{"id":79546,"date":"2020-06-10T13:40:34","date_gmt":"2020-06-10T13:40:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=79546"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:27:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:27:34","slug":"nao-se-pode-perder-um-homem-bom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-se-pode-perder-um-homem-bom\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o se pode perder um bom homem, s\u00f3 se pode perder um homem que n\u00e3o era bom para n\u00f3s"},"content":{"rendered":"

O nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o pode levar-nos a pensar que devemos ser felizes s\u00f3 porque estamos com algu\u00e9m que amamos.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s true that love is the most important thing in life and that is the reason why it should be treated respectfully. And in this case \u2013 it wasn\u2019t.<\/span><\/p>\n

O amor \u00e9 muito mais do que o ocasional <\/b>Eu amo-te <\/i><\/b>ditas por h\u00e1bito e noites silenciosas passadas juntos quando nos sentimos s\u00f3s.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s so much more than distracting yourself with another movie you didn\u2019t really want to watch or calling your friends over to feel like something is happening.<\/span><\/p>\n

E as brigas constantes por coisas insignificantes? Quando \u00e9 que de repente te tornaste t\u00e3o mesquinho?<\/span><\/p>\n

You can say to yourself whatever you want but the truth is \u2013 he wasn\u2019t the one for you. Something was missing.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he was the one, you wouldn\u2019t have felt alone and misunderstood while he was right next to you. You wouldn\u2019t have felt like you needed to do something extra special to get his attention.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

After some time, you\u2019ll realize you were addicted to the feeling of closeness but not the love itself.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s what happens: people get addicted to feelings, to spending time with someone, to the way they make them feel\u2026 They get addicted to fantasies about what could have been when the reality is so very different.<\/span><\/p>\n

You were in love, but your intuition told you something else. It just wasn\u2019t \u2018it\u2019.<\/b><\/p>\n

You had no goal; you weren\u2019t working towards anything. There was no capacity for the love you want and need.<\/span><\/p>\n

A love that\u2019s not indifferent but loud and proud.<\/span><\/p>\n

You have every right to have the love you want \u2013 it\u2019s not just a fantasy. You can have the love that will make you happy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Um amor que nos faz sentir gratos todos os dias da nossa vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas antes de tudo isso, para estarmos satisfeitos connosco pr\u00f3prios, temos de nos aceitar.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso come\u00e7ar a praticar a auto-aceita\u00e7\u00e3o radical. Tu estabeleces o padr\u00e3o para ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It\u2019s about what you want and what\u2019s good for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

The man for you is out there \u2013 but first, you need to be good to yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quando se sente bem consigo pr\u00f3pria, o homem que entra na sua vida vai real\u00e7ar o seu brilho.<\/span><\/p>\n

Remember: relationships are important, but you shouldn\u2019t live for another person \u2013 you should live for yourself. Men add to your life, but they don\u2019t make your life.<\/b><\/p>\n

You should never put your worth in someone else\u2019s hands. Only you can decide your worth and others can realize it or miss out on it \u2013 that\u2019s not your problem.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deep down in your heart you know you\u2019re deserving of true love and you know it exists. You know yourself and what you\u2019re capable of.<\/span><\/p>\n

You know that there\u2019s someone who will prove that love can be shared and that two people can respect each other without being dependent.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Encontrar\u00e1s algu\u00e9m que te far\u00e1 sorrir quando menos esperares, algu\u00e9m que te compreender\u00e1 sem palavras e que te far\u00e1 sentir sempre seguro.<\/span><\/p>\n

A man who will accept you as you are without question \u2013 because you\u2019ll have nothing to hide.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vulnerability is the way to experience love but only when you\u2019re in a healthy relationship with yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid to be honest with yourself, and don\u2019t step back to make someone else comfortable.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be like me and learn this the hard way. Don\u2019t stay with someone you consider a good man just because <\/span>everything\u2019s okay<\/span><\/i>. Ent\u00e3o, e se ele for um <\/span>homem bom<\/span><\/i>?<\/span><\/p>\n

That still doesn\u2019t mean he\u2019s good for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

You know what you need and don\u2019t wait for it to come to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

O melhor que pode fazer \u00e9 estar sempre do seu lado.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Our heart can trick us into thinking we should be happy just because we\u2019re with someone we love. It\u2019s true that love is the most important thing in life and that is the reason why it should be treated respectfully. And in this case \u2013 it wasn\u2019t. Love is so much more than the occasional…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":79558,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-79546","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Can\u2019t-Lose-A-Good-Man-You-Can-Only-Lose-A-Man-Who-Wasn\u2019t-Good-For-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79546","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=79546"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79546\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/79558"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=79546"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=79546"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=79546"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}