{"id":77881,"date":"2020-06-05T13:23:53","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T13:23:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=77881"},"modified":"2022-01-10T03:05:49","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T03:05:49","slug":"estou-orgulhoso-de-mim-proprio-por-ter-sido-suficientemente-forte-para-te-deixar-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estou-orgulhoso-de-mim-proprio-por-ter-sido-suficientemente-forte-para-te-deixar-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Estou orgulhoso de mim mesmo por ser forte o suficiente para te deixar ir"},"content":{"rendered":"

Antes de come\u00e7ar, quero fazer um brinde. \u00c0 mulher mais corajosa, mais forte, mais teimosa e destemida que conhe\u00e7o. Um brinde a mim!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o, a s\u00e9rio, eu mere\u00e7o-o. Passei por tanta coisa, mas ainda estou aqui, ainda estou vivo, ainda tenho esperan\u00e7a num amanh\u00e3 melhor.<\/span><\/p>\n

O mais corajoso?<\/b> Amei um homem mais do que alguma vez amei algu\u00e9m. Mais do que alguma vez me amei a mim pr\u00f3pria. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas, eu p\u00f4r de lado todos esses sentimentos intensos e profundos<\/a> and chose to save myself before it was too late. Yes, as you probably guessed, that man didn’t love me back.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mais forte? <\/b>He broke my heart, but I didn’t allow him to break me. I <\/span>era suficientemente forte<\/span><\/a> para dizer: <\/span>That\u2019s enough<\/span><\/i>. Sou a mulher mais forte porque fui capaz de me curar e de seguir em frente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Teimoso? <\/b>Admito que sou provavelmente a pessoa mais teimosa que conhe\u00e7o, e agrade\u00e7o a Deus por isso. A minha teimosia fez-me continuar.<\/span><\/p>\n

I promised myself that someday he\u2019d regret treating me badly, and I didn’t stop until I got what I wanted.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sem medo? <\/b>I also admit that I was afraid sometimes. I was afraid of my loneliness. I was afraid for my mental health. I constantly feared I’d never be able to heal from this heartbreak completely.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eu curei-me. Curei-me e segui em frente. Continuei com a minha vida. Sou capaz de sorrir de novo e de me divertir.<\/span><\/p>\n

I think I am even able to open the doors to a new love, which I closed a long time ago because I didn’t want someone to hurt me as you did ever again.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quando decidi que era altura de te deixar ir, passei tantos dias e noites na minha cama a chorar, com a ajuda da minha fiel amiga<\/span> \u2013<\/span> gelado.<\/span><\/p>\n

Depois decidi que tinha de <\/span>deixar de sentir pena <\/span><\/a>para mim e mudar algumas coisas. Levantei-me da cama, tirei o pijama e vesti-me para o sucesso.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Trabalhei arduamente todos os dias em mim pr\u00f3prio. Os meus sonhos e os meus objectivos. Queria que ele percebesse que <\/span>o seu maior erro na vida foi ter-me tomado por garantido e acabar por me perder.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I admit, there are still some scars on my heart and soul. I\u2019ve decided I won’t try to heal those. I want to leave them there forever.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve learned to live with my scars. Now, they serve as a reminder of my past. Each one of my scars serves as a lesson.<\/span><\/p>\n

The scar on my soul teaches me that I shouldn’t trust all people easily. That they should first show me that they’re trustworthy and earn my trust.<\/span><\/p>\n

A que est\u00e1 no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o ensina-me que devo ter cuidado da pr\u00f3xima vez que decidir dar o meu amor a algu\u00e9m, e que s\u00f3 devo acreditar que algu\u00e9m me ama quando me provar isso atrav\u00e9s dos seus actos.<\/span><\/p>\n

As palavras n\u00e3o t\u00eam verdadeiramente significado<\/i><\/b><\/a> quando se trata de amor.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

As minhas cicatrizes s\u00e3o uma esp\u00e9cie de prote\u00e7\u00e3o para mim. Sabes, antes de entrares na minha vida, eu acreditava sinceramente que todas as pessoas eram boas.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I was just a silly and naive young girl. I thought that I didn\u2019t need to be careful with men or protect myself from being hurt. <\/span><\/p>\n

After you, I put my guard very high up. I stopped needing people. I didn’t want to let anyone in my life again.<\/span><\/p>\n

Afinal, a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica ensinou-me algumas coisas. <\/span>It\u2019s taught me that it’s time to put myself on the throne of my life.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I am the only person I can always rely on. I am the only person that\u2019s helped me and been there with me when no one else was.<\/span><\/p>\n

Demorei algum tempo e tive um desgosto terr\u00edvel, mas consegui deixar-te de uma vez por todas, e depois fazer-te perceber que eu era uma rapariga \u00fanica e que te arrependias de me ter perdido.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estou certo de que o a vers\u00e3o futura de mim est\u00e1 orgulhosa da mulher em que essa menina tola se est\u00e1 a tornar<\/a>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Estou<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Before I get started, I want to make a toast. Here is to the bravest, strongest, most stubborn and fearless woman I know. Cheers to me! No really, I deserve it. I went through so much but I am still here, still alive, still hoping for a better tomorrow. Bravest? I loved a man more…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":77883,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-77881","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Im-Proud-Of-Myself-For-Being-Strong-Enough-To-Let-You-Go.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77881","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=77881"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77881\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/77883"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=77881"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=77881"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=77881"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}