{"id":7636,"date":"2017-10-27T13:51:18","date_gmt":"2017-10-27T13:51:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7636"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:47:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:47:06","slug":"ele-simplesmente-nao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele-simplesmente-nao\/","title":{"rendered":"Ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 assim t\u00e3o interessado em ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Maybe he isn\u2019t texting back because he\u2019s busy. Maybe he didn\u2019t mean to like that other girl\u2019s picture. Maybe he forgot to reply to your Snapchat. Maybe he is scared of commitment. Maybe he thinks you don\u2019t like him so he\u2019s playing it cool.<br \/>\nOr maybe &#8211; he\u2019s just not that into you.<\/p>\n<p>As women, we constantly make excuses for men and we always allow ourselves to believe that there is another reason we don\u2019t feel happy. At our lowest point, we cling on to any form of affection from a man. I\u2019ve been there, and I\u2019m sure most women reading this will have been through it, too, If you haven\u2019t and you\u2019re fortunate enough to already know your self-worth, keep a strong hold of it!<\/p>\n<p>As much as we hate to admit it, everyone wants to be loved by someone. Being loved and adored by someone is one of the best feelings in the world, and when we are feeling self-conscious or have low self-esteem, we cling on to the tiniest bit of affection. So as Alex from \u2018He\u2019s Just Not That Into You\u2019 so perfectly put it: <em>\u201cIf a guy is treating you like he doesn&#8217;t give a shit, he genuinely doesn&#8217;t give a shit. No exceptions.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>How many times have you turned to your best friend and asked, \u201cAm I being a psycho?\u201d or, \u201cIs it me?\u201d Men will say all the right things, they will say exactly what they want you to hear. Now whether this is because they <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/8-clear-signs-wants-sex\/\">querem usar-te para sexo <\/a>or because you\u2019re someone to give them a bit of an ego boost, I don\u2019t know, but guys like this show all the same signs\u2026<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t text you back for hours, but they are active on Facebook. They don\u2019t reply to your WhatsApp but they will open your Snapchat. They will never arrange a \u2018proper\u2019 date with you \u2013 it will always be \u2018Netflix and chill\u2019 or \u2018a few drinks\u2019 in a bar and it will more than likely be YOU who has to arrange a time and date. When you first start texting, they will ask you what you like to do &#8211; you know, the \u2018Tinder chat\u2019 &#8211; but a typical \u2018fuckboy\u2019 will only wait approximately 3 days before turning the conversation sexual. If you find yourself texting a boy and the conversation is constantly about sex before you\u2019ve even gone on a date with him, you can pretty much be certain that sex is all he\u2019s interested in.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-7638 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/ravi-roshan-383174.jpg\" alt=\"Jovem na cama a fumar um cigarro\" width=\"800\" height=\"589\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/ravi-roshan-383174.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/ravi-roshan-383174-300x221.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/ravi-roshan-383174-768x565.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If you are constantly questioning your sanity, if you are constantly checking your phone for a reply and if you are constantly waiting for them to show their commitment to you, I am telling you &#8211; he\u2019s just not that into you. Don\u2019t let men fool you by saying, \u201cI\u2019m just easy-going\u201d or, \u201cI\u2019m never on my phone\u201d or, \u201cI just want to take it slow\u201d. No. If a boy gives a shit about you, they will show it! Don\u2019t ever question your sanity or your self-worth over a man who is quite frankly not worth it! Don\u2019t waste YOUR time on them.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 t\u00e3o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/the-importance-self-worth\" rel=\"noopener\">\u00e9 importante lembrarmo-nos do nosso valor pr\u00f3prio.<\/a> Do you think that any man is sitting at home staring at his phone waiting for you to text? Do you think he is asking his friends why you\u2019re not texting back? I doubt he is. Now I\u2019m not saying all men are the same because they most certainly aren\u2019t, and I\u2019m not saying all women fall for this because not all do, but this article is for the women, like myself, who often fall for the men who are this way.<\/p>\n<p>If you have been treated this way, your self-confidence drops, and then you crave someone who will treat you right, so you move onto the next person who shows you the slightest bit of affection. If they happen to be a \u2018fuckboy\u2019 too, we end up in a vicious cycle. The best thing you can do after coming out of this kind of \u2018situationship\u2019 is to spend time on your own before looking for love again. Whether it\u2019s a month or six months that you spend alone, just do something for you. Wake up and take yourself for coffee on a Sunday or get a book and walk to the park and read once a week. Just spend time focusing on you and nobody else.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o est\u00e1 a pedir muito ao querer uma mensagem de volta e n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a pedir muito ao pedir um compromisso! Estes s\u00e3o factores que um homem que gosta de si lhe daria sem qualquer d\u00favida. Se um homem estiver interessado em si, n\u00e3o ter\u00e1 d\u00favidas, nem preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es, nem perguntas e, assim que se aperceber do seu valor pr\u00f3prio, n\u00e3o ter\u00e1 problemas em garantir que nunca mais se sentir\u00e1 indigna. Perceber\u00e1 quando o homem perfeito estiver assim t\u00e3o interessado em si.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong>by\u00a0Samantha Russell<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Maybe he isn\u2019t texting back because he\u2019s busy. Maybe he didn\u2019t mean to like that other girl\u2019s picture. Maybe he forgot to reply to your Snapchat. Maybe he is scared of commitment. Maybe he thinks you don\u2019t like him so he\u2019s playing it cool. Or maybe &#8211; he\u2019s just not that into you. As women,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":7637,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7636","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/matthew-henry-7328.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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