{"id":78269,"date":"2020-06-05T13:41:45","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T13:41:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=78269"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:13:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:13:14","slug":"comece-por-namorar-consigo-proprio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/comece-por-namorar-consigo-proprio\/","title":{"rendered":"Comece por namorar consigo mesmo porque tudo come\u00e7a com amor-pr\u00f3prio"},"content":{"rendered":"

The worst thing you can do is let your feelings for a guy control you. It’s like a special, magical eraser of your self-worth and self-love.<\/p>\n

He told you your hair was too long, so you cut it short, your glasses were making you look nerdy, so you put in lenses (suffering in the process of course but he would like it more), your bestie was too \u2018childish\u2019 so you stopped hanging out with her.<\/p>\n

PORQU\u00ca MENINA, PORQU\u00ca? Ser\u00e1 que ele vale mesmo a pena? Vale a pena perder quem tu \u00e9s para o fazer feliz?<\/p>\n

What kind of man is he if he can’t love you the way you are but the way he shapes you to be??! You’re not a cake to be molded, you are a human being, A WOMAN!<\/p>\n

Por isso, MULHER, tens de saber que, para onde quer que v\u00e1s neste mundo, fa\u00e7as o que fizeres, a certa altura acabar\u00e1s por procurar o amor.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

O que muitas vezes esquecemos \u00e9 que o amor est\u00e1 sempre presente. O amor mais bonito est\u00e1 dentro de n\u00f3s; o amor por n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

Todos, mas absolutamente todos, digam o que disserem, precisam de amor, tal como tu, e muitas vezes, mesmo demasiadas vezes, procuras esse amor junto de outras pessoas, pensando que s\u00e3o elas que to podem dar.<\/p>\n

In this process of seeking, you seem to forget one important thing: You are also giving lots of love. So what, you’ll ask. \u201cWhat is the point?\u201d<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Well, my dear, the point is, never but absolutely never give more love than you receive; otherwise, you’ll end up losing yourself in the worst way possible.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

You’ll end up leaving little pieces of yourself around, not knowing where they are and not being able to put them together ever again.<\/p>\n

Qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel baseia-se em duas pessoas que se amam e que se amam a si pr\u00f3prias.<\/p>\n

You show others how they’ll treat you by how you treat yourself. You cannot expect love and respect from others if you don’t give yourself either.<\/p>\n

Os homens entram e saem da sua vida, mas voc\u00ea estar\u00e1 sempre presente. Essa \u00e9 a principal raz\u00e3o pela qual precisa de namorar consigo pr\u00f3pria antes de come\u00e7ar a namorar com qualquer outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

Independentemente da evolu\u00e7\u00e3o da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, quer acabem ou se casem, NUNCA SE PODE ACABAR<\/em> COM VOC\u00ca MESMO<\/em>.<\/strong> You’re stuck with yourself forever.<\/p>\n

Tens de ser a tua prioridade n\u00famero um, rapariga.<\/p>\n

In any case, you might end up being someone’s backup plan, their punching bag or the place where they go when no one else is around and they know you’ll give them love again, even if they betrayed you before.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Por que raz\u00e3o haverias de ficar com algu\u00e9m que te traiu, que te humilhou sempre que p\u00f4de e que, eventualmente, de alguma forma, te fez sentir que a culpa era toda tua?<\/p>\n

You must know, it is not. It is him who chooses to hurt you and that’s why you have to be your own number one.<\/p>\n

Do not get me wrong, if you want to receive love, you have to give love, it’s unavoidable, but it mustn’t be blindly giving and never receiving any.<\/p>\n

Nunca se deve perseguir o amor a qualquer pre\u00e7o e negligenciar todas as outras partes de si s\u00f3 para fazer com que algu\u00e9m o ame.<\/p>\n

Business success, family, friends, even pets should not be suffering because you are fighting for someone who won’t fight back for you with the same strength as you do for them.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o ignore todas as partes da sua vida anterior para criar esta nova, pois pode n\u00e3o valer a pena.<\/p>\n

Por vezes, ser ego\u00edsta n\u00e3o \u00e9 completamente errado.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o no sentido de magoar outra pessoa para conseguir o que quer, mas no sentido de que as suas prioridades devem ser definidas de forma a saber o que quer e a nunca se dobrar por ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

E n\u00e3o estou a falar de uma forma boa e divertida de dobragem, mas sim de dobragem mental.<\/p>\n

When you let a man get into your head and heart so much that you think you cannot live without him, you are being unfair to yourself. Then you’re saying that he is more important than you.<\/p>\n

Pode viver sem ele, sem qualquer homem na verdade, por isso pergunte se quer, e n\u00e3o se pode.<\/p>\n

Mas a verdade \u00e9 que, claro que pode.<\/p>\n

You’re a woman, you can do anything.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Nunca na vossa vida, repito, NUNCA, d\u00eaem todo o vosso poder a um homem.<\/p>\n

Do not let him think he can treat you poorly and that you’ll stick around no matter what. That is not love, that is him being aware that you love him more and using it.<\/p>\n

Don’t wait for a second longer. Start the most beautiful relationship in your life. Start dating yourself. You are the only person you can fall in love with blindly.<\/p>\n

Lembrar, the more you love yourself, the less nonsense you’ll tolerate.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Comece<\/p>\n

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