{"id":77934,"date":"2020-06-05T13:24:55","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T13:24:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=77934"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:18:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:18:34","slug":"sinais-de-que-esta-a-ser-demasiado-disponivel-e-que-o-esta-a-afastar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-esta-a-ser-demasiado-disponivel-e-que-o-esta-a-afastar\/","title":{"rendered":"10 sinais de que est\u00e1s a ser demasiado dispon\u00edvel e isso est\u00e1 a afast\u00e1-lo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Have you ever heard the saying that we’re never too busy for the people we love? While that\u2019s true, the problem is that we actually take those words too seriously.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s true that you have to be there for your partner whenever he needs you.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, that doesn’t mean that you should neglect your personal interests or some other important people in your life and become too available for your man.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tem de estabelecer e respeitar alguns limites pessoais. Tens de lhe mostrar que tens uma vida para al\u00e9m da tua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

Acredite, \u00e0s vezes \u00e9 preciso fazer-se de dif\u00edcil, porque n\u00e3o tem piada nenhuma estar sempre demasiado dispon\u00edvel para o seu homem.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Sometimes love can make you blind and it may be hard to realize you’re being too available for your significant other, but here are some sure-fire signs that you should watch out for.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Organiza o seu tempo de acordo com o hor\u00e1rio dele<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Tem o seu trabalho, talvez alguns passatempos, a sua fam\u00edlia e amigos. Tem tantas coisas para fazer todos os dias mas, mesmo assim, organiza o seu tempo como o seu namorado quer ou de acordo com o hor\u00e1rio dele.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mesmo nos dias mais ocupados, tem sempre tempo para falar ou estar com ele. Para ti, nada \u00e9 t\u00e3o importante como ele. Nem mesmo a tua fam\u00edlia ou os teus amigos.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Telefona-lhe sempre primeiro<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You are deeply in love with him and no matter how much time you’ve spent together, you start missing him the moment he leaves.<\/span><\/p>\n

You miss him whenever he isn’t around. That’s why you always call him first. You always initiate contact because you just want to hear his voice or see how his day was.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pousa o telefone e <\/i><\/b>esperar que ele d\u00ea<\/i><\/b><\/a> telefonar-lhe por uma vez. Tem de ver se ele tamb\u00e9m sente a sua falta e se lhe telefonaria s\u00f3 para saber como foi o seu dia.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Deixa-o perseguir-te, para variar.  <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

3. Responde imediatamente \u00e0s suas mensagens<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Each time you get a text from him, you reply to it instantly as if you’ve been waiting for it all day. You even apologize to him every time you don’t reply immediately.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’re so happy when he texts you that no matter what you are doing or how busy you are, you’ll always make time to chat with him.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. As tuas amizades est\u00e3o a sofrer<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

It’s not a problem for you to bail on your friends every time he reschedules. You want to show him that you always have time for him even though it may cost you your friendships. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you think that he’ll appreciate it, you’re wrong. All he\u2019ll see is how easy it is for you to bail and let the people you love down.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Aceita os seus convites de \u00faltima hora<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Convidar algu\u00e9m \u00e0 \u00faltima da hora \u00e9 rude e desrespeitoso. Sei que gosta de passar tempo com ele, mas devia obrig\u00e1-lo a respeitar os seus limites.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid to reject him. Make him realize that you are no one\u2019s option. Also, tell him that you have your own life and that you can\u2019t reschedule your daily obligations to suit him. <\/span><\/p>\n

6. Esquece-se dos seus limites pessoais<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Os limites saud\u00e1veis s\u00e3o bons para todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es. Se quer que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o seja duradoura, tem de<\/span> estabelecer alguns limites<\/span><\/a> e o seu parceiro deve respeit\u00e1-las.<\/span><\/p>\n

If your partner crosses the line, you don’t get mad because you don’t want to initiate a fight in your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Conta-lhe todos os seus segredos<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Even though you don’t know him very well, you reveal all your secrets to him. You think that he shares the same feelings for you and that he’ll keep your secrets safe.<\/span><\/p>\n

Whenever something new happens, he is the first person you tell. Be careful, you may reveal some things he won\u2019t like.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. Est\u00e3o de acordo em tudo<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You are different and it’s only natural that you have different perspectives and opinions about some things. However, you forget this and start agreeing with him about everything.<\/span><\/p>\n

The word NO isn’t in your vocabulary anymore. You agree with everything your partner says because you are so in love with him that you are afraid to say NO to him.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You don’t want to express your opinions because you’re afraid that it might cause a conflict and that he’ll leave you.  <\/span><\/p>\n

9. Tornar-se dependente dele<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You want to be with him all the time because you are sad when you don\u2019t see him even for a day. You can\u2019t plan anything anymore without including him in your plans. <\/span><\/p>\n

At\u00e9 come\u00e7a a pedir-lhe conselhos sobre o seu trabalho, ou talvez comece a pedir-lhe permiss\u00e3o para fazer coisas. Deve saber que este tipo de comportamento numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 apenas a um passo de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica. <\/span><\/p>\n

10. You don’t want to date anyone else even though you aren’t official yet<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Even though you haven’t still defined your relationship, you don’t want to date other people. You are ready to wait for him to decide whether he is ready for a relationship or not, even if it takes a while.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’re doing some of these things, then I have to tell you only one thing: <\/span>ter uma vida fora da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, mostra-se \u00e0s pessoas <\/span>how they’ll treat you<\/span><\/a>. If you make yourself too available for them at the beginning of your relationship, they’ll always expect the same behavior from you.<\/span><\/p>\n

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