{"id":75180,"date":"2020-06-01T10:25:48","date_gmt":"2020-06-01T10:25:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=75180"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:51:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:51:07","slug":"nao-amar-demasiado-cedo-e-nao-confiar-demasiado-depressa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-amar-demasiado-cedo-e-nao-confiar-demasiado-depressa\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o ames demasiado cedo e n\u00e3o confies demasiado depressa - isso vai mudar a tua vida"},"content":{"rendered":"

J\u00e1 alguma vez se apaixonou, confiou imediatamente em tudo o que ele tinha para lhe dizer e imaginou o seu futuro com ele no dia seguinte?<\/span><\/p>\n

Eu tenho.<\/span><\/p>\n

Foi o pior erro da minha vida.<\/b><\/p>\n

O teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o doloroso diz-te que precisa de todo o amor que conseguir. A tua alma cansada est\u00e1 desesperada por qualquer tipo de alimento. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You put on your rose-tinted glasses, the biggest ones you\u2019ve got, and proceed to destroy your life.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, have you ever done this? If yes, you know exactly what I\u2019m talking about and you won\u2019t ever do it again.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you haven\u2019t, learn from my mistake to avoid getting hurt.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It\u2019s impossible to get to know a person that quickly. Honestly, it takes years to know someone, and even then you can\u2019t tell if you know them completely because people change.<\/span><\/p>\n

All the adrenaline in your body clouds your view completely. You\u2019re so excited that you\u2019re finally getting your chance to share all the incredible love you have inside with someone special.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t see any red flags, no matter how they behave.<\/span><\/p>\n

People always tell you who they are, it\u2019s just that you rarely listen. You need them to be good.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You think that everyone in this world is similar to you. From where you\u2019re standing, there\u2019s absolutely no reason for anyone to be deceitful or hurtful to others.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Why would he lie to you? Nope, he\u2019s a super nice guy who\u2019s on the same page as you. He\u2019s happy to build a trusting, healthy relationship with you.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Mi\u00fada, est\u00e1s enganada ou qu\u00ea?!<\/span><\/p>\n

Tudo o que pensa ser verdade nos primeiros dias ou semanas ap\u00f3s conhecer algu\u00e9m est\u00e1 provavelmente longe de ser verdade. <\/span><\/p>\n

Algumas pessoas mentem inconscientemente aos seus potenciais parceiros, tentando apresentar-se da melhor forma poss\u00edvel. Algumas delas, por\u00e9m, est\u00e3o apenas a tentar engan\u00e1-lo intencionalmente.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o importa o qu\u00e3o boa, interessante, inteligente ou excitante ela pare\u00e7a, temos de aprender muito mais sobre ela antes de lhe darmos o nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sim, partilhem o vosso tempo. Sim, falem com eles sem parar. <\/span>Go out, hang out\u2026 but keep your heart safe by whatever means possible.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o se deve confiar em ningu\u00e9m que acabaste de conhecer para tomar conta do que te \u00e9 mais precioso. Ningu\u00e9m.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You might have been waiting for this moment for a while now and be eager to share everything you\u2019ve got \u2013 but hold on. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hold on but don\u2019t hold back.<\/b><\/p>\n

Feel free to share everything about yourself. The right person will love you for who you are. Don\u2019t waste your time trying to adapt to the image of the girl you think he wants to be with.<\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00ea-lhe a oportunidade de a amar tal como \u00e9 mas, acima de tudo, d\u00ea a si pr\u00f3pria tempo para o conhecer tal como ele \u00e9.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Waiting never hurt anyone. You might think that all the most powerful love stories are impulsive and abrupt but that\u2019s so not true. <\/span><\/p>\n

We see all those \u2018\u2019fell in love the second they met\u2019\u2019 scenarios in the movies but let me tell you something.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

In a movie, we only see one part of the story \u2013 the most exciting, interesting part. We rarely see what happens afterward, when everything starts falling apart \u2013 and it most certainly does at some point. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t try to replicate anyone\u2019s love. You do you.<\/span><\/p>\n

True love, devotion, and honesty take time. This is what you\u2019re after, right? No one should ever get a chance to break your heart. <\/b><\/p>\n

By trusting someone too soon, by loving them too soon you are asking for trouble. Respect yourself and know your own worth \u2013 don\u2019t let anyone fool you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Reconsider your choices, think about your options, don\u2019t start thinking that it\u2019s now or never.<\/span><\/p>\n

Be cautious, because what you’re giving him is the power to destroy you. Make absolutely sure he won\u2019t.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Have you ever fallen in love, immediately trusted everything he had to say, and imagined your future with him the next day? I have. It was the worst mistake of my life. Your aching heart tells you that it needs all the love it can get. Your tired soul is desperate for any kind of…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":75194,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-75180","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Don\u2019t-Love-Too-Soon-And-Don\u2019t-Trust-Too-Fast-\u2013-It\u2019ll-Change-Your-Life.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/75180","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=75180"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/75180\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/75194"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=75180"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=75180"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=75180"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}