{"id":7599,"date":"2020-04-27T10:30:30","date_gmt":"2020-04-27T10:30:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7599"},"modified":"2021-08-11T20:51:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T20:51:00","slug":"7-maneiras-de-amar-as-raparigas-narcisistas-desfeitas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-maneiras-de-amar-as-raparigas-narcisistas-desfeitas\/","title":{"rendered":"7 maneiras pelas quais as garotas quebradas por narcisistas amam de forma diferente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Aposto que pensavas que estavas na a hist\u00f3ria de amor mais rom\u00e2ntica da sua vida<\/a> quando o conheceste.<\/p>\n

Ele ro\u00e7ou em ti e fizeste um clique ou ele beijou-te e o teu mundo virou de pernas para o ar num instante.<\/p>\n

Ficaste sob o seu controlo. Eras dele.<\/p>\n

But that love story didn\u2019t last for long and it most certainly didn\u2019t have a happy ending.<\/p>\n

It took him a long time to lose the mask he put on for his one-man show to impress you, or maybe it\u2019s better to say for his hunt where he captured you in his cruel trap.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He was so addictive. You even knew he wasn\u2019t good for you, but you couldn\u2019t stop. You needed a fix of him and you kept coming back.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ele era t\u00e3o consumista e convincente. As suas mentiras eram t\u00e3o boas que se aproximavam da fantasia.<\/p>\n

His story of his \u2018crazy\u2019 ex-girlfriend was so real that you believed every part of it until you later found out that she was only a victim the same as you were.<\/p>\n

Ele consumiu-te lentamente. Ele preparou lentamente a cena da maneira que lhe convinha. Ele precisava que as coisas fossem \u00e0 sua maneira antes de atacar.<\/p>\n

Fingiu interesse em si e, apesar do seu egocentrismo, fingiu que fez de si o centro do seu mundo.<\/p>\n

Ele queria que sentisses que significavas o mundo para ele, por isso come\u00e7aste a confiar nele.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Quando se confiava nele, o resto era um jogo f\u00e1cil. Ele tinha-te nas suas m\u00e3os. Tu eras impotente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Isolou-a dos seus amigos e da sua fam\u00edlia porque a convenceu de que ele era a \u00fanica coisa que precisava e queria na sua vida.<\/p>\n

Quando finalmente conseguiu fazer-te sentir sozinho neste mundo, atacou.<\/p>\n

The mask was off and suddenly this nightmare of yours became real. A little part of your hell became your reality and you couldn\u2019t escape it. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You couldn\u2019t just wake up. It was real – it was happening.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

These things became your everyday life. You couldn\u2019t escape it. He assured you that you were the crazy one.<\/p>\n

Ele distorceu a sua mem\u00f3ria, a sua identidade e apagou a sua autoestima. Eras uma rapariga vazia que ele alimentou com a sua vers\u00e3o distorcida do que estava certo. E tu acreditaste nele.<\/p>\n

But everything has an expiration date, and so does this nightmare. So many lies got to you in one place in a short period of time and they left a huge impact – they made a huge BOOM!<\/p>\n

Foste abandonado e deixado sozinho<\/a>, but finally free. You are now the girl who still knows how to love but you love differently\u2026<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o fazes ideia do que \u00e9 o verdadeiro amor<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Talvez tenhas tido um vislumbre de como deveria ter sido no in\u00edcio. Ele fez a coisa certa no in\u00edcio, mas era tudo uma mentira.<\/p>\n

It wasn\u2019t because he loved you, it was because he wanted to lure you, to imprison you and destroy you. You never felt real love with him.<\/p>\n

Now that you have met the right man, you don\u2019t know how to act around him. You doubt him and this unknown love you\u2019re receiving.<\/p>\n

Pensa que tudo \u00e9 uma grande charada, uma mentira que lhe vai sair cara mais tarde. O amor dele confunde-a e leva tempo a relaxar e a abrir-se para aceitar algo que merecias desde o in\u00edcio.<\/a><\/p>\n

Tem problemas de confian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t have a voice of your own in your previous relationship. You were just an outline and he held the brush to fill you in with the colors he chose.<\/p>\n

You hated those colors, but you couldn\u2019t erase them until you took control, until you took the brush and repainted yourself.<\/p>\n

Temia-se que se fosse obrigado a reviver tudo desde o in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o havia confian\u00e7a. A vossa \u00faltima rela\u00e7\u00e3o foi constru\u00edda sobre mentiras.<\/p>\n

It will take time for you to trust someone again, but your new man knows that. That\u2019s why he gives you all the space you need.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he doesn\u2019t want to be hurt by the things you do out of fear. He knows you need time to heal and he will be there for you. He will wait for you because he loves you.<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 o cap\u00edtulo do meu new book “On getting over a narcissist “<\/a> dispon\u00edvel na Amazon aqui<\/a> .<\/div>\n

You want to destroy everything that\u2019s good<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You subconsciously destroy your chance of happiness. You try to sabotage the only real relationship you\u2019ve ever had.<\/p>\n

Tentas afugentar o \u00fanico homem que alguma vez te amou verdadeiramente.<\/p>\n

The fact he seems perfect scares you because the narcissistic bastard was also perfect, even too perfect, and you ended up in the lowest pit of your life\u2019s journey.<\/p>\n

You try to ruin your relationship now because you can\u2019t accept the fact that something good is happening to you.<\/p>\n

You were poisoned for too long and you are unable to accept that there\u2019s a clean and healthy life waiting for you.<\/p>\n

Pedes desculpa por tudo<\/h2>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

Estava habituado a carregar todo o peso da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Estava habituado a ser sempre o culpado.<\/p>\n

You actually thought everything was your fault. You were in dead-end situations, where you didn\u2019t know how to react properly, so you reached for an apology every time.<\/p>\n

Essa era a \u00fanica coisa que sabia que seria a \u00fanica coisa que ele aceitaria.<\/p>\n

The man who truly loves you doesn\u2019t let you apologize all the time. The man who\u2019s trying to show you real love is ready to confess when he is wrong. He is ready to say, \u201cI\u2019m sorry.\u201d<\/p>\n

You\u2019re distant<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Demorar\u00e1 algum tempo at\u00e9 que se deixe ir e confie em algu\u00e9m.<\/a> Mant\u00e9m a dist\u00e2ncia porque ainda est\u00e1 a sofrer e n\u00e3o tem a certeza se este homem \u00e9 o certo.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been beaten and you still ache. You don\u2019t want to ache any more.<\/p>\n

Your heart is telling you it\u2019s okay and that you should allow him to get near you, but your mind keeps running away.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry. That period won\u2019t last forever. He won\u2019t let it last.<\/p>\n

He will fight with everything he\u2019s got to prove himself and to gain your trust. He will tie you gently with his love and you won\u2019t be able to escape. He won\u2019t let you.<\/p>\n

You are waiting for a \u2018boom\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

There won\u2019t be any. You are insecure because things are running smoothly.<\/p>\n

He is the most wonderful man you\u2019ve ever met and he keeps showering you with all the love and attention you deserve.<\/p>\n

Nunca p\u00e1ra. Est\u00e1s apenas \u00e0 espera que as mentiras cheguem at\u00e9 ti. Est\u00e1s \u00e0 espera de um tsunami de mentiras mal\u00e9ficas e manipuladoras, mas n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nenhum tsunami \u00e0 tua frente.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que se v\u00ea \u00e9 um c\u00e9u limpo e um mar calmo.<\/p>\n

You keep your guard up because you are careful and scared. You\u2019ve built a wall around you, which he will tear down with his love to find you to cherish and nourish back to health.<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 o cap\u00edtulo do meu new book “On getting over a narcissist “<\/a> dispon\u00edvel na Amazon aqui<\/a> .<\/p>\n

Precisa de se sentir seguro<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Precisas de uma promessa de que tudo vai correr bem.<\/p>\n

You need him to make you believe that and it\u2019s hard because you have difficulties believing and you know it\u2019s not easy for him either.<\/p>\n

Precisas de um lugar seguro onde sejas amado e onde possas finalmente amar de volta.<\/p>\n

Precisas dele porque tens todo este amor para dar. Precisam dele para afastar o medo e, com a vossa ajuda, abrir um novo cap\u00edtulo da vossa vida e das vossas vidas em conjunto.<\/p>\n

He knows you love differently, that\u2019s why he loves you even more. You might have been broken when he met you, but you won\u2019t be for much longer.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"7<\/p>\n

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I bet you thought you were in the most romantic love story of your life when you first met him. He brushed up against you and you clicked or he kissed you and your world turned upside down in a heartbeat. You fell under his control. You were his. But that love story didn\u2019t last…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":82529,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7599","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/7-Ways-Girls-Broken-By-Narcissists-Love-Differently.jpg",800,530,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":7,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7599","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7599"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7599\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/82529"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7599"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7599"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7599"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}