{"id":7641,"date":"2020-10-30T09:05:19","date_gmt":"2020-10-30T09:05:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7641"},"modified":"2022-01-20T11:28:05","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T11:28:05","slug":"quase-namorado-um-dia-vais-arrepender-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quase-namorado-um-dia-vais-arrepender-te\/","title":{"rendered":"Para o meu quase namorado: Um dia vais arrepender-te"},"content":{"rendered":"

Caro \"Tu\",<\/i><\/p>\n

Thank you for being my \u2018Almost Failure\u2019. Thank you for saving me from the biggest mistake of my life. Thank you for placing me last every time.<\/p>\n

Thank you for being hot \u2019n\u2019 cold. Thank you for saving me from all the pain I could have felt.  <\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t been my \u2018Almost Failure\u2019, I would experimentaram esta quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> and this letter wouldn\u2019t be a letter full of pride and joy for dodging the bullet, but a letter of the sorrow and pain of a heartbreak. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Now when I look back, I see it wasn\u2019t all just your fault. I was purposely blind because I didn\u2019t want to admit that we aren\u2019t supposed to be together.<\/a><\/p>\n

You dragged me along, even though you knew you didn\u2019t like me that much, but at that moment I was convenient, so you said, \u201cWhat the Hell!\u201d<\/p>\n

I was there for you to kill some time. We went to the movies, to dinner, on dates – all of which I initiated.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

In this relationship where you dragged me along, promising me everything and giving me nothing, I dragged you to things you didn\u2019t want to do – at least not with me.<\/p>\n

Nunca reagiste a nenhuma dessas coisas. Nunca soube o que estavas a pensar exatamente.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s where I made my biggest mistake – Preenchi os espa\u00e7os em branco com os meus pr\u00f3prios pensamentos e palavras e enganei-me a mim pr\u00f3prio para acreditar que era verdade. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Eu queria que fosse verdade. Queria-o tanto. Mas, claro, era imposs\u00edvel.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

However, this is my excuse and I think it\u2019s a pretty good one. I was in love with you and I couldn\u2019t accept that you weren\u2019t in love with me.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s your excuse for making me look like a complete fool?<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que me fizeste teu quase namorada?<\/a> Pod\u00edamos ter-nos dado bem. Pod\u00edamos ter partilhado interesses. Pod\u00edamos ter escolhido filmes que pud\u00e9ssemos ver juntos.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Podias ter falado mais. Podias ter dito o que pensavas e como te sentias.<\/p>\n

Podias ter-te esfor\u00e7ado mais para tentar amar-me. Pod\u00edamos ter tido tudo. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Mas, por um momento, esqueci-me que esta n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma carta de desgosto. Esta \u00e9 uma carta feliz, uma nota de agradecimento.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I know I\u2019m not an almost girlfriend<\/i><\/b> because I would fight for my man with everything I have. I\u2019m the kind of girl any man would be lucky enough to have, to fight for.<\/p>\n

No one would be that stupid to miss out on this. You know why? Because when I love, I love with all of my heart and never with \u2018almost\u2019 my whole heart.<\/p>\n

Nunca o conseguiu e agrade\u00e7o-lhe por nem sequer tentar. <\/i><\/p>\n

I know I\u2019m not an almost girlfriend<\/i><\/b> porque telefonava ao meu homem sempre que tinha saudades dele. Mandava-lhe mensagens de manh\u00e3 porque queria melhorar o seu dia.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

And he would open the text and he would feel better because he loved me and my \u2018I love you\u2019 would mean the world to him.<\/p>\n

Obrigado por seres o completo oposto. Obrigado por me poupares as mentiras que se disfar\u00e7avam de amor. Obrigado por nem sequer tentar.<\/i><\/p>\n

I know I\u2019m not an almost girlfriend<\/i><\/b> porque usaria cada momento para mostrar e dizer ao meu homem o quanto ele significava para mim. Eu seria a pessoa mais feliz do mundo.<\/p>\n

Nunca teria experimentado andar sozinha com a cara a olhar para os meus p\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

I would never have enjoyed the cold and gray concrete which matched my heart and mind then – all because of you and your almost love.<\/p>\n

Thank you for making me walk those cold streets, dwelling over what I did wrong, because I finally understood that it wasn\u2019t me.<\/p>\n

Tu eras o problema. Obrigado por nem sequer tentar.<\/i><\/a><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I know I\u2019m not an almost girlfriend<\/i><\/b> porque nunca precisaria de arranjar desculpas est\u00fapidas. Nunca mentiria ao meu homem ou o faria sentir-se como um peda\u00e7o de merda.<\/p>\n

Eu nunca o arrastaria comigo. Se eu fosse como tu, nunca lhe teria dado o tempo do dia. Obrigado por me dares o tempo livre que tinhas para matar.<\/p>\n

Obrigado por me fazeres perceber todas as coisas que eu nunca teria feito. Obrigado por nem sequer tentar. <\/i><\/p>\n

I know I\u2019m not an almost girlfriend<\/i><\/b> porque eu desafiaria o meu homem. Teria tentado torn\u00e1-lo melhor porque saberia que ele podia ser melhor.<\/p>\n

Teria sabido que ele era um diamante em bruto e que precisava apenas do toque da minha m\u00e3o, de um olhar profundo nos seus olhos, para ultrapassar os seus limites. Nunca viste qualquer potencial em mim.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 viu uma rapariga t\u00e3o comum como qualquer outra. O homem que me vai amar ver-me-\u00e1 como o seu tudo, n\u00e3o como algo que surgiu no caminho.<\/p>\n

Nunca te importaste, por isso, obrigado por isso. Obrigado por nem sequer tentar.<\/i><\/p>\n

I know I\u2019m not an almost girlfriend<\/i><\/b> porque eu nunca poria algu\u00e9m que amo em \u00faltimo lugar. Eu t\u00ea-lo-ia escolhido acima de tudo.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t do differently because I just couldn\u2019t. He would have been my whole world, he would have been someone I wanted to wake up next to every day for the rest of my life.<\/p>\n

Why would I neglect him and put him last? Have you ever thought of me that way? Of course you haven\u2019t so thank you for that.<\/p>\n

Obrigado por n\u00e3o me dares o tempo do dia. Obrigado por nem sequer tentar.<\/i><\/p>\n

Esta n\u00e3o \u00e9 realmente uma carta escrita num teclado encharcado de l\u00e1grimas.<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 uma carta escrita com olhos sorridentes e um cora\u00e7\u00e3o cheio de desejo e entusiasmo para conhecer aquele que ser\u00e1 o seu completo oposto.<\/p>\n

Thank you for showing me what I don\u2019t want. <\/i><\/p>\n

Obrigado por me salvares da dor. <\/i><\/p>\n

Obrigado por me salvares de ti mesmo. <\/i><\/p>\n

Obrigado por nem sequer tentar.<\/i><\/p>\n

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Dear \u2018You\u2019, Thank you for being my \u2018Almost Failure\u2019. Thank you for saving me from the biggest mistake of my life. Thank you for placing me last every time. Thank you for being hot \u2019n\u2019 cold. Thank you for saving me from all the pain I could have felt.   If you hadn\u2019t been my…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":118538,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7641","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/To-My-Almost-Boyfriend-One-Day-Youll-Be-Sorry-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7641","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7641"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7641\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/118538"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7641"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7641"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7641"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}