I\u2019m not saying that relationships are disappointing. I\u2019m saying that people often have high expectations and weak effort.<\/span><\/p>\n Tudo \u00e9 muito mais f\u00e1cil quando imaginamos situa\u00e7\u00f5es e cen\u00e1rios na nossa cabe\u00e7a. No entanto, <\/span>a realidade \u00e9 outra.<\/b><\/p>\n Strong love requires strong foundations and it isn\u2019t found \u2013 it\u2019s made. Love like that doesn\u2019t childishly ignore problems, but says <\/b>let\u2019s fix this<\/i><\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n I want to fix what\u2019s broken over and over again and glue it with gold. A struggle means a better foundation.<\/span><\/p>\n Quero cometer um erro e n\u00e3o voltar a comet\u00ea-lo, porque sei que \u00e9 melhor assim. Quero preocupar-me.<\/span><\/p>\n Quantas vezes j\u00e1 revirou os olhos depois de algo que a sua cara-metade disse ou fez por causa de coisas objetivamente insignificantes?<\/span><\/p>\n Start with that and then slowly progress towards more complex problems, because that\u2019s what relationships of any kind have \u2013 problems.<\/span><\/p>\n Now, what I want for myself isn\u2019t a relationship without problems, but one with endurance and character. A relationship that doesn\u2019t depend on anyone else but the two of us.<\/span><\/p>\n I don\u2019t want to doubt my partner; I want to trust him completely.<\/span><\/p>\n Quero estar num desses casamentos em que est\u00e3o casados h\u00e1 20 anos e continuam t\u00e3o apaixonados um pelo outro, a cuidar um do outro e a apoiar-se mutuamente.<\/b><\/p>\n I want the father of my children to be my best friend and someone I can count on \u2013 one who\u2019s going to constantly invest in our relationship and have the same goals as me.<\/span><\/p>\n I want to be immersed in my partner completely \u2013 and that includes through good times and the bad \u2013 the times when we\u2019re full of love and happiness, and the days when I feel broken and mad.<\/span><\/p>\n I want to fight for love and not give up when it comes to the first little obstacle. I want passion and romance, 3 AM conversations, and feeling the love at all times \u2013 even when we fight.<\/b><\/p>\n I know I have the capacity to love BIG and I don\u2019t want to pretend like that\u2019s not something to be proud of.<\/span><\/p>\n I\u2019m a ride or die, and that\u2019s why I need to know you\u2019re the one before I give all of myself to you.<\/span><\/p>\n I\u2019m tired of almost relationships, fake relationships, and immature men \u2013 people who don\u2019t understand me, who misunderstand my words, and who blame me for things I never did.<\/b><\/p>\n I need to know you\u2019re not afraid to be vulnerable. They say men shouldn\u2019t be vulnerable, but I disagree. A man who can address his feelings is a man who\u2019s always in control of himself.<\/span><\/p>\n I need to see your actions speak louder than words. I don\u2019t want to beg for things or constantly have to explain myself.<\/b><\/p>\n I need you to be proud of me and accept me as I am. A man who won\u2019t wave his hand at me when I bring up things that interest me.<\/span><\/p>\n I need to know that you have the capacity to love as big as me, because that\u2019s what I love about myself.<\/span><\/p>\n Adoro estar apaixonada pelo amor e querer que as coisas funcionem e sejam o melhor poss\u00edvel.<\/span><\/p>\n I don\u2019t want halfway love. I want it whole, because I\u2019m deserving of a whole, real love.<\/span><\/p>\n My work and effort deserve to be recognized. It\u2019s crazy I ever believed I was anything less than good enough just because other people didn\u2019t care as much as me.<\/span><\/p>\n I am good enough and the love I\u2019m giving is always more than good enough. My love is refusing to give up on you, no matter what.<\/b><\/p>\n Love isn\u2019t just good days. Love isn\u2019t just anniversaries and gifts. Love is everything in between. Whoever imagines a flawless, laughter-filled relationship with cutesy couple stuff, they\u2019re about to be disappointed. I\u2019m not saying that relationships are disappointing. I\u2019m saying that people often have high expectations and weak effort. 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