{"id":7769,"date":"2017-10-31T12:59:35","date_gmt":"2017-10-31T12:59:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7769"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:33:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:33:23","slug":"5-maneiras-de-uma-rapariga-de-coracao-mole-e-mente-dura-amar-de-forma-diferente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-maneiras-de-uma-rapariga-de-coracao-mole-e-mente-dura-amar-de-forma-diferente\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneiras de como a rapariga com um cora\u00e7\u00e3o mole e uma mente dura ama de forma diferente"},"content":{"rendered":"

O teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o diz-te uma coisa e tu queres muito ouvi-lo, mas a tua mente interfere e impede-te. A tua mente \u00e9 a voz da raz\u00e3o, a voz do que deve ser correto, mas o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o quer fazer as coisas \u00e0 sua maneira.<\/p>\n

Although you know you should listen to what the reasonable part of you is saying, you can\u2019t help but listen to your emotions, to something you really want to do and not something you should do just because it\u2019s right.<\/p>\n

O teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o foi partido tantas vezes<\/a>, so you built this cold and harsh exterior to prevent that from happening ever again. You\u2019ve become strong and not because you wanted to, but because you had to.<\/p>\n

Em tempos, usaste o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o na manga. Uma vez, deste a todos uma segunda oportunidade. Outrora, o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o mole estava \u00e0 vista de todos. Mas algu\u00e9m usou a tua bondade e algu\u00e9m usou o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o fr\u00e1gil e amoroso e fez com que te fechasses e te escondesses no teu pr\u00f3prio sofrimento.<\/p>\n

Negaste que algu\u00e9m pudesse dar uma espreitadela ao que estava dentro de ti. Teve medo de mostrar os seus sentimentos. Tornaste-te reservado.<\/p>\n

Your cold and harsh shell hides your vulnerability. You\u2019ve put it on like a little black dress before going out. That is not you, it\u2019s just how others see you. Yet, underneath that facade, there is still a girl who knows how to love. There is still a warm and caring person with a soft heart, waiting to love someone differently.<\/p>\n

1. You know how to appreciate happiness because you\u2019ve seen sorrow<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

A \u00fanica coisa que sempre quiseste foi fazer os outros felizes. Querias ajudar quem precisava de ti e sempre te entregaste por inteiro, porque sabias que podias ajudar. Abriste o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e deixaste toda a gente entrar. Assim, fazias-lhes ganhar o dia e ajudavas-os a resolver os seus problemas, o que tamb\u00e9m te fazia sentir melhor.<\/p>\n

Mas muitos deles usaram a tua bondade e o teu bom cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Muitos deles aproveitaram-se de ti quando precisaram de ti, e depois deitaram-te fora quando acabaram. Muitos deles partiram o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3ozinho fr\u00e1gil.<\/p>\n

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2. You\u2019ve built walls around yourself for a reason<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

You\u2019re not going to let your guard down so easily now. You\u2019ve been broken and hurt once<\/a> and that was enough to lock yourself away from the world. It\u2019s easy to act like you don\u2019t have any feelings; it\u2019s easy to pretend like nothing bothers you.<\/p>\n

But if someone sticks around long enough, if someone sees right through you and knows you\u2019re the complete opposite on the inside than from what they see on the outside, then your walls will go down. You will tear them down, because you can\u2019t act like something you\u2019re not for too long.<\/p>\n

3. Usa actos e n\u00e3o palavras<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Words don\u2019t mean anything to you, not anymore. You\u2019ve heard so much, you\u2019ve been promised so much, and none of it came true. You don\u2019t believe what others say to you and you don\u2019t say anything yourself either. Deeds are what count and you know that.<\/p>\n

It is hard for you to tell someone how much you love them but that\u2019s why you are going to show it instead now. You will surprise him when he least expects it, you will send him a text out of the blue or you\u2019re going to buy him some candy just because you are thinking of him.<\/p>\n

4. \u00c9s cauteloso, mas ainda acreditas no amor<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

It\u2019s not that you don\u2019t want to love anyone ever again<\/a>. Secretamente, sonha em encontrar o seu verdadeiro amor e pensa que os dois se encaixam perfeitamente um no outro. Silenciosamente, anseia por amor, o amor que quebrar\u00e1 a dureza do seu rosto e deixar\u00e1 a suavidade do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o tomar conta de si.<\/p>\n

Antes, estava quebrada, mas quando o homem certo aparecer, vai entregar-se a ele e mostrar-lhe que, por baixo desse exterior \u00e1spero, h\u00e1 um enorme cora\u00e7\u00e3o e beleza para amar.<\/p>\n

5. H\u00e1 muito mais em ti do que qualquer um pode ver<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

People misjudge you all the time. As soon as they see you, they say you\u2019re cold-hearted. They say you don\u2019t have any feelings whatsoever. Then, they don\u2019t even care about whether they hurt you or not, because they assume nothing can touch you. They couldn\u2019t be more wrong.<\/p>\n

Some people, like you, hide their goodness and softness and that can even be a good thing, because only the right man will figure out that your harsh exterior is just a tool to mask your soft heart. So why bother with the ones who think you\u2019re simply cold and nothing more?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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