{"id":7498,"date":"2020-07-26T07:40:18","date_gmt":"2020-07-26T07:40:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7498"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:10:52","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:10:52","slug":"os-maiores-cobardes-sao-os-homens-que-partem-sem-uma-palavra","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/os-maiores-cobardes-sao-os-homens-que-partem-sem-uma-palavra\/","title":{"rendered":"Os maiores cobardes s\u00e3o os homens que partem sem uma palavra"},"content":{"rendered":"

Amongst the first words we\u2019re taught to speak are \u2018hello\u2019 and \u2018goodbye\u2019 and people remember to say hello when they enter your life, but they somehow forget to say goodbye on their way out.<\/p>\n

Do you know what happens when someone leaves your life without saying goodbye? Well, if you\u2019ve ever been left this way, then you\u2019ll know. <\/b><\/p>\n

When someone leaves without a goodbye, you\u2019re bound to get broken.<\/p>\n

Maybe the leaving part doesn\u2019t even hurt as much as knowing that someone doesn\u2019t want to be with you anymore and that they didn\u2019t have the decency to say what went wrong to your face.<\/p>\n

And then you\u2019re left your whole life wondering o que correu mal<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Quando as pessoas entram na nossa vida pela primeira vez, cumprimentam-nos com um ol\u00e1 muito confiante.<\/p>\n

O seu ol\u00e1 \u00e9 t\u00e3o forte e t\u00e3o arrebatador que d\u00e1 a impress\u00e3o de que essa pessoa veio para ficar.<\/p>\n

Through the whole time you spend together, they make sure you\u2019re convinced how pure their love is and that they will do anything for you.<\/p>\n

E depois, quando lhes ocorre que chegou a altura de acabar a hist\u00f3ria, v\u00e3o-se embora sem uma palavra. V\u00e3o-se embora como os maiores cobardes que s\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

As pessoas que se v\u00e3o embora sem dizer uma palavra s\u00e3o os maiores cobardes deste mundo.<\/p>\n

When someone walks out of your life without a word, especially if that someone was a person who promised to stay, you can\u2019t help but wonder what went wrong.<\/p>\n

Quando algu\u00e9m nos deixa sem nos dar um adeus adequado, apesar de sabermos que n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim, ficamos l\u00e1 \u00e0 espera de ser encerrado.<\/a><\/p>\n

Fica-se l\u00e1 com uma m\u00e3o-cheia de perguntas que nunca ter\u00e3o resposta.<\/p>\n

And nothing haunts us more than the questions we have that we can\u2019t get answers to.<\/p>\n

Quando as pessoas partem sem dizer uma palavra, continuam \u00e0 espera de um desfecho e continuam a esperar que um dia a explica\u00e7\u00e3o do porqu\u00ea do fim das coisas chegue at\u00e9 elas.<\/p>\n

But the worst part of it is these two questions: \u201cCan I move on?\u201d and \u201cWhat if he comes back?\u201d<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

\u201cCan I move on?\u201d –<\/b> You\u2019re left wondering if you\u2019re allowed to continue with your life.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to be the bad one in this story, you don\u2019t want to let the love go so easily and you don\u2019t want to be the one who ended it, because moving on would mean you\u2019ve made your peace with not having him and you don’t feel ready for that just yet.<\/p>\n

\u201cBut what if he comes back?\u201d –<\/b> The moment someone new walks into your life, you wonder if it\u2019s the right thing to engage in a new story when the old one didn\u2019t end.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 a possibilidade de ele voltar e depois? Ent\u00e3o, recua-se imediatamente.<\/p>\n

You feel like you\u2019re the cheater in the story because the end was never said out loud.<\/p>\n

And you miss him so much because you\u2019re \u00e0 espera de algu\u00e9m que tenha seguido em frente<\/a> no momento em que ele saiu da tua vida.<\/p>\n

A velha hist\u00f3ria terminou h\u00e1 muito tempo, independentemente de ter tido ou n\u00e3o o seu \u00faltimo adeus.<\/p>\n

To him it ended, it\u2019s you who keeps dragging behind and not giving yourself a chance to move on.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t get the closure you needed and you\u2019re left hanging. It\u2019s  ugly and it hurts and it\u2019s full of insecurities and you didn\u2019t deserve to be left without a goodbye, but you can\u2019t change it.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t be hitting the wall hoping the door to your closure will appear all of a sudden.<\/p>\n

If he had the courage to say hello to you, he should\u2019ve had the courage to say goodbye as well. <\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t show courage by jumping off a cliff or driving a car at the maximum speed.<\/p>\n

You show courage by looking the person you promised love to straight in the eye and saying whatever it is that you have to say. You look the person in the eye and you say you\u2019re leaving.<\/p>\n

You explain why things are not working out and you make sure you\u2019re firm in your decision. You don\u2019t send mixed signals.<\/p>\n

There is no getting back together, there are no \u2018what ifs\u2019, there is no giving false hope that maybe the tables might turn in the future.<\/p>\n

Re\u00fane a coragem de se afastar decentemente e de dar um fecho decente \u00e0 hist\u00f3ria. Tudo o resto \u00e9 apenas uma entrega de galinha.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, quando um homem \u00e9 um cobarde<\/a>, when he leaves without a single word, when he can’t give you what you need, be the bigger person than him. Instead of being afraid to move on, instead of following the path that coward, the one who left without a word, trumped for you, be the one to give the final closure to the story. <\/b><\/p>\n

Em vez de ter medo de seguir em frente, em vez de esperar, aceite que as coisas entre voc\u00eas dois acabaram.<\/p>\n

Em vez de fugir de aceitar a verdade, seja o corajoso desta hist\u00f3ria e permita-se n\u00e3o esperar mais.<\/p>\n

Seja ele a despedir-se de ambos e a seguir em frente com a sua vida.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 a melhor vingan\u00e7a para aquele que partiu sem uma palavra e ser\u00e1 a melhor coisa que alguma vez fez por si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

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