{"id":75225,"date":"2020-05-22T11:36:48","date_gmt":"2020-05-22T11:36:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=75225"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:56:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:56:11","slug":"o-verdadeiro-amor-aceita-nos-tal-como-somos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-verdadeiro-amor-aceita-nos-tal-como-somos\/","title":{"rendered":"O verdadeiro amor aceita-te como \u00e9s, n\u00e3o te compara com os outros"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">N\u00e3o aceitem um amor pela metade. O amor deve ser sempre inteiro.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don\u2019t have to make your life more complicated than it is. I learned that the hard way, but now I know: When you feel something\u2019s off \u2013 deep in your heart \u2013 that means you just have to let it go.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s not worth it. I know you love him, but sometimes that isn\u2019t enough. <\/span><b>You\u2019re here to live YOUR life and be YOU. If that\u2019s not enough for him, then say goodbye and move on.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If he\u2019s not able to accept you as you are or communicate things in a respectful manner, there\u2019s no point.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The thing is, you will never stop being you. Yes, people can mature and change in certain ways over time, but for the man who can\u2019t accept and understand your essence, that will never be enough anyway.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You shouldn\u2019t listen about what you should be when there\u2019s already so much of you he can\u2019t see while you\u2019re standing right in front of him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re already enough as you are. Don\u2019t buy into someone\u2019s fantasies they project onto you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74112 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-standing-in-forest.jpg\" alt=\"mulher loira com casaco vermelho numa floresta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-standing-in-forest.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-standing-in-forest-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-standing-in-forest-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>You\u2019re not responsible for meeting the unrealistic needs of a man who doesn\u2019t even try to understand you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There\u2019s so much pressure on women to look and behave a certain way. The last thing you need is to feel that pressure from your significant other.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">True love doesn\u2019t act like that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I know you\u2019re maybe thinking that love I\u2019m talking about doesn\u2019t exist, but that\u2019s only because you\u2019ve never given it a chance as you were too busy trying to be better for someone else.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m sorry to tell you this, but trying to be better for someone else, as well as trying to be like someone else, will never work out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you think that losing a certain number of pounds, stopping yourself from saying what you\u2019re thinking, and having more frequent sex will change things, I can assure you, it won\u2019t.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It won\u2019t because it wasn\u2019t about you in the first place, it was about him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Please don\u2019t sacrifice your uniqueness and authenticity to get approval from someone else. That\u2019s not loving and it\u2019s certainly not self-love either.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Quando nos sentimos vulner\u00e1veis, o amor faz-nos sentir seguros, n\u00e3o abandonados e invalidados.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you have something to say, love listens to you. It doesn\u2019t make you nervous to say what\u2019s on your mind.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>True love doesn\u2019t make you inferior to other women. It doesn\u2019t joke about your insecurities; it makes sure you feel accepted.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> It doesn\u2019t fill your mind with negative thoughts and pretend that\u2019s okay.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">N\u00e3o, o verdadeiro amor baseia-se no respeito m\u00fatuo e ensina-nos a amarmo-nos verdadeiramente a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O verdadeiro amor permite-lhe exprimir-se tal como \u00e9, sem medo de ser julgado. Todos os julgamentos que moldaram os seus medos ao longo da vida devem desaparecer na presen\u00e7a do verdadeiro amor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74119 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-carrying-woman-3.jpg\" alt=\"homem a carregar uma mulher com um top branco durante o dia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-carrying-woman-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-carrying-woman-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-carrying-woman-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Um homem que a ame verdadeiramente ser\u00e1 honesto e respeitador. Levant\u00e1-la-\u00e1 e estar\u00e1 l\u00e1 se cair.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s one of the most important things \u2013 to have a love that\u2019s true, means to endure through tough times and come out even stronger together.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s knowing that without your different and unique traits, you wouldn\u2019t be able to make through challenges. It\u2019s celebrating your uniqueness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Life isn\u2019t always glamorous, but it can be beautiful when we can see past the superficial standards of beauty and success.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>To feel free and loved in a relationship is one of the most fulfilling things a person can experience, but what\u2019s even more fulfilling is to feel the same when you\u2019re by yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, that\u2019s absolutely possible. You can be happy by yourself and feel comfortable in your own skin without anyone else.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t be afraid to step outside things that don\u2019t serve your growth, even if that means leaving relationships and turning your life upside down.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t be afraid to invest in yourself \u2013 that\u2019s not selfishness, that\u2019s your responsibility. You\u2019re given a soul, a body, and a lifetime to explore who you are and enjoy life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Every great change comes with taking a risk, but it\u2019s worth it. Every day you have an opportunity to decide which way to go \u2013 back to your fears or into the growth.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Escolha o crescimento, escolha-se a si pr\u00f3prio e aben\u00e7oe o mundo com algo incompar\u00e1vel. Aben\u00e7oe o mundo consigo mesmo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-74128 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/True-Love-Accepts-You-As-You-Are-It-Doesn\u2019t-Compare-You-To-Others-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"O verdadeiro amor aceita-te como \u00e9s, n\u00e3o te compara com os outros\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/True-Love-Accepts-You-As-You-Are-It-Doesn\u2019t-Compare-You-To-Others-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/True-Love-Accepts-You-As-You-Are-It-Doesn\u2019t-Compare-You-To-Others-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/True-Love-Accepts-You-As-You-Are-It-Doesn\u2019t-Compare-You-To-Others-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/True-Love-Accepts-You-As-You-Are-It-Doesn\u2019t-Compare-You-To-Others-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Don\u2019t accept half love. If anything, love should be whole at all times. You don\u2019t have to make your life more complicated than it is. I learned that the hard way, but now I know: When you feel something\u2019s off \u2013 deep in your heart \u2013 that means you just have to let it go&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":74126,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-75225","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/True-Love-Accepts-You-As-You-Are-It-Doesn\u2019t-Compare-You-To-Others.png",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/75225","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=75225"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/75225\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/74126"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=75225"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=75225"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=75225"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}