{"id":7880,"date":"2020-11-02T11:37:52","date_gmt":"2020-11-02T11:37:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7880"},"modified":"2022-01-24T16:09:00","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T16:09:00","slug":"a-rapariga-das-cartas-acabou-por-se-afastar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-rapariga-das-cartas-acabou-por-se-afastar\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para a rapariga que finalmente se foi embora"},"content":{"rendered":"

Caro Brave,<\/p>\n

Let me tell you something you won’t feel comfortable to hear.<\/strong> Mesmo que te custe a acreditar agora, fizeste o que estava certo.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso muita coragem para se afastar de algu\u00e9m que se amava. Mas afastar-se de algo que j\u00e1 foi amor (mas que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9) \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa correcta a fazer.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t hold on to something that no longer serves you. The only correct thing to do when the person you love stops appreciating you is to walk away. Fizeste o que estava certo.<\/a><\/p>\n

O amor que existia antes j\u00e1 desapareceu h\u00e1 muito tempo.<\/strong> The thing you had before faded away. But please, don\u2019t blame yourself. You gave it your best. You did everything you could.<\/p>\n

Your efforts were honest and sometimes even desperate, but they were there. You tried\u2014you tried so hard before you gave up. But you couldn\u2019t\u2019ve made it work out on your own.<\/p>\n

A sua hist\u00f3ria estava condenada a acabar sem um final feliz no momento em que a outra parte desistiu.<\/strong> Because no matter how hard you try, if you are the only one fighting for both of you, it\u2019s in vain.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Talvez tenham conseguido dar-vos mais um ou dois quil\u00f3metros na vossa viagem conjunta, mas essa estrada tinha um beco sem sa\u00edda de qualquer maneira.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que tens de ser tu a continuar a lutar?<\/strong> I admire your passion and your faith that you could make things better, but it didn\u2019t work, did it?<\/p>\n

At what point of being the only one that\u2019s trying did you realize that it was in vain?<\/p>\n

At what point did you realize that you\u2019re breaking a sweat over someone who wouldn\u2019t even lift a finger for you? You did a good thing by giving up.<\/p>\n

O amor que significava o mundo para ti, em tempos, tornou-se apenas conforto para ti.<\/strong> Era acolhedor e ligeiramente quente, mas j\u00e1 n\u00e3o havia paix\u00e3o<\/a>\u2014the fire got burned out.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o havia fa\u00edscas nos olhos. A admira\u00e7\u00e3o m\u00fatua desvaneceu-se e tudo o que restou e vos manteve unidos foram as mem\u00f3rias dos velhos tempos.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s not how you live and that\u2019s not how you love.<\/p>\n

A pior parte da vida \u00e9 encontrarmo-nos no fundo da lista de algu\u00e9m que continuamos a colocar como prioridade.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

The worst feeling is when you\u2019d swim the oceans for someone who keeps finding excuses when you need him. I swear it\u2019s the ugliest feeling there is, but you know that too well, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

A uma rapariga como tu deve ser apreciada<\/a>n\u00e3o \u00e9 um dado adquirido.<\/strong> Because you\u2019re so selfless with your love and your kindness.<\/p>\n

And if that\u2019s not worth the fight, if you\u2019re not worth the fight, I have no idea who is.<\/p>\n

Exatamente por causa da sua bondade, tem dificuldade em deixar as pessoas.<\/strong> \u00c9 dif\u00edcil afastar-se e deixar aqueles de quem gostamos sozinhos, independentemente da forma como nos tratam.<\/p>\n

Mas, por vezes, temos de ser gentis connosco pr\u00f3prios, escolhendo amar-nos e valorizar-nos quando n\u00e3o h\u00e1 mais ningu\u00e9m disposto a reparar nos nossos esfor\u00e7os. Fizeste a coisa certa ao afastar-te.<\/p>\n

Sei que foi dif\u00edcil afastar-me.<\/strong><\/a> Sei que desistir de tudo aquilo em que acreditaste te deixou de rastos. Sei que foi doloroso ter de o fazer, apesar de n\u00e3o ter outra escolha.<\/p>\n

Sei que choraste e sentiste que faltava algo na tua vida e no teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, apesar de teres feito a \u00fanica coisa certa a fazer.<\/p>\n

Because of the person you are, you can\u2019t help but stop wondering if there is something else, something more you could\u2019ve done to make things better.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

But you gave your all\u2014there wasn\u2019t anything else to give anymore. So, stop second-guessing your decision.<\/strong><\/p>\n

J\u00e1 chega.<\/strong> The pain you feel now will eventually go away. The feeling you\u2019re the one that betrayed someone will fade away. Because it\u2019s not real.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t betray anyone\u2014you just saved yourself when there was nobody else to take care of you.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, you\u2019re bound to do the right thing even though it hurts like hell.<\/strong> Por vezes, temos de nos quebrar para podermos seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

By walking away you get to be broken only once by doing the right thing. To stay would mean you\u2019re choosing to let someone keep breaking you over and over again just because you love him.<\/p>\n

Fizeste a coisa certa quando finalmente ganhaste coragem para te afastares.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Com os melhores cumprimentos,<\/p>\n

Algu\u00e9m que j\u00e1 l\u00e1 estava<\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dear Brave, Let me tell you something you won’t feel comfortable to hear. Even if you have a hard time believing it now, you did the right thing. It took a lot of courage to walk away from someone you used to love. But walking away from something that was once love (but is not…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":116797,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7880","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Finally-Walked-Away-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7880","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7880"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7880\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116797"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7880"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7880"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7880"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}