{"id":7522,"date":"2020-09-26T11:45:35","date_gmt":"2020-09-26T11:45:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7522"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:31:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:31:06","slug":"carta-aberta-quase-namorado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/carta-aberta-quase-namorado\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta aberta ao meu quase namorado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Haver\u00e1 alguma palavra mais triste para descrever o amor do que \u2018almost\u2019 <\/i> ?<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1vamos quase juntos. Quase nos am\u00e1vamos. Quase t\u00ednhamos algo especial. Est\u00e1vamos quase a ser felizes.<\/p>\n

I think about you a lot, probably more than I should. I can\u2019t really put my finger on when it all finished. I think it happened gradually. A goodbye without a proper goodbye just sneaked up on me and I didn\u2019t even see it coming.<\/p>\n

Divertimo-nos muito juntos. Pod\u00edamos falar sobre tudo. Era t\u00e3o f\u00e1cil estar contigo, falar contigo, e parecia que nos conhec\u00edamos h\u00e1 metade da nossa vida.<\/p>\n

Nunca me abri a ningu\u00e9m como me abri a ti. Todas as minhas paredes ca\u00edram, e \u00e9 por isso que agora me d\u00f3i tanto.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Partilh\u00e1mos tantas recorda\u00e7\u00f5es fant\u00e1sticas juntos.<\/p>\n

I think my favorite one is that summer night. You know I am not a romantic type; I like to keep things real. That\u2019s why it\u2019s funny that this one is my favorite one. But that night was so romantic, in our own style, and it meant so much.<\/p>\n

Lembras-te de n\u00f3s os dois deitados na praia, a ver estrelas cadentes? A beijarmo-nos. Rindo. A desfrutar. A pedir desejos.<\/p>\n

Maybe I should\u2019ve made a wish right then and there for us to be together. But, I didn\u2019t. I thought I had you already. I guess I thought wrong.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

I am not writing this to make you feel bad or to reminisce. I don\u2019t even know if you will find yourself in these words, even though I hope you will, just so you can remember too.<\/p>\n

Estou a escrever isto para me ajudar a deixar-te ir. Talvez se eu deixar tudo sair, se eu escrever tudo, isso me ajude a curar e a seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t figure out why you left. I know that we had it good. I hadn\u2019t seen anything that would indicate that you were leaving. We were so close and then you suddenly come\u00e7ou a recuar.<\/a><\/p>\n

I guess you were scared of something. Maybe we were moving too fast. Maybe I wasn\u2019t the right girl for you. Maybe it wasn\u2019t meant to be. Maybe\u2026<\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ainda me pergunto se poderia ter feito algo diferente. Teria mudado o resultado? E se eu tivesse olhado mais de perto? Teria visto que se ia embora? Haveria alguma coisa que eu pudesse ter dito para te fazer mudar de ideias? E se eu estivesse menos apaixonado por ti, ser\u00e1 que isso te teria feito ficar? E se tivesses falado comigo? What if\u2026 <\/i><\/p>\n

So many maybes and so many more what ifs. I can\u2019t really figure out which ones hurt more. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I guess it\u2019s like that with uncertainty – it hurts more than concreteness. I just know for a fact that you were somebody that I used to know; somebody I shared everything with; somebody who made a great impact on me. You were somebody who was entirely mine but never truly mine.<\/p>\n

Now all my maybes and what ifs are going to stay unanswered. And you know what? That\u2019s OK.<\/p>\n

Porque depois de me fazer estas perguntas, depois de escrever isto, percebo que a \u00fanica resposta \u00e9 que te foste embora. E ao ires embora mostraste-me que mere\u00e7o melhor. Eu mere\u00e7o algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o tenha medo de sentir. Algu\u00e9m que se empenhe a fundo e n\u00e3o tenha medo de se comprometer.<\/p>\n

Eu mere\u00e7o o tipo de amor que fica para sempre. Eu mere\u00e7o mais do que quase. Para ser honesta, querida, eu mere\u00e7o algu\u00e9m melhor do que tu.  <\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Is there any sadder word to describe love than \u2018almost\u2019 ? We were almost together. We almost loved each other. We almost had something special. We were almost happy. I think about you a lot, probably more than I should. I can\u2019t really put my finger on when it all finished. I think it happened…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":118263,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7522","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/An-Open-Letter-To-My-Almost-Boyfriend-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7522","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7522"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7522\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/118263"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7522"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7522"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7522"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}