{"id":76114,"date":"2020-06-01T10:30:12","date_gmt":"2020-06-01T10:30:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=76114"},"modified":"2021-08-30T13:57:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-30T13:57:27","slug":"esperava-o-mesmo-amor-que-dei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/esperava-o-mesmo-amor-que-dei\/","title":{"rendered":"Esperava o mesmo amor que dei e foi a\u00ed que me enganei"},"content":{"rendered":"

Me and my expectations. I swear one of these days, they are going to kill me. My expectations already hurt me so many times but I still don’t know how to let them go.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tenho mesmo de aprender a deixar de esperar que as outras pessoas me amem como eu as amo a elas. Tenho de deixar de esperar que as outras pessoas fa\u00e7am por mim o que eu fa\u00e7o por elas.<\/b><\/p>\n

A dor de te perder foi t\u00e3o profunda, mas a dor da esperan\u00e7a quebrada das expectativas foi ainda mais profunda. <\/span><\/p>\n

That’s why I don’t blame you for my broken heart anymore. I blame <\/span>as minhas pr\u00f3prias expectativas<\/span><\/a>. Culpo-me a mim pr\u00f3pria. Esperava que me amasses tanto quanto eu te amava.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aprendi que tenho de entrar em tudo sem qualquer apego ao resultado. Algumas coisas est\u00e3o destinadas a acontecer.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No matter how much I hope for something else and something better to happen, the outcome won\u2019t change.<\/span><\/p>\n

Uma dessas coisas era a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, fui sempre eu que amei mais.<\/span><\/p>\n

That’s why I was always at greater risk of getting hurt. That’s why I was the one who ended up with a broken heart.  <\/b><\/p>\n

Sempre tive esperan\u00e7a de que <\/span>it\u2019d change<\/span><\/a>. That you\u2019d understand what kind of a woman you had by your side and that you\u2019d be scared to lose me. The truth is that you can\u2019t change someone’s feelings by loving them harder. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pensei mesmo que o meu amor seria uma boa raz\u00e3o para mudares. Agora, culpo-me por ter acreditado que um homem como tu podia mudar. Que um tipo imaturo como tu estava pronto para se comprometer e assentar.<\/span><\/p>\n

I loved you with all my heart but unfortunately, our hearts weren\u2019t the same and you couldn’t reciprocate such strong and deep feelings.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You weren’t ready for that kind of love and it seems like I couldn’t come to terms with it for a long time. I wanted you to love me as much as I loved you but that was impossible.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eu sabia quem tu eras quando me apaixonei por ti. O facto de fazeres piadas e pareceres sempre t\u00e3o infantil, de seres t\u00e3o ing\u00e9nua e pura foi o que me atraiu em primeiro lugar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Com o passar do tempo, eu queria outra coisa. Algo mais s\u00e9rio.<\/span><\/p>\n

Queria que me mostrasses que tinhas alguns objectivos na vida e que sabias o que querias da vida; pelo menos, que me dissesses que me querias na tua vida.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quando percebi que estava pronta para algo mais s\u00e9rio, perguntei-lhe quais eram as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es, onde nos via. Disseste que estavas a gostar da minha companhia.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

ENJOYING MY COMPANY? That’s all?<\/span><\/p>\n

Fiquei desiludido. Fiquei destro\u00e7ado com a tua resposta. <\/span><\/p>\n

You didn’t even bother to ask me the same question back, to ask me how I felt about you. <\/span>Claro que tamb\u00e9m estava a gostar da sua companhia, mas havia mais do que isso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Os meus sentimentos eram profundos e os vossos nunca passaram da fase do gostar. <\/span>I loved you more than you’ll ever know.<\/span><\/p>\n

From that point on, I had to learn to let go of the idea that you and I had a future. That your, \u201cI enjoy your company,\u201d line was the wake-up call I needed to snap out of my fantasies about our future. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aprendi da maneira mais dif\u00edcil que \u00e9 melhor perguntar do que presumir. Acho que me enganei<\/span> por querer que me amasses tanto quanto eu te amava.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

True love is selfless. True love doesn\u2019t really need reciprocation. It needs acceptance. I will never again love somebody and hope that I’ll get the same love in return. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tenho de aprender a ter zero expectativas porque zero expectativas \u00e9 igual a zero desilus\u00f5es.<\/b><\/p>\n

I’ll have to work on <\/span>as minhas expectativas<\/span><\/a> antes de seguir em frente. Tenho de estar preparada para o pr\u00f3ximo tipo que entrar na minha vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

I’ll learn how to let it go. I won’t let my expectations break my heart ever again. From now on, I’ll believe in fate and the universe only.<\/b><\/p>\n

What\u2019s meant to be will be and whatever we do, we can never change it.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Esperava<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Me and my expectations. I swear one of these days, they are going to kill me. My expectations already hurt me so many times but I still don’t know how to let them go. I really have to learn to stop expecting other people to love me like I do them. I have to stop…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":76115,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-76114","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I-Expected-The-Same-Love-I-Gave-And-Thats-Where-I-Went-Wrong.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/76114","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=76114"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/76114\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/76115"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=76114"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=76114"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=76114"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}