{"id":7553,"date":"2020-05-20T13:18:37","date_gmt":"2020-05-20T13:18:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7553"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:26:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:26:42","slug":"10-coisas-incriveis-que-definem-uma-rapariga-durona","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-coisas-incriveis-que-definem-uma-rapariga-durona\/","title":{"rendered":"10 coisas incr\u00edveis que definem uma rapariga forte"},"content":{"rendered":"

In today’s society, it is really hard to be a tough girl because people often misinterpret her tough girl resilience and strength with being full of herself, having impossible standards or being a tomboy.<\/p>\n

a verdade est\u00e1 longe disso!<\/p>\n

After so many years of the ‘damsel in distress’ concept, tough girls have finally taken the throne and showed to the world that they’re perfectly capable of taking care of themselves.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They have shown the world that they don’t need a man to make them happy and that they are not willing to go out of their way for someone to notice them or like them.<\/p>\n

Claro que gostam de ser notados e apreciados, mas preferem ser amados por aquilo que s\u00e3o e n\u00e3o por aquilo que a sociedade quer que sejam.<\/p>\n

Estas raparigas fortes e independentes s\u00e3o verdadeiras j\u00f3ias no mar de falsos ideais e regras impostas pela sociedade<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, quais s\u00e3o as verdadeiras caracter\u00edsticas e coisas que definem uma rapariga dura? \u00c9 algo relacionado com a sua apar\u00eancia, com a forma como anda ou fala?<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o, o conceito n\u00e3o tem nada a ver com ser uma maria-rapaz, ganhar o ouro ol\u00edmpico, ser uma atleta desordeira, ser descuidada ou ter padr\u00f5es imposs\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

Uma rapariga durona \u00e9 uma rapariga forte que mergulha com coragem em \u00e1guas desconhecidas.<\/p>\n

She’s resilient and she knows how to stand up for herself but at the same time, she’s also sensitive and her heart consists of many fragile parts.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She’s not afraid to walk an arduous road because she believes in herself and she’s never willing to give up at the first obstacle.<\/p>\n

And all of this, she had to learn by herself. Life has taught her the most valuable lessons in the hardest ways possible and she’s grateful for every experience, todas as dificuldades e todos os <\/span>desgosto<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Por detr\u00e1s de cada rapariga durona est\u00e1 uma rapariga destro\u00e7ada que teve de aprender a lutar por si pr\u00f3pria num mundo cheio de crueldade e injusti\u00e7a.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Sheis full of respect but first for herself and then for others. She has big dreams and she’s not afraid to fight for the things she believes in.<\/p>\n

She’s careful with whom she spends her time because she values every second of her life and she doesn’t want to waste any of it on those who don\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n

Tough girls are everywhere around us. They are our sisters, girlfriends, our friends, our friend’s girlfriends…<\/p>\n

Podem parecer raparigas normais mas, por dentro, s\u00e3o um verdadeiro milagre e aqui est\u00e1 uma lista de coisas incr\u00edveis que as definem:<\/p>\n

O QUE TORNA UMA RAPARIGA DURA T\u00c3O INCR\u00cdVEL?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Uma rapariga dura s\u00f3 se derrete nas m\u00e3os certas<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Nunca se desvia do seu caminho pelas pessoas erradas.<\/p>\n

So far, she’s learned that no matter how much you give to others, if they’re incapable of recognizing the real value of it, they will never be able to reciprocate.<\/p>\n

E \u00e9 por isso que ela prometeu a si pr\u00f3pria que nunca daria o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o a algu\u00e9m s\u00f3 para brincar com ele.<\/p>\n

Ela j\u00e1 est\u00e1 farta de todos os jogos e dramas da sua vida e n\u00e3o tem tempo para lidar com um ex\u00e9rcito de rapazes imaturos, com fobias de compromisso ou algo do g\u00e9nero.<\/p>\n

Decidiu esperar pacientemente por o homem certo<\/b><\/a> durante o tempo que for necess\u00e1rio!<\/strong><\/p>\n

And she’s perfectly aware of the difficulty of her choice. It’s not easy\u2014she gets lonely often.<\/p>\n

Mas prefere ser paciente e esperar pelo que quer e pelo que merece.<\/p>\n

She knows he\u2019ll be worth the wait and wasting her time on casual relationships is just not her thing.<\/p>\n

Ela \u00e9 honesta e direta<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nBeing totally honest in today’s world equals being one hundred percent vulnerable and ready to be criticized by those who don’t value the real truth.<\/p>\n

Being totally honest is a rare trait to have and that’s why only those brave enough to dare speak the truth have it.<\/p>\n

A tough girl has it too. She is honest and upfront because she can’t stand being fake for selfish reasons or playing any kind of games behind other people’s backs.<\/p>\n

She sees it as the ultimate sign of cowardice and she definitely doesn’t want to be a part of it.<\/p>\n

Ela escolheu um caminho diferente para si pr\u00f3pria, um caminho em que as pessoas podem confundir o seu comportamento com uma atitude de cabra, descuidada ou semelhante, mas n\u00e3o \u00e9 esse o caso.<\/p>\n

Ela escolheu um caminho honesto porque detesta fingir e tudo o que \u00e9 falso nas pessoas.<\/p>\n

She likes to express her own opinions openly, even when people are not quite ready to hear it and that’s why she’s a real gem.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

She knows that her friends value her opinions because there is no sugarcoating them and that’s all she needs.<\/p>\n

Rodeia-se de pessoas que t\u00eam os mesmos valores que ela, porque s\u00f3 elas s\u00e3o dignas de fazer parte do seu quotidiano.<\/p>\n

She knows that only they understand how hard it is to be honest when everyone around you is doing the exact opposite and that’s why she chooses them to help her write the best stories of the miracle called life.<\/p>\n

Ela tem dificuldade em abrir-se sobre os seus sentimentos<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nEla \u00e9 dura por alguma raz\u00e3o. De facto, a vida tornou-a assim e \u00e9 por isso que, por vezes, tem dificuldade em abrir-se sobre os seus sentimentos, o que, na verdade, \u00e9 uma coisa boa.<\/p>\n

Ela criou um escudo protetor \u00e0 volta do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o que a mant\u00e9m a salvo de qualquer dano potencial.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 honesta e franca em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a tudo na sua vida, exceto quando est\u00e1 apaixonada.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

Quando sente algo por algu\u00e9m, tem dificuldade em admiti-lo a si pr\u00f3pria, quanto mais \u00e0 outra pessoa envolvida.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

When she notices that she’s falling hard for someone, she instantly presses the pause button in order to prevent her heart from falling into a trap.<\/p>\n

She might feel more than someone who is forthright in these situations but there’s a valid reason behind her toughness.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 \u00e9 carinhosa quando se sente segura. S\u00f3 consegue dizer aos outros o que sente quando estes a convencem de que os seus motivos s\u00e3o puros.<\/p>\n

Em vez de palavras falsas, a \u00fanica coisa em que acredita \u00e9 no esfor\u00e7o.<\/p>\n

E se v\u00ea que n\u00e3o est\u00e3o dispostos a lutar por ela e a trat\u00e1-la como uma senhora, elimina-os imediatamente do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e da sua mente.<\/p>\n

Em vez de esperar que eles mudem, ela toma as coisas nas suas pr\u00f3prias m\u00e3os e previne antecipadamente todos os danos poss\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t waste time on false friendships<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nNutre a liga\u00e7\u00e3o com os amigos, a fam\u00edlia e as pessoas pr\u00f3ximas porque s\u00e3o a sua maior motiva\u00e7\u00e3o e a maior fonte de for\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

But she doesn’t nourish just any kind of connection. She only focuses on real friendships and people who are worthy of being in her life.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se algu\u00e9m a enganar uma vez, pode ter a certeza de que n\u00e3o ter\u00e1 oportunidade de o fazer novamente.<\/p>\n

Ela valoriza a amizade acima de tudo, mas quando a confian\u00e7a desaparece, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 forma de a reparar.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

No passado, ela teria feito tudo para salvar rela\u00e7\u00f5es que n\u00e3o mereciam ser salvas e, ao faz\u00ea-lo, prejudicou-se a si pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n

She was only focused on other people’s feelings instead of her own and she can no longer let that happen.<\/p>\n

Ela n\u00e3o pode continuar a lutar pelas pessoas erradas apenas para ser rodeada pela sua energia negativa, mentiras e enganos.<\/p>\n

Levou muito tempo a aprender que as amizades se baseiam na confian\u00e7a e que, quando se perde essa confian\u00e7a, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 volta a dar.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 8 coisas que acontecem quando se magoa uma rapariga forte<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Ela \u00e9 confiante e ambiciosa<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nInstead of wasting her time on her browsing history, she’s fully devoted to the present and the upcoming future.<\/p>\n

Ela est\u00e1 l\u00e1 para conquistar o mundo. Tem a sua pr\u00f3pria lista de desejos e objectivos a atingir e tentar\u00e1 e tentar\u00e1 de novo e de novo at\u00e9 o conseguir.<\/p>\n

Ela tem planos para l\u00e1 chegar. Est\u00e1 altamente motivada e apaixonada pela sua carreira e passatempos, por coisas que a inspiram e que significam muito para ela.<\/p>\n

Em vez de arranjar desculpas como a maioria da civiliza\u00e7\u00e3o, ela d\u00e1 o seu melhor para fazer um esfor\u00e7o e lutar pelos seus sonhos.<\/p>\n

And even when things don\u2019t go smoothly and she gets sidetracked, she finds her way back. She believes in herself.<\/p>\n

Ela sabe que ser persistente \u00e9 a \u00fanica forma de progredir.<\/p>\n

Ela sabe que a chave do sucesso \u00e9 continuar a avan\u00e7ar, por mais longe que esteja a meta e por mais dif\u00edcil que seja continuar a andar, correr, trope\u00e7ar e voltar a andar.<\/p>\n

E, quando for mais velha, contar\u00e1 aos netos, com orgulho e alegria nos olhos, a hist\u00f3ria da sua longa caminhada nesse caminho \u00e1rduo; a hist\u00f3ria do seu treino atl\u00e9tico na viagem chamada vida.<\/p>\n

Ela mostrar-lhes-\u00e1 um podcast das suas belas recorda\u00e7\u00f5es, criadas pela sua confian\u00e7a e pura ambi\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Ela tem um exterior duro mas um interior suave<\/h2>\n

\"jovem
\n\u00c0 partida, pode n\u00e3o parecer do tipo afetuoso, mas sente mais profundamente do que qualquer outra pessoa que possa encontrar.<\/p>\n

She is not without emotions (like some zodiac signs out there); she simply doesn\u2019t show them much in order to protect herself.<\/p>\n

Uma rapariga dura passou por muitos desgostos no seu passado e essa \u00e9 a principal raz\u00e3o pela qual mudou.<\/p>\n

She’s no longer the same innocent girl she used to be. People used her good heart in the past but there is no way that they will do it again.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

People expected her to be there for them even when they didn’t deserve any of it but there’s no way they will do it again.<\/p>\n

Ela sabe melhor agora. O seu passado ensinou-a a lutar por si pr\u00f3pria, a proteger a sua felicidade<\/span><\/a> e como reagir.<\/p>\n

As suas batalhas trouxeram-lhe for\u00e7a, sabedoria e novas perspectivas.<\/p>\n

She decided to replace all of her bad stories with the best stories that life can give. From an innocent girl, she’s become a rambunctious athlete\u2014unstoppable, motivated and devoted.<\/p>\n

She wasn\u2019t born tough\u2014life made her tough. But one thing is for sure, she is the best and most loving person you will ever meet!<\/p>\n

Ela confia no seu instinto<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nOur gut is that little voice in our head telling us when something’s right or wrong, when we should do something and when we should retreat.<\/p>\n

It takes a lot of courage to listen to one’s gut and that’s exactly what a tough girl does.<\/p>\n

Ela confia nessa vozinha na sua cabe\u00e7a, que \u00e9 a sua principal b\u00fassola quando se trata da sua vida amorosa e de todos os outros desafios da vida.<\/p>\n

She always relies on her gut no matter what because she knows that it’s her soul giving her a message when something’s right or wrong.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

She relies on her gut until people win her trust and that is how she knows who’s worthy of her time and who is definitely not.<\/p>\n

Ela est\u00e1 em sintonia com o seu eu interior e sabe exatamente como deve agir e que palavras deve dizer.<\/p>\n

Ela confia em todos os seus sentidos porque sabe que s\u00e3o uma d\u00e1diva de Deus e, por vezes, os seus \u00fanicos amigos verdadeiros.<\/p>\n

Ela nunca se contenta com menos<\/h2>\n

\"retrato
\nIf her feelings are not being reciprocated and she doesn’t get the same treatment she’s giving others, she simply walks away.<\/p>\n

She doesn’t waste a second of her time waiting for someone to change and start treating her the way she deserves.<\/p>\n

Uma rapariga dura prefere ficar solteira a contentar-se com menos!<\/p>\n

She can’t stand mediocrity, lack of effort, laziness or excuses. She believes in mutual reciprocity, mutual respect and mutual affection.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

She’s ready to treat everyone with the same amount of respect and that is why she expects the same thing in return.<\/p>\n

Ela nunca se contenta com menos<\/span><\/a> porque ela sabe que merece o melhor. Ela trabalhou arduamente para se tornar na pessoa que \u00e9 hoje.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why she will never give all of herself to someone who is not capable of being there for her and loving her the way she loves.<\/p>\n

She’s patient<\/h2>\n

\"fotografia
\nA strong girl is determined, resilient and sometimes a little bit stubborn but she’s also patient.<\/p>\n

She gives everyone enough time to prove themselves and if they don’t capture her attention, she just continues living her life without ever bothering about things like, \u201cWhat if\u201d and, \u201cI should’ve\u201d.<\/p>\n

She knows that she’s fair to everyone and it’s up to them whether they’re going to win her trust or lose it.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

She’s patient enough to wait for the things she deserves instead of settling for less.<\/p>\n

She knows that it takes time to find someone special and to build something special and that’s why she’s not in a rush.<\/p>\n

Ela sabe que vai encontrar a pessoa certa quando menos esperar e, at\u00e9 que isso aconte\u00e7a, vai continuar a aproveitar a vida ao m\u00e1ximo!<\/p>\n

Tough is the only way she knows and it\u2019s not always easy<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nO problema de ser duro \u00e9 que as pessoas esperam que sejamos duros a toda a hora.<\/p>\n

They expect you to swim in unknown waters for an eternity, as if you’re a part of an Olympic team so you’ll never get tired of it.<\/p>\n

Eles sabem que podem confiar em si e que \u00e9 sempre o mais forte.<\/p>\n

Mas a verdade \u00e9 que mesmo os mais fortes precisam de uma pausa de vez em quando porque, afinal, s\u00e3o apenas humanos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que mesmo as raparigas duronas precisam, por vezes, de uma pausa para recuperarem as for\u00e7as e continuarem as suas batalhas.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why being tough gets tough at times. She gets tired of it and she sometimes feels lonely.<\/p>\n

Ela gostaria de ter algu\u00e9m na sua vida em quem se pudesse apoiar, para variar.<\/p>\n

And even though it’s not easy to be a tough girl, she would never give up on it!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ela nunca substituiria a sua for\u00e7a, independ\u00eancia ou sabedoria por algo falso, porque sabe que nasceu para a grandeza.<\/p>\n

Ela nunca deixar\u00e1 de lutar at\u00e9 alcan\u00e7ar todos os seus objectivos e sonhos.<\/p>\n

She will never pretend that she is something that she’s not and the right people will praise this brave trait that only a few have.<\/p>\n

The right people will respect her and appreciate her for who she really is\u2014a tough girl with a lion’s heart that is both strong and sensitive at the same time.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Quando sair com uma rapariga com uma mente forte mas um cora\u00e7\u00e3o fr\u00e1gil, saiba isto<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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