{"id":7774,"date":"2020-08-31T13:08:12","date_gmt":"2020-08-31T13:08:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7774"},"modified":"2022-01-28T00:01:42","modified_gmt":"2022-01-28T00:01:42","slug":"por-tua-causa-perdi-me-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/por-tua-causa-perdi-me-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Por tua causa, perdi-me a mim pr\u00f3prio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Perdi-me em cada um dos esfor\u00e7o para que me ames.<\/a><\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Perdi-me porque estava a tentar satisfazer as tuas necessidades. Escolhi a tua felicidade em vez da minha e achei que era a decis\u00e3o certa.<\/p>\n

Because when you love someone, their happiness is more important than yours, right? I lost myself every time that I said, \u201cYes\u201d to you, because saying, \u201cYes\u201d to you was saying, \u201cNo\u201d to myself.<\/p>\n

Perdi-me<\/a> num piscar de olhos, antes mesmo de me aperceber que estava de rastos e que tudo estava uma confus\u00e3o.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

E o pior de toda esta hist\u00f3ria \u00e9 que me viste a fazer isto a mim pr\u00f3prio, mas nunca abriste a boca para me dizer que eu devia estar alerta.<\/p>\n

Nunca me mostraste que n\u00e3o \u00e9 bom perder-me, porque te apaixonaste por mim tal como eu era.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Lembro-me de ser apaixonado, motivado e pronto para a aventura em qualquer altura. Fazia as malas e partia de mochila \u00e0s costas, sem pensar no que aconteceria amanh\u00e3.<\/p>\n

Eu era t\u00e3o despreocupada. Mas quando te conheci, havia uma energia negativa entre n\u00f3s sempre que est\u00e1vamos juntos.<\/p>\n

At that time I thought that it was normal for a girl to have mixed feelings. But after everything finished, I realized that I actually didn\u2019t have mixed feelings.<\/p>\n

A minha consci\u00eancia estava a tentar avisar-me sobre as coisas que poderiam acontecer se eu o deixasse controlar a minha vida.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I was blind in love and I wasn\u2019t listening to my mind, but my heart. And after all, I must admit that my mind was right about you every single time.<\/p>\n

The harsh truth is that I lost myself because of you but you didn\u2019t even try to save me.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

E eu era uma rapariga ing\u00e9nua, a pensar que eras o homem dos meus sonhos. Estou t\u00e3o zangada comigo mesma por ter deixado que me enganasses durante tanto tempo.<\/p>\n

Because what you felt wasn\u2019t love. It was something different but you never wanted to admit that.<\/p>\n

And I thought that it was just a bad day and that you would feel differently tomorrow. But you didn\u2019t. You kept hurting me without remorse.<\/p>\n

A life with you was a life on the edge and every time I saw you I felt weirdly uncomfortable. I felt that I was losing myself and I didn\u2019t like that feeling at all, because I was transforming into a person I never thought I would be.<\/p>\n

And that feeling was bad because it was eating me alive that I was changing because of a man who didn\u2019t even love me. In case he actually did love me, he sure showed that in a weird way.<\/p>\n

Quando me apercebi que ele n\u00e3o era o homem que eu merecia, decidi queimar as pontes entre n\u00f3s.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ele estava sempre a telefonar e a pedir-me para tentar outra vez, mas eu mantive a minha decis\u00e3o, mesmo quando o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o batia como louco e me dizia que devia dar-lhe outra oportunidade.<\/p>\n

But no, a man like that doesn\u2019t deserve a second shot. He had one and he didn\u2019t know how to use it wisely. Now, he will only see me happy with somebody else.<\/p>\n

Com algu\u00e9m que sabe o meu valor e que est\u00e1 consciente de que tenho muito para dar. E isso \u00e9 algo que farei pela pessoa certa quando chegar a altura.<\/p>\n

Aprendi a minha li\u00e7\u00e3o e j\u00e1 n\u00e3o sou a mesma rapariga ing\u00e9nua que deixa qualquer homem fazer de mim parva.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I am the ruler of my destiny and nobody can bring me down – unless I let him!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Por<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I lost myself in every single effort to make you love me. I lost myself because I was trying to satisfy your needs. I chose your happiness over mine and I thought that was the right decision. Because when you love someone, their happiness is more important than yours, right? I lost myself every time…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":102977,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7774","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Because-Of-You-I-Lost-Myself.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7774","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7774"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7774\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/102977"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7774"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7774"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7774"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}