Needless to say, it wasn\u2019t only n\u00e3o \u00e9 bom<\/em> \u2013 it was a nightmare. Something you don\u2019t recover from easily.<\/strong><\/p>\n I don\u2019t like to make villains out of people, but some of them don\u2019t leave you any choice. In my life, he\u2019s the villain.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t want to hate him, even though he made my life miserable when I didn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n Ningu\u00e9m merece uma coisa destas. Ningu\u00e9m merece ser tra\u00eddo, manipulado e enganado.<\/p>\n Why is being a decent person so hard? It almost seems like it\u2019s a special requirement these days.<\/strong><\/p>\n What\u2019s worse, it\u2019s almost impossible to recognize a genuine person because the level of everyday manipulation and toxicity is through the roof almost everywhere you look.<\/p>\n I fell for it and now I know better. It put me under so much stress \u2013 I didn\u2019t act like myself for months. I lost myself even though I never did anything wrong.<\/p>\n How can someone purposely decide to ruin the life of a person they\u2019ve loved? I will never understand.<\/p>\n A dor de saber que ele fez o que fez s\u00f3 para me magoar deixou-me de rastos.<\/strong><\/p>\n Passado algum tempo, come\u00e7ou a tornar-se claro para mim.<\/p>\n I started to see through his lies and finally free myself from his web of illusions – the false things he made me believe about myself, the false things I still believed about him.<\/p>\n It wasn\u2019t my fault I loved, but it was my responsibility to decide not to be a victim.<\/strong><\/p>\n Queria aprender com a minha experi\u00eancia e n\u00e3o deixar que uma pessoa medisse o meu valor.<\/p>\n Um dia decidi que j\u00e1 era suficiente. Decidi finalmente come\u00e7ar a respeitar-me.<\/p>\n Se ele ia ser um vil\u00e3o, mais valia eu ser um super-her\u00f3i.<\/p>\n He tore my life apart but he couldn\u2019t break me.<\/strong><\/p>\n That\u2019s why I\u2019m here, now, writing these words \u2013 knowing I overcame my fears.<\/p>\n Now I know I\u2019m a woman worthy of love and happiness, I don\u2019t carry guilt or sadness in my heart.<\/strong><\/p>\n Now I know my own strength. Whoever that scared little girl was, she\u2019s not here anymore.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o vou deixar ningu\u00e9m ditar a minha vida e o que devo fazer com ela, especialmente um homem abusivo.<\/p>\n I\u2019m finally taking my life into my own hands \u2013 and whatever happens to me I will be content because everything was my decision.<\/strong><\/p>\n Luckily, it turns out I\u2019m good at making decisions for myself \u2013 number one being ditching him from my life.<\/p>\n That\u2019s when things started getting better.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t stress over insignificant things anymore; I don\u2019t care what others have to say about my life.<\/p>\n A \u00fanica coisa que me interessa \u00e9 o meu bem-estar e a felicidade das pessoas que me amam verdadeiramente.<\/p>\n There\u2019s no other way to make peace with your past and yourself than to start radically loving yourself, forgiving yourself, and cheering for yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n Don\u2019t accept love from others when you\u2019re not giving it to yourself.<\/p>\n Love yourself, but love yourself truly. Not only when you\u2019re doing great, but when you\u2019re feeling low too.<\/strong><\/p>\n Think of yourself as your friend. Would you criticize or comfort your friends when they don\u2019t feel their best?<\/p>\n Don\u2019t let experiences break you, learn from them, and come back stronger.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re not something that\u2019s easily replaced, you\u2019re a whole unique woman with exceptional abilities. Respect yourself.<\/p>\n You deserve the best. Why wouldn\u2019t you? Don\u2019t settle and never let anyone settle for you.<\/p>\n You deserve a man who will make you feel good, who\u2019s mature enough to see what\u2019s really important.<\/strong><\/p>\n Um homem que ter\u00e1 um vislumbre da tua alma atrav\u00e9s dos teus olhos na primeira vez que te vir.<\/strong><\/p>\n Continua a acreditar no amor como continuaste a acreditar em ti pr\u00f3pria e, mais uma vez, prova ao mundo que nada neste mundo pode quebrar uma mulher que sabe o seu valor.<\/p>\n I remember when he walked into my life, the moment when everything changed. If I only knew then what I do now. I would have never said yes. I would have never let him consume me the way he did. I thought that the change was for good, or at least that\u2019s what he convinced…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":76688,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-76679","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/He-Tore-My-Life-Apart-But-He-Couldn\u2019t-Break-Me.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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