Avoidant individuals can avoid intimacy, relationships, or any kind of commitment but they can\u2019t avoid love. Love is a feeling that can’t be controlled.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n When love happens to someone, matter how much they try to deny it, it won’t go away.<\/p>\n As pessoas evitantes podem parecer frias \u00e0 primeira vista, mas acredite, elas t\u00eam os mesmos sentimentos que todos n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n If you have fallen in love with an avoidant, you’ll have to be very patient and make their feelings for you and their desire to have you bigger than their fear of commitment.<\/p>\n Utiliza\u00e7\u00e3o A sua obsess\u00e3o secreta<\/a>– a guide that lets you in on the best-hidden secrets of avoidant psyche. Learn more about him so you know how to make him commit to you.<\/p>\n Now, the real question is how you can make an avoidant miss you and want you. Before we skip to the answer to this question, let’s first take a look at what attachment theory is.<\/p>\n A teoria da vincula\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 relacionada com a liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional entre as pessoas.<\/p>\n Em particular, centra-se nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es (especialmente nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es a longo prazo) entre parceiros rom\u00e2nticos, bem como na liga\u00e7\u00e3o entre pais e filhos.<\/p>\n An attachment style is how we attach ourselves to the people we love. It’s the bond we create with those who are close to us.<\/p>\n That style affects our relationships more than we think. That’s why knowing and understanding the different attachment styles can benefit your love life in many ways.<\/p>\n Existem quatro estilos de anexos<\/em><\/strong>:<\/p>\n – Estilo de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o evitante<\/em> \u2013 these evitadores desdenhosos<\/a> are high on avoidance, low on anxiety. They always put their own needs first \u2013 that’s why they like independence.<\/p>\n They don’t want to commit to or start a romantic relationship with anyone.<\/p>\n – Estilo de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o ansioso<\/em><\/a> \u2013 these anxious avoidants are high on anxiety and low on avoidance.<\/p>\n They’re all about drama. It’s not a problem for them to be in a romantic relationship, but they’re always very insecure about their relationship.<\/p>\n – Estilo de fixa\u00e7\u00e3o seguro<\/em> \u2013 these people are low on both anxiety and avoidance. They are comfortable with physical intimacy and starting a serious relationship.<\/p>\n – Estilo de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o receoso-evitante<\/em> \u2013 these people are high on both anxiety and avoidance.<\/p>\n Fearful avoidants are almost always in a close relationship, but they are always worried that their partner isn’t being honest with them.<\/p>\n Sei que a teoria da vincula\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo em que normalmente pensamos, mas devemos conhecer os factos mais importantes sobre ela, porque afecta as nossas vidas de muitas formas.<\/p>\n Now, let’s get back to your question. If you’re wondering what to do to make your avoidant partner miss you, here are some proven methods that will most surely help you.<\/p>\n Persegui-lo \u00e9 algo que NUNCA se deve fazer. Os evitadores gostam de ser deixados em paz<\/em><\/strong>. They think that they can’t be understood by someone else, so they like to be left alone with their thoughts for some time.<\/p>\n They are also intimacy avoidant and they’ll use their distancing strategies whenever they see that you’re trying to take your relationship to the next level.<\/p>\n Let him do that. Don’t chase him. I guarantee he’ll be back after a while. He’ll want to continue the relationship with you the way it used to be.<\/p>\n You\u2019ve picked an parceiro evitante<\/a> for yourself. You\u2019ve chosen to love him. Now, no matter how much it hurts, you have to be reasonable with him too.<\/p>\n His fear of intimacy is real and you have to be patient and talk with him about it. Tell him how much it hurts you and your relationship. If it’s necessary, you can even go to a few couples therapy sessions.<\/p>\n O importante \u00e9 certificar-se de que ele sabe que estar\u00e1 sempre ao seu lado.<\/p>\n Sometimes, it’s going to be difficult because he’ll try to push you away but that’s when you should be the most patient and reasonable.<\/p>\n If he wants some space, give it to him. Don’t suffocate him. Show him that you are understanding and that you get him.<\/p>\n He’ll miss you but he’ll also be able to open up to you and talk about his mental health.<\/p>\n Relacionadas: Ser\u00e1 que ele sente a minha falta agora que o deixei sozinho?<\/a><\/p>\n De repente, ele distanciou-se de si e agora o que \u00e9 que faz? Come\u00e7a a pensar em telefonar-lhe ou talvez enviar uma mensagem a alguns dos seus amigos.<\/p>\n Errado e errado. A sua \u00fanica op\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 esperar.<\/em><\/strong> Esperar que ele d\u00ea o pr\u00f3ximo passo.<\/p>\n You already know that he loves you, even if he pulls away sometimes. He knows it too, and when he sees that you aren’t contacting him, he’ll be afraid of losing you and that’s when your phone will ring.<\/p>\n Don’t waste your time lying in bed with your phone, waiting for his call all day long. You have a life besides your relationship.<\/p>\n Tem os seus pr\u00f3prios interesses. Tem outras pessoas na sua vida que s\u00e3o importantes e agora seria a altura ideal para passar mais tempo com elas.<\/p>\n \u00c9 preciso ganhar o jogo da espera porque o objetivo \u00e9 faz com que ele sinta a tua falta<\/a>, lembra-se?<\/p>\n While you’re waiting, you must enjoy yourself and find a way for him to see that you’re having a great time.<\/p>\n It will drive him crazy because he is sure about his feelings for you, but he isn’t sure about himself. Waiting will make him regret that he pulled away.<\/p>\n One of the reasons why he is behaving avoidantly is because of social media. There is so much pressure there and sometimes he just can’t handle it.<\/p>\n It’s even worse if you’re very active on your social media and you ask him to post a photo of you every time you go out on a date.<\/p>\n You have to be aware that he has a shy personality. He doesn’t like people commenting on his photos.<\/p>\n He’ll never tell you that, but he isn’t okay with revealing too much about you and your relationship on your social media.<\/p>\n Tamb\u00e9m, pausar as suas actividades<\/a> nas redes sociais vai deix\u00e1-lo curioso para saber onde est\u00e1 e o que est\u00e1 a fazer.<\/p>\n Maybe he is used to your movements by now – even when he distances himself from you and from your social media.<\/p>\n But now… nothing.<\/p>\n Don’t share your photos or post your location. He misses you already for sure, but not knowing anything about what you\u2019re up to will make him contact you immediately.<\/p>\n I totally agree that in a healthy relationship you should be able to communicate openly. However, that doesn’t mean that you have to tell him every little thing about yourself.<\/p>\n Se quer realmente fazer com que um homem evitante sinta a sua falta, tem de guardar algo para si. Tem de manter um pouco de mist\u00e9rio vivo na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n It’s how you’ll keep him interested in you. Play a little hard to get. He’ll appreciate you more.<\/p>\n And he’ll most definitely want to spend more time with you, to get to know you completely.<\/p>\n There is nothing wrong with a natural look, but it’s just not enough when you know that you’re going to see him.<\/p>\n Tens de lhe mostrar o que ele est\u00e1 a perder. Deixa-o sem f\u00f4lego e faz com que perceba que sente a tua falta no momento em que te v\u00ea.<\/p>\n Antes de o fazer sentir a sua falta, tem de o fazer arrepender-se de a ter deixado ou de a ter perdido. Estar bonita de cada vez que se v\u00eaem vai ajudar nisso.<\/p>\n Todos sabemos que os homens s\u00e3o criaturas visuais, por isso tem de se certificar de que ele vai gostar do que v\u00ea.<\/p>\n Ir ao sal\u00e3o de beleza e delicie-se<\/a>. Fa\u00e7a um novo corte de cabelo, uma manicura e uma pedicura, e tudo o que achar que pode ajudar a chamar a aten\u00e7\u00e3o dele.<\/p>\n Get a complete makeover. Buy yourself some new clothes. It’ll help you feel great about yourself as well aso look stunning for your avoidant man.<\/p>\n In his eyes, you’ll be more attractive and gorgeous than ever and the picture of you will be stuck in his head until the next time you meet.<\/p>\n Make him jealous by getting the attention of other guys around you. Jealousy is a strong emotion and no matter what your attachment style is, most of the time we aren’t able to handle it as we should.<\/p>\n He’ll start missing you like crazy. He\u2019ll want to be closer to you. He’ll want to spend every minute of the day with you because he\u2019s realized that he made a mistake.<\/p>\n Nunca se deve subestimar o poder da linguagem corporal.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Body language is also a weapon in making him miss you. Unfortunately, your anxious partner’s body language is not so great.<\/p>\n He doesn’t have self-esteem. He isn’t confident. His posture tells the world that he is a shy man and not so sure of himself.<\/p>\n You can give him many signs through your body language or you can make him think that you don’t miss him at all and that you’re enjoying life more than ever.<\/p>\n Show him that you’re relaxed about communicating. Lean in a bit when you talk with him but pull back fast.<\/p>\n Keep your arms relaxed and don’t make gestures with your hands all the time. It’ll only make you seem nervous when you’re around him.<\/p>\n If he\u2019s told you that he needs some space or some time apart from you to think about you and your relationship, you have to accept and respect his decision.<\/p>\n Don’t bore him every day with the same question \u2013 has he thought about it. When he feels ready, he’ll call you and ask you to have a serious talk.<\/p>\n Tens de perceber que est\u00e1s a namorar com um homem que tem medo de compromissos. Um homem que tem medo da intimidade.<\/p>\n Um homem que se afasta sempre que v\u00ea que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o se tornou mais s\u00e9ria.<\/p>\n I’m not saying it’s going to be like that forever. You can talk with him and make him change some things that are hurting you.<\/p>\n It’s important that you do it slowly, though. You have to be aware that you’ll need a lot of patience to keep an avoidant man.<\/p>\n His ego is connected with his low self-esteem. And that’s the reason why he pulls back so often.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n He thinks that he isn’t good enough to be with you, so it’s better for both that he distances himself.<\/p>\nTeoria da vincula\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/h2>\n
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<\/a><\/p>\n1. Don’t chase him<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Deixar sempre uma dose de mist\u00e9rio<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n5. The natural look isn’t an option when you know you’re going to see him<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n6. Deixe o seu corpo falar por si<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n7. Don’t rush him<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n8. Aumentar o seu ego<\/h2>\n
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