{"id":7849,"date":"2017-11-01T14:24:29","date_gmt":"2017-11-01T14:24:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7849"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:05:32","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:05:32","slug":"apaixonar-se-pela-pessoa-errada-algo-precisa-de-menos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/apaixonar-se-pela-pessoa-errada-algo-precisa-de-menos\/","title":{"rendered":"Por que se apaixonar pela pessoa errada \u00e9 algo que voc\u00ea precisa fazer pelo menos uma vez"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando uma m\u00e1 rela\u00e7\u00e3o termina, ficamos t\u00e3o esgotados e exaustos que n\u00e3o queremos saber nada sobre o amor. Juramos por tudo o que \u00e9 sagrado que nunca mais nos vamos apaixonar. Uma m\u00e1 rela\u00e7\u00e3o foi uma li\u00e7\u00e3o aprendida<\/a> but we don\u2019t want to hear it at the time. So, we build walls around our hearts so high that no one could climb them.<\/p>\n

We look at broken relationships like they\u2019re the end of the world as we know it. They\u2019re bad. Ugly. It hurts. It\u2019s all but pretty. They leave us in mess and feeling like a walking disaster.<\/p>\n

Esquecemo-nos do significado do tempo nas nossas vidas. O tempo \u00e9 a cura mais significativa para tudo. O tempo faz-nos ver as coisas de outra perspetiva. Quando nos distanciamos da negatividade que as pessoas erradas causaram, somos capazes de ver porque \u00e9 que um
\num cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido pode ser a melhor coisa que nos aconteceu.<\/p>\n

Em primeiro lugar, aprendemos as nossas li\u00e7\u00f5es. Podemos n\u00e3o estar dispostos a aperceber-nos disso, mas aprendemos. Nunca aprendemos nada na vida quando tudo \u00e9 arco-\u00edris e sol. Aprendemos com as chuvas e as tempestades. Aprendemos com os nossos erros.<\/a> We learn where we went wrong so we don\u2019t make the same mistakes next time.<\/p>\n

Of course, there will always be mistakes that we will make three, four, five times just to make sure they are really mistakes. That\u2019s also something we shouldn\u2019t regret. We behaved as we felt at the time and we stayed true to our hearts.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Por<\/p>\n

Por vezes, demoramos mais tempo a perceber que estamos metidos em algo mau. Por vezes, estamos demasiado perto para ver que algu\u00e9m \u00e9 errado para n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n

The biggest lesson we learned here that is that sometimes we can\u2019t trust our hearts to make decisions\u2014we have to take our brain with us, too. Because the heart can mislead. It makes us look at things through rose-colored glasses. It makes us forgive when things can\u2019t be forgiven. It makes us forget the unforgettable.<\/p>\n

But when we distance ourselves from the wrong person, only then we can see where we went wrong. That\u2019s when we can see clearly. That\u2019s when everything starts making sense.<\/p>\n

Nunca nos devemos arrepender. Todas as l\u00e1grimas, suor e sangue que derram\u00e1mos, todas as vezes que falh\u00e1mos, valeram a pena. N\u00f3s tent\u00e1mos. O homem errado estava l\u00e1 para nos fazer perceber o que o amor n\u00e3o \u00e9.
\nLove isn\u2019t what you had with him.<\/a> Love isn\u2019t one-sided. Love is hard work but not constant sacrifice. Love isn\u2019t supposed to hurt\u2014love should be kind. Love isn\u2019t what somebody says, it is what somebody does.<\/p>\n

With the wrong person, the timing will always be wrong. It will always be too soon for certain things. He won\u2019t ever be ready. He won\u2019t be ready to give his all. He won\u2019t be ready to commit. When he comes to his senses, it will be too late for you. It will always be too late for him to change. Because you will be someone else without him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let one bad relationship close your heart. Take down those walls you built because of the wrong guy. Don\u2019t let him keep you away from the right one<\/a>. Don\u2019t let him influence your life.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de que uma m\u00e1 rela\u00e7\u00e3o estava destinada a acontecer. H\u00e1 algo de gratificante em aprender sobre si pr\u00f3prio atrav\u00e9s da dor que a pessoa errada causou. Agrade\u00e7a por ter acontecido porque aprendeu. Agrade\u00e7a por se ter livrado dele a tempo.<\/p>\n

Tiveste de estar com o homem errado para poderes reconhecer o certo quando ele aparecer. Tiveste de estar com o homem errado para n\u00e3o teres d\u00favidas quando o certo aparecer no teu caminho.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When a bad relationship ends, we are so drained and so exhausted that we don\u2019t want to know anything about love. We swear by everything that is holy we will never fall in love again. A bad relationship was a lesson learned but we don\u2019t want to hear it at the time. So, we build…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":7854,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7849","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pablo-varela-311608-1.jpg",800,599,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7849","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7849"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7849\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7854"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7849"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7849"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7849"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}