{"id":7578,"date":"2017-10-27T09:54:21","date_gmt":"2017-10-27T09:54:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7578"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:51:56","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:51:56","slug":"tipo-de-mulher-sabe-ir-embora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tipo-de-mulher-sabe-ir-embora\/","title":{"rendered":"Seja o tipo de mulher que sabe quando se deve afastar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes we don\u2019t even know how deeply we are intertwined with somebody until we try to walk away. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/laura-dave\/5-reasons-to-stay-with-th_b_252796.html\" rel=\"noopener\">Encontramos sempre mais uma raz\u00e3o para ficar. <\/a>Mesmo quando n\u00e3o h\u00e1 raz\u00e3o, encontramos uma, e criamos raz\u00f5es para ficar.<\/p>\n<p>Temos medo de nos sentirmos s\u00f3s. Temos medo que ningu\u00e9m nos ame como eles nos amam. Pensamos que ser\u00e1 demasiado dif\u00edcil come\u00e7ar algo novo, encontrar algu\u00e9m melhor, por isso ficamos. Por vezes, at\u00e9 nos culpamos por toda a dor, abuso e maus-tratos que recebemos deles. As raz\u00f5es s\u00e3o in\u00fameras.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever the reason is, it will lead us just into deeper misery. We want the relationship to succeed so badly that we don\u2019t see that we would be better without them. We are used to holding on so tightly that we stay even when we feel like we are in hell. We are not aware that we make more harm by staying.<\/p>\n<p>Ningu\u00e9m deve ficar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o que parece um inferno.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ser o tipo de mulher que \u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/derek-marshall\/2013\/11\/25-signs-youre-ready-to-end-your-relationship\/\" rel=\"noopener\">pronto para deixar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> porque j\u00e1 n\u00e3o se sente bem com ele.<\/strong> You should feel free and comfortable with someone. The relationship shouldn\u2019t feel like you are being punished for something.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Be the type of woman who doesn\u2019t allow the disrespect.<\/strong> The one who doesn\u2019t tolerate being called stupid, incapable, unlovable. The one who doesn\u2019t allow being shouted at. The one who demands to be valued. Make sure that the last thing he sees is your back.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Seja o tipo de mulher que sabe que ficar s\u00f3 vai piorar as coisas.<\/strong> Ser aquele que sabe que nunca vai mudar. Ele teve tantas oportunidades, que mais uma seria demasiado. Afasta-te desse inferno. A chave da felicidade est\u00e1 nas suas m\u00e3os.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Be the type of woman who won\u2019t buy into his crap.<\/strong> He\u2019ll say sorry, he\u2019ll say he loves you and that he will never do it again. Be the one who knows he will. Because you can\u2019t count the number of times you heard this same sentence before.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Seja o tipo de mulher que o deixar\u00e1 porque estar com ele \u00e9 uma quest\u00e3o de h\u00e1bito, n\u00e3o de amor.<\/strong> Ele \u00e9 apenas algu\u00e9m a quem estamos habituados, n\u00e3o aquele por quem estamos apaixonados.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ser o tipo de mulher que <a href=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/news\/soloish\/wp\/2016\/04\/13\/he-wasnt-my-boyfriend-but-it-still-hurt-like-hell-when-it-ended\/?utm_term=.d7ba97292c97\" rel=\"noopener\">deix\u00e1-lo, mesmo que isso possa doer muito.<\/a><\/strong> You know it won\u2019t destroy you. You might cry but the tears are there because you know your feelings were real, not because you should stay.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Seja o tipo de mulher que arrisca.<\/strong> The one who dares to leave even though it\u2019s more uncertain than staying. Because you know deep down your happiness will be worth it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Be the type of woman who is capable of breaking her own heart by walking away from the one she loves if he doesn\u2019t deserve her.<\/strong> The one who is not afraid to leave because she knows her heart will heal. Be the one who knows she deserves more from life. Be the one who demands honesty, love and respect and who doesn\u2019t settle for less.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes we don\u2019t even know how deeply we are intertwined with somebody until we try to walk away. We always find one more reason to stay. Even when there is no reason, we find one, and we create reasons to stay. We are scared to be lonely. We are afraid that no one will love&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":7583,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7578","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/allan-filipe-santos-dias-365405.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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