{"id":76724,"date":"2020-06-05T13:33:26","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T13:33:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=76724"},"modified":"2022-08-18T11:54:15","modified_gmt":"2022-08-18T11:54:15","slug":"coisas-que-uma-mulher-forte-vos-dira","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/coisas-que-uma-mulher-forte-vos-dira\/","title":{"rendered":"5 coisas que uma mulher forte te dir\u00e1 quando lhe pedires uma segunda oportunidade"},"content":{"rendered":"

Na maioria dos casos, quando se pede uma segunda oportunidade a uma rapariga cujo cora\u00e7\u00e3o j\u00e1 se partiu uma vez, as coisas correm bem.<\/p>\n

Fazes o teu melhor para a convencer de que mudaste e que nunca mais voltar\u00e1s a cometer os teus erros, pelo que, passado algum tempo, ela acaba por te perdoar.<\/p>\n

No entanto, as coisas s\u00e3o diferentes quando se trata de uma mulher realmente forte. De facto, aqui est\u00e3o 5 coisas que este tipo de rapariga lhe dir\u00e1 quando lhe pedir outra oportunidade.<\/p>\n

1. I\u2019m not your safety net<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Quando deixaste esta rapariga, estavas t\u00e3o convencido de ti pr\u00f3prio. Pensou que podia sair e encontrar algu\u00e9m muito melhor do que ela num instante.<\/p>\n

Cansou-se de estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria e pensou que seria bom experimentar a vida de solteiro.<\/p>\n

However, not one of your plans worked out. In fact, you realized that she was nowhere to be found and you can\u2019t replace her as easily as you were convinced you would.<\/p>\n

Todas essas raparigas e falsos amigos que estavas sempre a p\u00f4r \u00e0 frente dela acabaram por te virar as costas. Ningu\u00e9m estava l\u00e1 para te ajudar e, uma a uma, acabaram todas por te abandonar.<\/p>\n

So, now, when you have no one else to turn to, you assumed that you could come crawling back to her. Well, I hate to break it to you, but this girl will just tell you that she won\u2019t be your safety net.<\/p>\n

She is not your back up plan \u2013 someone who will always wait for you with her arms and doors wide open. She is nobody\u2019s segunda op\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> e muito menos a sua.<\/p>\n

2. I\u2019ve outgrown you<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando namoraram, esta mulher nunca vos viu com clareza. Afinal, ela estava t\u00e3o loucamente apaixonada por si que o idealizou e romantizou a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Ela achava que eras o melhor homem que ela poderia conhecer. Eras o homem mais inteligente, mais bonito, mais engra\u00e7ado e mais interessante do mundo.<\/p>\n

No entanto, depois de se ter afastado dela, ela conseguiu tirar os \u00f3culos cor-de-rosa. Ela finalmente viu a tua verdadeira face.<\/p>\n

Now this girl realizes that you are not worthy. You\u2019re not the guy she thought you were and she can definitely do much better.<\/p>\n

So, if you appear on her doorstep, begging for a second chance, I guarantee you that she\u2019ll tell you that she\u2019s outgrown you.<\/p>\n

No, she won\u2019t utter these words to humiliate you or destroy your ego, she will tell you this since it\u2019s merely the truth.<\/p>\n

3. I\u2019m not giving you the green light to keep on hurting me<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Todas as raparigas fortes sabem muito bem uma coisa: Dar a algu\u00e9m outra oportunidade<\/a> \u00e9 igual a dar-lhe permiss\u00e3o para continuar a tratar-te como um capacho.<\/p>\n

Significa dar-lhe luz verde para partir o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o mais uma vez.<\/p>\n

The same is with this girl. She doesn\u2019t fool herself by believing that you won\u2019t repeat your mistakes.<\/p>\n

De facto, ela sabe que homens t\u00f3xicos como tu nunca mudam. Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que ela o deixaria entrar na vida dela, s\u00f3 para que voc\u00ea a destru\u00edsse de novo e a transformasse num desastre?<\/p>\n

You see, for a woman like her, one strike is more than enough. The last thing she needs is reassurance that you\u2019re the same douchebag you\u2019ve already proven to be.<\/p>\n

Besides, she doesn\u2019t want to turn your relationship into you leaving her and coming back whenever you please. She respects herself more than that!<\/p>\n

4. Devias ter pensado em tudo isto a tempo<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When you repent for your bad deeds, you usually start acting like you\u2019ve finally seen the light after spending most of your life in darkness.<\/p>\n

Therefore, when you come asking for a second chance, you\u2019ll probably tell your girl that you\u2019ve realized everything.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll pedir-lhe perd\u00e3o<\/a> e tentar convenc\u00ea-la de que s\u00f3 agora v\u00eas a mulher fant\u00e1stica que ela \u00e9.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve experienced life without her and it\u2019s made you realize she is the only one you could ever love, the only one you can see yourself next to.<\/p>\n

Bem, uma vez uma mulher forte<\/a> hears all this, she\u2019ll just tell you that you should have thought of your actions while you were doing them.<\/p>\n

This might sound brutal, but it\u2019s pretty realistic since now it\u2019s too late to make any difference.<\/p>\n

5. Eu amava-te mas j\u00e1 n\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Let me put it straight. Despite everything you did to this girl, she\u2019ll never try annulling your relationship.<\/p>\n

Despite the outcome of your romance and the way it ended, she won\u2019t try to diminish it and represent it as completely irrelevant.<\/p>\n

Therefore, she won\u2019t do her best to convince you that she never loved you. She did care for you very much and she doesn\u2019t have trouble admitting that.<\/p>\n

However, she doesn\u2019t love you anymore and would never be with a man she has no feelings for.<\/p>\n

After all, you killed all the emotions she had, so there you go: now you\u2019re just enjoying the product of your own doing!<\/p>\n

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