{"id":76196,"date":"2020-06-01T10:32:03","date_gmt":"2020-06-01T10:32:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=76196"},"modified":"2022-04-01T10:22:05","modified_gmt":"2022-04-01T10:22:05","slug":"esta-exatamente-onde-precisa-de-estar-neste-momento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/esta-exatamente-onde-precisa-de-estar-neste-momento\/","title":{"rendered":"Confie em mim, voc\u00ea est\u00e1 exatamente onde precisa de estar agora"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pode estar a sentir-se confuso, perdido ou infeliz neste momento, mas confie em mim numa coisa: est\u00e1 exatamente onde precisa de estar neste momento! <\/span><\/p>\n

You are the result of four billion years of evolutionary success. You spent nine months in your mother’s womb, you gave your parents teenage nightmares, you cried, you laughed, you loved, you lived. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando combinados, todos esses momentos criam um belo quadro chamado vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Life is a mosaic of moments and paths. Every moment you have experienced and every path you’ve chosen taught you <\/i><\/b>li\u00e7\u00f5es valiosas<\/i><\/b><\/a>. <\/i><\/b>And that’s how you got here. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9s o resultado de altos e baixos, de um <\/span>s\u00e9rie de eventos<\/span> e experi\u00eancias que moldaram a sua <\/span>estado de esp\u00edrito<\/span>. Tu \u00e9s o resultado da tua pr\u00f3pria e \u00fanica viagem chamada VIDA.<\/span><\/p>\n

Everything you’ve been through has shaped you into the person you’re ought to become and brought you where you need to be right now!<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Muitas vezes esquecemos que a vida n\u00e3o \u00e9 apenas momentos felizes que partilhamos com os nossos <\/span>entes queridos<\/span>. A vida \u00e9 muito mais do que isso; \u00e9 tanto momentos felizes como <\/span>tempos sombrios<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

The reason why we often think that we’re not where we’re supposed to be at the moment is that we don’t want to accept the other, darker, more challenging side of our life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando encontramos o emprego perfeito, pensamos para n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios: <\/span>This is exactly where I’m supposed to be at the moment.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Mas se formos despedidos, pensamos para n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios: <\/span>I’m doing something wrong. This cannot be something I’m supposed to be experiencing at the moment. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

When we meet the love of our life, we’re excited, grateful and happy. But when we break up with someone, we’re hurt, bitter and <\/span>infeliz<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

We get convinced that whenever something bad happens, it’s definitely not something that should be happening to us. We start thinking that we’re on the wrong track and nothing will ever be the same for us.<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, o que esquecemos \u00e9 o seguinte: <\/span>S\u00e3o os desafios e as dificuldades que nos tornam mais fortes, mais corajosos e mais resistentes! <\/b>Esquecemo-nos de que, se queremos ver o arco-\u00edris, temos de lidar com a chuva!<\/span><\/p>\n

Every single challenge or hardship you’re going through right now will help you grow into who you are meant to be!<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Se terminou recentemente uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com algu\u00e9m, pode sentir que o seu mundo acabou (especialmente se ainda tiver sentimentos fortes por essa pessoa). A raz\u00e3o pela qual se pode estar a sentir assim \u00e9 a compara\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

When we meet someone special and start dating them, our life becomes a few shades brighter and we’re feeling like: <\/span>This is it! I’m totally happy and I don’t want this to ever end. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

We start believing that we’re exactly where we need to be. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, when we break up with someone, we instantly see it as a mistake, as something that shouldn’t have happened. Just because we’re unhappy at the moment, we start believing that we’re not where we need to be. <\/span><\/p>\n

Como j\u00e1 foi dito, isso acontece por causa da compara\u00e7\u00e3o. Temos tend\u00eancia para comparar o nosso passado feliz com o <\/span>momento atual<\/span> where we’re feeling unhappy.<\/span><\/p>\n

We start feeling like our world has just ended because we’re not in the same state as we used to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, maybe that’s exactly where you NEED to be!<\/b><\/p>\n

Imagine uma vida sem dor, l\u00e1grimas ou qualquer outro <\/span>emo\u00e7\u00e3o negativa<\/span><\/a>. Se viv\u00eassemos num mundo t\u00e3o perfeito, ser\u00edamos capazes de distinguir entre o positivo e o negativo? Entre a felicidade e a tristeza?<\/span><\/p>\n

I don’t think so. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se tudo na nossa vida estivesse a correr bem, nunca saber\u00edamos o que se sente quando o mundo se desmorona. E o pior de tudo \u00e9 que nunca ter\u00edamos a oportunidade de aprender com os nossos erros e escolhas. <\/span><\/p>\n

If we lived in the promised land of milk and honey, we would never be able to appreciate any of it. We would take it for granted and see it as something that’s supposed to be so. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, when life surprises us from time to time with challenges and battles, we’re always ready. We don’t live with a stagnant <\/span>estado de esp\u00edrito<\/span> but an active one! And that’s the real beauty of it.<\/span><\/p>\n

A vida \u00e9 uma batalha eterna e n\u00f3s somos um soldado que luta pela nossa pr\u00f3pria felicidade.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Todos os dias s\u00e3o feitos de milhares de momentos que moldam e desafiam o nosso pensamento, princ\u00edpios e cren\u00e7as. Esses dias transformam-se em meses, os meses transformam-se em anos e os anos transformam-se na viagem chamada vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

No processo de tudo isso, est\u00e1 exatamente onde precisa de estar a cada segundo, a cada dia. E eu sei que uma das <\/span>coisas mais dif\u00edceis<\/span> na vida \u00e9 acreditar nela!<\/span><\/p>\n

I used to believe that I was not on the right track because my life was falling apart before my own eyes (or that’s what I thought). I felt helpless, hurt and broken. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was stuck in a toxic relationship for years and I’ve been fighting anxiety ever since and experiencing severe panic attacks on a daily basis. In between all that, I was trying to finish college and stay sane, at least partially.<\/span><\/p>\n

I was convinced that this was redemption for the sins of my ancestors because I can’t remember a single time I did something terribly wrong to someone to be punished that way. And the key word is: <\/span>PUNIDO.<\/b><\/p>\n

Todas as coisas que eu estava a passar na altura, eu via-as como um castigo. Geralmente, todas as coisas m\u00e1s que me aconteciam eram classificadas como um castigo por alguma coisa. Mas pelo qu\u00ea? Exatamente. <\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o consegui ver que a minha hip\u00f3tese era completamente errada, porque estava demasiado ocupado a corrigir as coisas e a preocupar-me com a raz\u00e3o pela qual me estavam a acontecer, que n\u00e3o consegui ver que tinha realmente um <\/span>boa vida<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tinha pessoas que gostavam de mim, tinha uma casa e comida e era geralmente saud\u00e1vel (se excluirmos a ansiedade, claro).<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o consegui ver que estava no caminho da auto-descoberta e do desenvolvimento pessoal!<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Demorei algum tempo a perceber as duas coisas seguintes: N\u00f3s vemos o que queremos ver e acreditamos no que queremos acreditar. <\/span><\/p>\n

I believed that I wasn’t exactly where I was supposed to be at that moment because I couldn’t find any single silver lining. Vi a minha rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica e a minha ansiedade como coisas que eram exclusivamente destrutivas<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

And do you know what I think of that today? Today, I’ve realized that all this time I was exactly where I needed to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mudei a minha perspetiva e comecei a ver as coisas de uma forma diferente e mais clara. Compreendi finalmente que a minha rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica era a maior li\u00e7\u00e3o que eu tinha de aprender para me tornar mais s\u00e1bia no futuro. <\/span><\/p>\n

The reason why I was stuck in such a relationship was that I was living in a delusional world, thinking that I didn’t deserve anything better. Once I decided to <\/span>avan\u00e7ar<\/span>finalmente encontrei o meu <\/span>verdadeiro eu<\/span>!<\/span><\/p>\n

Para o <\/span>primeira vez<\/span> in my life, I realized that all that time, I had been taking myself for granted and if it weren’t for that toxic relationship, I would probably be continuing to live in my own bubble. <\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o consegui ver que estava a caminho de descobrir a minha autoestima e <\/i><\/b>amor-pr\u00f3prio<\/i><\/b><\/a>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Regarding my anxiety, you’re probably wondering how I can justify that. Where is the silver lining in being an anxious human being? <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, there is. And it’s right in front of you. My anxious <\/span>estado de esp\u00edrito<\/span> alterou muito a minha perspetiva das coisas e ajudou-me a evoluir como escritor e artista abstrato. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, instead of cursing my destiny and begging to be a regular human being without any flaws, I’m actually grateful for it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Because I know I’m exactly where I need to be right now. I know if I hadn’t gone through all those things in the past, I wouldn’t have become who I am today. <\/span><\/p>\n

Life is never black or white. It’s always in a thousand shades of gray.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A vida \u00e9 um processo. A vida n\u00e3o \u00e9 ter tudo sob controlo, ser feliz 24 horas por dia, 7 dias por semana, ter um sal\u00e1rio de seis d\u00edgitos, um carro caro, etc. <\/span><\/p>\n

Life is what happens in the process of all that. If we focus on only one thing and that is buying that one expensive car, we’ll start living in our own artificial bubble, ignoring everything else around us. <\/span><\/p>\n

When we realize that we can’t afford that car anytime soon, we’ll start feeling like we aren’t where we’re supposed to be at the moment. <\/span><\/p>\n

When we put our happiness in other people’s hands or in the hands of things that are supposed to make us happy, we unwittingly start making ourself unhappy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Porque a vida nunca \u00e9 a preto e branco. A vida n\u00e3o \u00e9 sobre possuir coisas, ter um corpo ou cabelo perfeitos, ter perfis perfeitos em <\/span>redes sociais<\/span> e assim por diante.<\/span><\/p>\n

Just because you don’t have everything you always wanted at the moment, this doesn’t mean you’re not where you need to be. <\/span><\/p>\n

A vida \u00e9 um processo. Nunca est\u00e1 estagnada. Se tivesse a oportunidade de ter tudo o que sonhou ter, acha que estaria exatamente onde precisa de estar?<\/span><\/p>\n

As l\u00e1grimas que escorrem pelo teu rosto, o teu sorriso, as tuas esperan\u00e7as e os teus sonhos fazem parte de TI e fazem parte do AGORA. <\/b><\/p>\n

No matter how hard it is to believe that you are exactly where you need to be right now, trust me, you are. \u2018After every storm comes a rainbow\u2019. And that’s the real beauty of the process called life.<\/span><\/p>\n

A beleza reside no facto de, no pr\u00f3ximo ano, a esta mesma hora, estar completamente diferente (mental e fisicamente).<\/span><\/p>\n

Pode ter-se despedido do seu emprego atual e encontrado algo mais gratificante, pode ter encontrado um novo passatempo que lhe d\u00e1 muita alegria.<\/span><\/p>\n

Poder\u00e1 ter conhecido um novo namorado\/namorada que ser\u00e1 o ideal para si. Pode ter tornado o mundo um lugar melhor ao inventar uma inven\u00e7\u00e3o inspiradora que ir\u00e1 melhorar as nossas vidas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pode ter-se tornado pai ou m\u00e3e, ter planeado o seu casamento com o seu <\/span>fianc\u00e9<\/span> ou pode ter terminado com algu\u00e9m com quem est\u00e1 neste momento. E, mesmo assim, estar\u00e1 exatamente onde precisa de estar. Porqu\u00ea? <\/span><\/p>\n

Because life is never black or white. It’s always in a thousand shades of gray that are meant to be praised and discovered.<\/span><\/p>\n

Those shades are what make you who you are and there’s only one YOU in the whole wide world. Therefore, you are special and unique and you are exactly where you need to be!<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If all of your friends are married or in a relationship and you’re still single, this doesn’t mean that you’re doing something wrong. If all of your close friends have jobs and you still don’t, this doesn’t mean you never will.<\/span><\/p>\n

Everyone’s path is different. Some people find their soulmate earlier than others and this doesn’t mean they’re on the right or wrong path.<\/span><\/p>\n

Algumas pessoas amadurecem mais cedo e outras precisam de mais tempo, li\u00e7\u00f5es e experi\u00eancia. O que importa \u00e9 o processo e n\u00e3o o resultado final. <\/span><\/p>\n

What matters is the fact that you’re trying your best every single day and that you’re converting all the negativity into something meaningful and positive.<\/span><\/p>\n

O que importa \u00e9 a sua perspetiva otimista e a sua determina\u00e7\u00e3o em <\/b>nunca desistir, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2018Quando a vida te d\u00e1 lim\u00f5es, faz limonada<\/a>!\u2019 When you live each day as if it is your last helping those in need and making your <\/span>entes queridos<\/span> smile, then you know you’re doing your best.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o sabe que est\u00e1 exatamente onde precisa de estar. Um abra\u00e7o caloroso, uma palavra simp\u00e1tica e uma mentalidade positiva s\u00e3o o que d\u00e1 sentido \u00e0 sua vida e a torna mais rica. <\/span><\/p>\n

No matter what you’re going through at the moment, there is always something positive in every situation. Your life is not a collection of ups and downs; it is a process that has brought you where you are.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sim, podias ter feito as coisas de forma diferente, podias ter evitado dizer certas palavras aos outros ou podias ter encontrado a coragem para enfrentar e fazer as coisas de que tinhas medo. <\/span><\/p>\n

But there are reasons why you didn’t. There’s a reason behind your every thought, word and action and that reason is what makes you <\/span>quem \u00e9s<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

There’s a reason why you’re exactly where you are right now and not someplace else!<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

As suas escolhas, os seus pensamentos e as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es trouxeram-no exatamente para onde precisa de estar agora. Se olhar para tr\u00e1s, para a cadeia de todos os acontecimentos anteriores, tamb\u00e9m se aperceber\u00e1 disso!<\/span><\/p>\n

I know that if I hadn\u2019t been in a toxic relationship, I wouldn’t have become who I am today and I wouldn’t appreciate a healthy relationship after that toxic one.<\/span><\/p>\n

I know that if I hadn\u2019t made an effort in life, I wouldn’t be where I am today.<\/span><\/p>\n

And I know that if I hadn\u2019t turned up late for a lecture, I wouldn’t have accidentally sat next to a guy who would become a special person in my life. <\/span><\/p>\n

What’s interesting is that the only seat that was free was next to him so I had no choice. I had to sit next to him. Now, you can call it a coincidence or rather a <\/span>s\u00e9rie de eventos<\/span> que me trouxe exatamente para onde preciso de estar hoje.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, yes, everything happens for a reason and there’s a reason or a series of reasons why you’re exactly where you are right now.<\/span><\/p>\n

Essas raz\u00f5es s\u00e3o as suas respostas a todas as perguntas que come\u00e7am com as palavras <\/b>e se<\/i><\/b> ou <\/b>porqu\u00ea<\/i><\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you’ve seen that brilliant movie <\/span>Sr. Ningu\u00e9m<\/span><\/i>, then you understand what I’m talking about. Each thought and choice creates different chains of events\u2014different outcomes. And none of those outcomes are wrong or right… <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s because you are the result of four billion years of evolutionary success. You spent nine months in your mother’s womb, you gave your parents teenage nightmares, you cried, you laughed, you loved, you lived. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You read the entire article and absorbed my humble thoughts when you could have been someplace else absorbing someone else’s thoughts. So, trust me, you are exactly where you need to be right now.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span>Here’s Why Change Is Necessary For <\/span>Desenvolvimento pessoal<\/span> E crescimento<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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