder feminino: como encontr\u00e1-lo, abra\u00e7\u00e1-lo, difundi-lo e us\u00e1-lo<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>6. Coffee&#8217;s actually really good for your system<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74589 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-holding-cup-of-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a segurar uma ch\u00e1vena de caf\u00e9 branco num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-holding-cup-of-coffee.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-holding-cup-of-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-holding-cup-of-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fiquei bastante surpreendido ao ouvir isto, pois sempre acreditei que o caf\u00e9 seria a minha morte (tomo cerca de cinco ch\u00e1venas por dia). Mas um estudo recente da <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nova Iorque<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> O Centro M\u00e9dico Langone da Universidade abriu-me os olhos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Descobriram que o caf\u00e9 \u00e9 extremamente ben\u00e9fico para o seu organismo. Aparentemente, reduz o risco de cirrose, que \u00e9 uma doen\u00e7a hep\u00e1tica grave que pode ser contra\u00edda devido ao excesso de \u00e1lcool!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por isso, beber caf\u00e9 pode potencialmente salvar o seu f\u00edgado depois de uma noite de bebedeira. Al\u00e9m disso, este \u00e9 um facto divertido que pode partilhar com o seu par e impression\u00e1-lo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Portanto, sim, o que quero dizer \u00e9: H\u00e1 tantas vantagens em ir tomar caf\u00e9 com o seu par. E, no meu livro, o seu bem-estar geral est\u00e1 entre as cinco principais raz\u00f5es para o fazer sempre.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Conhecer pessoas no <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tinder<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">redes sociais<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e9 uma grande perda de tempo. As pessoas quase nunca s\u00e3o a forma como se apresentam, e quando nos encontramos em <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vida real<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, it&#8217;s like looking at an entirely different person.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">N\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de uma coisa certa, pegue num <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">caf\u00e9 com leite<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">e desfrutar da sua companhia e da possibilidade de sair se assim o desejar.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>7. N\u00e3o \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio vestir-se a rigor<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74592 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-having-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente e homem a tomar caf\u00e9 ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-having-coffee.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-having-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-having-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ir a encontros pode ser bastante stressante no que diz respeito ao vestu\u00e1rio. Isto aplica-se especialmente \u00e0s raparigas.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Should you wear a dress, maybe a skirt, or should you opt for those hot leather pants\u2026? Ugh, it\u2019s so annoying because you want to get it right yet not seem like you tried too hard.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With this particular date, you don\u2019t have to stress about this! Grabbing coffee is totally casual and stress-free.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most of the time, it\u2019s during the daytime, so you\u2019ll most likely go straight from work (wearing what you\u2019re actually wearing) and it\u2019ll be totally okay.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nobody expects you to get dressed to the nines when you\u2019re meeting for coffee. And this is one of the many pros of a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">encontro para caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Menos uma coisa com que se preocupar!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You just have to sit in the comfy recliner, order a huge caf\u00e9 macchiato, relax, and enjoy the conversation!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your date is most likely to be on the casual side as well. That way, it\u2019ll feel even comfier, and you\u2019ll be much more likely to have a good time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/o-que-os-rapazes-querem-qualidades-atractivas-que-eles-desejam\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O que os rapazes querem: 10 qualidades atractivas que todos desejam secretamente<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>8. It\u2019s an endless source of conversation material<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74595 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-smiling-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente a olhar para um homem enquanto segura uma ch\u00e1vena de caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-smiling-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-smiling-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-smiling-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m all about brutal honesty here. And the honest-to-God truth is that <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primeiros encontros<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> pode ser extremamente complicado.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can be the funniest, most talkative, and open-minded person ever, but being faced with that cute person you\u2019ve been DYING to meet for weeks and stressing over the right thing to say can be a LOT.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Todos n\u00f3s temos tend\u00eancia a ficar parados a olhar sem dizer nada. J\u00e1 me aconteceu a mim, \u00e0 tua m\u00e3e, ao teu melhor amigo e ao teu vizinho do lado.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ningu\u00e9m est\u00e1 isento do desastroso <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">constrangimento<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primeiros encontros<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. So don\u2019t worry, it really doesn\u2019t matter, as the other person feels exactly the same as you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mas o mais fant\u00e1stico de se encontrar num <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cafetaria<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e9 o facto de ter um vasto leque de pessoas e situa\u00e7\u00f5es que podem inspirar uma boa conversa!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Basta olhar \u00e0 sua volta para ver que algu\u00e9m est\u00e1 a fazer algo possivelmente embara\u00e7oso, engra\u00e7ado ou chocantemente corajoso!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Isto pode ser a coisa que relaxa o seu humor e traz algumas reac\u00e7\u00f5es genu\u00ednas que dar\u00e3o o tom para mais conversas!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Talvez o <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">barista<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> just dropped the tray, or somebody is getting proposed to, or there\u2019s somebody talking <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">realmente <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">em voz alta.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Riam-se (mas n\u00e3o de uma forma rude). Alguns sorrisos genu\u00ednos v\u00e3o ajudar-vos a criar la\u00e7os.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>9. Pode incorpor\u00e1-lo facilmente no seu hor\u00e1rio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74599 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-mugs.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher segurando canecas de cer\u00e2mica com caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-mugs.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-mugs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-holding-mugs-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">encontro para caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e9 bastante simples de organizar. Podem ir diretamente do trabalho (os dois), encontrar-se durante as pausas para almo\u00e7o ou escolher uma tarde de s\u00e1bado solarenga.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Firstly, since it\u2019s just coffee, you don\u2019t have to worry about being hungover for work the next day (if it\u2019s mid-week).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And it\u2019s during the daytime, so you\u2019re more likely to be free and still go about your evening plans if you had any.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Secondly, they don\u2019t have to last long (unless you want them to be) so there\u2019s much less pressure when fitting them into your day.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Estamos todos t\u00e3o ocupados que encontrar uma ou duas horas pode ser bastante dif\u00edcil.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And meeting for coffee is so laid back that you\u2019re both totally okay with not having an entire day.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For me, I much prefer meeting someone straight from work as it\u2019s the most seamless option \u2013 I\u2019m already decently dressed and my face doesn\u2019t look like I just woke up.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Significa menos tempo gasto a fazer-me parecer bonita e mais tempo a aproveitar o tempo que tenho para conhecer o homem. Para mim, isto faz toda a diferen\u00e7a.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/frases-de-engate-para-aniversarios\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">90+ frases de engate de anivers\u00e1rio: Desejos de anivers\u00e1rio com um toque de sedu\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>10. You won\u2019t get tired mid-day<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74614 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-talking-to-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem de casaco verde e mulher a conversar enquanto tomam caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-talking-to-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-talking-to-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-talking-to-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O meu hor\u00e1rio de trabalho agitado, os muitos passatempos e a tentativa de me manter ativa na minha vida social s\u00e3o, por vezes, muito pesados para mim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t get me wrong! I love having a fulfilled life! But sometimes, all I want to do (and all I <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pode <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fazer) \u00e9 relaxar no meu sof\u00e1, debaixo de um cobertor, abra\u00e7ar o meu c\u00e3o, ver um filme e adormecer.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You see where this is going, right? Long dates at night make me fight to stay awake sometimes. And when I\u2019m tired, I\u2019m not nearly as charming as I am on my full strength.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s where a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">encontro para caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> comes in! Coffee itself makes you feel refreshed and energized (major plus!) AND it\u2019s not late, so you\u2019re not going to be too tired too soon.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your date will get to see the most charming version of you (at least more charming than the tired one) and you\u2019ll know you made the right call.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let\u2019s not pretend that we don\u2019t all get tired at surprisingly early hours of the evening at times. There\u2019s nothing wrong with that though.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ensure you\u2019re wide awake and go grab that coffee. Easy peasy.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>11. Se correr bem, podem dar um passeio rom\u00e2ntico a seguir<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74620 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-rock-2.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher sentados numa rocha a olhar para o mar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-rock-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-rock-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-rock-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pontos de b\u00f3nus se viver num local pitoresco! Imagina isto.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You meet this great guy (or girl), you both realize you\u2019re (a bit too) obsessed with coffee, your taste in music is the same, and you both enjoy the weirdest things no one really gets!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hours go by that seem like minutes and you suddenly realize you\u2019re already on your third large coffee (uh-oh).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ent\u00e3o, em vez de irem para o quarto, um de voc\u00eas sugere um passeio agrad\u00e1vel, param algures para apreciar o p\u00f4r do sol e, de repente, apercebem-se de como isto \u00e9 confort\u00e1vel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A simplicidade de uma conversa envolvente sobre um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ch\u00e1vena de caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A vida \u00e9 um prazer, um passeio agrad\u00e1vel num local c\u00e9nico e uma oportunidade adicional para criar ainda mais la\u00e7os.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tudo isto pode ser uma realidade! Depois de tomarem um caf\u00e9, podem prolongar o encontro e torn\u00e1-lo ainda mais rom\u00e2ntico e divertido.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Isto pode corresponder a um dos seguintes aspectos <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">os melhores primeiros encontros<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e tudo isso porque o faziam durante o dia, durante o caf\u00e9, o que lhes dava a possibilidade de dar um passeio ao p\u00f4r do sol.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dates don\u2019t get much better than this. Simple, yet so cute, romantic, and full of possibilities. What\u2019s not to love?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/como-ser-bonita-habitos-das-mulheres\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Como ser bonita: H\u00e1bitos das mulheres que se mant\u00eam sempre atraentes<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>12. \u2026and if it doesn\u2019t, you can say it was just coffee and move on!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74658 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-outdoor-2.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher sentados ao ar livre a beber caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-outdoor-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-outdoor-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-outdoor-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes dates just don\u2019t pan out. It\u2019s not you, it\u2019s not them, the chemistry just isn\u2019t right.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s okay! You have to give it a chance before you decide against it. So even if it doesn\u2019t work out, you\u2019ll know you tried.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E com um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">encontro para caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, it doesn\u2019t even feel like a date if it proves to be a disaster. You met up, had a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">caf\u00e9 com leite<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, tried to have a convo, but it just didn\u2019t amount to much. It happens, no big deal, finish your coffee and off you go.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You won\u2019t feel like a failure because it technically wasn\u2019t a grand romantic date, and you\u2019ll be less likely to be discouraged from trying again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Podem ser o prel\u00fadio perfeito para o <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">segundo encontro<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, but some things are just not meant to be and there\u2019s not much you can do but shrug it off, hug it out, and move on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Significa menos <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">constrangimento<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e mais esperan\u00e7a. Gastou cinco d\u00f3lares, n\u00e3o perdeu mais de meia hora do seu tempo e chegou a casa a tempo de ligar \u00e0 sua melhor amiga e contar-lhe tudo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of all the bad date possibilities, this is by far the safest, most painless route that nobody will dwell over the day after. Don\u2019t you agree?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m:<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ideias-para-encontros-matinais\/\"> 30 ideias de encontros matinais para despertar o romance<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><b>Em conclus\u00e3o<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74663 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-chairs-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher sentados em cadeiras a beber caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">encontro para caf\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> n\u00e3o s\u00f3 \u00e9 fixe, extremamente subestimado e cheio de oportunidades, como tamb\u00e9m faz com que um mau encontro n\u00e3o pare\u00e7a nada de especial!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And in my book \u2013 that counts as a major win. Aren\u2019t you tired of those typical movie and dinner scenarios when everything is practically already planned out?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Making sure to eat slowly and politely when you\u2019re <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">faminto <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and wondering if you\u2019re dressed well enough for that fancy restaurant you\u2019ve never been to.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Life\u2019s too short to limit yourself. Go grab some coffee, lounge comfortably in the leather recliner, wear your favorite jeans, and enjoy the idyllic setlist for midday chit chat!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s relaxing, stress-free, and well within your budget. You can get to know this person properly and be able to make a sound decision about seeing them again without wasting five hours of your night.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Give it a go and I promise all you&#8217;ll be able to think about is why on earth you didn&#8217;t think of this sooner!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/o-que-significa-o-amor-2\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O que significa o amor? Tudo o que precisa de saber sobre esta emo\u00e7\u00e3o m\u00e1gica<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74668 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/12-Reasons-Why-A-Coffee-Date-Is-Actually-The-BEST-First-Date-Idea-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"12 raz\u00f5es pelas quais um encontro num caf\u00e9 \u00e9, na verdade, a melhor ideia para um primeiro encontro\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/12-Reasons-Why-A-Coffee-Date-Is-Actually-The-BEST-First-Date-Idea-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/12-Reasons-Why-A-Coffee-Date-Is-Actually-The-BEST-First-Date-Idea-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/12-Reasons-Why-A-Coffee-Date-Is-Actually-The-BEST-First-Date-Idea-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/12-Reasons-Why-A-Coffee-Date-Is-Actually-The-BEST-First-Date-Idea-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As a girl who&#8217;s been on her fair share of (successful and utterly disastrous) dates, I&#8217;ve come to a rather insightful realization. A simple coffee date is the most perfect first date idea! Listen, first dates aren&#8217;t supposed to be about grand romance. If we&#8217;re being honest, they&#8217;re sort of like a job interview to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":74552,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-74535","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/12-Reasons-Why-A-Coffee-Date-Is-Actually-The-BEST-First-Date-Idea.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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