{"id":76697,"date":"2020-06-01T07:20:27","date_gmt":"2020-06-01T07:20:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=76697"},"modified":"2022-01-14T11:26:55","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T11:26:55","slug":"se-te-aperceberes-que-perdeste-a-mulher-da-tua-vida-eu-vou-esquecer-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-te-aperceberes-que-perdeste-a-mulher-da-tua-vida-eu-vou-esquecer-te\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando perceberes que perdeste a mulher da tua vida, j\u00e1 te terei esquecido"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c9 engra\u00e7ado como os homens t\u00eam frequentemente um per\u00edodo de comportamento imprudente logo ap\u00f3s uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o. Quase parece que est\u00e3o a celebr\u00e1-la.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, women are almost always curled up in their bed and sobbing every night&#8230; Well, until they are not.<\/p>\n<p>It seems strangely coincidental that most of the time, that\u2019s probably the time when the man starts to sob and guess what happens to her? She doesn\u2019t care anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Life sure has a distinct sense of humor and in this case, we\u2019re all for it.<\/p>\n<p>This happened to me. I was the late-night sobbing girl. I guess I cried the pain away because one day I just woke up and said, \u201cThat\u2019s enough.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>I didn\u2019t want to do this to myself anymore. I wanted to live my life. I wanted my life to have meaning again.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So what if a man thought I wasn\u2019t good enough for him. That was the same man who couldn\u2019t provide me with the simplest things\u2014for example, attention and care.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So what if he\u2019d moved on with his life?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76699\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-on-green-grass.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada na relva verde dos prados, mostrando as costas\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-on-green-grass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-on-green-grass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-sitting-on-green-grass-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ainda bem para ele, porque a \u00faltima coisa de que eu precisava era voltar a ouvir falar dele e ficar presa ao mesmo comportamento imaturo que foi uma das raz\u00f5es pelas quais nos separ\u00e1mos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No entanto, para a maioria das mulheres, o mais prov\u00e1vel \u00e9 que, quando a realidade o atingir, ele a queira de volta.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s because you were everything he needed; he just couldn\u2019t see it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s easy to take all the love and care for granted. The problem is when that turns into abuse and abuse is something that\u2019s unacceptable.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Love should be cherished and praised and it should go both ways. But in your case, he couldn\u2019t see it.<\/p>\n<p>He lost the woman of his life\u2014and that\u2019s his fault, not yours.<\/p>\n<p><strong>All the things you gave him will haunt him because love doesn\u2019t go away.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Todas as coisas bonitas que ele vir e tocar v\u00e3o lembr\u00e1-lo de si e do amor que ele perdeu por causa da sua insensatez.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76702\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-smoking-cigarette.png\" alt=\"homem a fumar um cigarro e a beber vinho enquanto olha para uma fotografia\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-smoking-cigarette.png 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-smoking-cigarette-300x202.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-smoking-cigarette-768x516.png 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-smoking-cigarette-760x510.png 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Once he gets it, it\u2019s going to be late. By that time, you will know better.<\/p>\n<p>Nessa altura, dar\u00e1s todo o amor a ti pr\u00f3prio em primeiro lugar.<\/p>\n<p>Loving yourself is absolutely mandatory. By putting yourself first, you\u2019ll not only get over him but learn to recognize true love from others.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You won\u2019t be played again because once you give yourself the love you give to others, that\u2019s when you will realize how little love they were giving you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re over him because <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/razoes-para-ser-infeliz-no-amor\/\">he doesn\u2019t match your potential<\/a> mais.<\/p>\n<p>Ele fez parte do processo de aprendizagem pelo qual tiveste de passar para chegares onde est\u00e1s agora e, por isso, podes estar grato.<\/p>\n<p>Now you know how to approach life from the right side. You know how to react with power and authenticity, you don\u2019t have to wait for someone else.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tu \u00e9s suficiente por ti pr\u00f3pria e sabes disso.<\/strong> S\u00f3 isso faz de si uma mulher poderosa.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There\u2019s no force in the universe that can stop a woman who knows herself, who appreciates her own unique beauty, respects her mind and chooses to choose love over anything.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76701\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/positive-woman-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"mulher positiva a sorrir e a olhar para cima no exterior de um edif\u00edcio \" width=\"800\" height=\"542\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/positive-woman-smiling.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/positive-woman-smiling-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/positive-woman-smiling-768x520.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This time it\u2019s the love for herself.&nbsp;If a man can\u2019t recognize those things within her, he\u2019s not the one.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you don\u2019t settle for someone who is just there. Someone who thinks that their physical presence is enough to make the relationship work.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pensa e sonha mais alto. D\u00ea a si pr\u00f3prio o que quer, porque \u00e9 capaz de o fazer.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>If that\u2019s a man, believe he exists. If that\u2019s living on your own and feeling happy, that also exists.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 precisa de aceder ao seu pr\u00f3prio poder e fazer com que isso aconte\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E sabes que mais? Tens esse poder dentro de ti, tal como tinhas o poder de seguir em frente mesmo quando do\u00eda como o diabo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t wait for things to happen\u2014just take your first step and watch things fall into place.<\/p>\n<p>And most importantly\u2014never forget that you\u2019re the woman of your own life.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76704\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/By-The-Time-You-Realize-You-Lost-The-Woman-Of-Your-Life-I\u2019ll-Be-Over-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Quando perceberes que perdeste a mulher da tua vida, j\u00e1 te terei esquecido\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/By-The-Time-You-Realize-You-Lost-The-Woman-Of-Your-Life-I\u2019ll-Be-Over-You-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/By-The-Time-You-Realize-You-Lost-The-Woman-Of-Your-Life-I\u2019ll-Be-Over-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/By-The-Time-You-Realize-You-Lost-The-Woman-Of-Your-Life-I\u2019ll-Be-Over-You-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/By-The-Time-You-Realize-You-Lost-The-Woman-Of-Your-Life-I\u2019ll-Be-Over-You-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s funny how men often have a period of reckless behavior right after a break-up. It almost seems like they\u2019re celebrating it. On the other hand, women are almost always curled up in their bed and sobbing every night&#8230; Well, until they are not. It seems strangely coincidental that most of the time, that\u2019s probably&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":76703,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-76697","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/By-The-Time-You-Realize-You-Lost-The-Woman-Of-Your-Life-I\u2019ll-Be-Over-You.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/76697","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=76697"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/76697\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/76703"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=76697"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=76697"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=76697"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}