{"id":79966,"date":"2020-07-09T11:36:31","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T11:36:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=79966"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:02:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:02:57","slug":"so-porque-te-amo-nao-significa-que-vou-deixar-que-me-espezinhes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/so-porque-te-amo-nao-significa-que-vou-deixar-que-me-espezinhes\/","title":{"rendered":"Just Because I Love You Doesn't Mean I'll Let You Walk All Over Me"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m not the kind of girl who hides her feelings. I don\u2019t like <\/span>jogar duro para conseguir<\/span><\/a> nem quaisquer outros jogos mentais.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not in my nature to pretend to be indifferent just for you to chase me and go crazy over me. I won\u2019t go hot and cold just to make you question my emotions and get under your skin. <\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, I\u2019m very honest about the way I feel. I don\u2019t run away or repress my emotions, and I don\u2019t have a problem with exposing them to you. <\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t see it as my weakness. In fact, my ability to love unconditionally is my strength and something I\u2019m proud of. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, I love you unconditionally. However, please don\u2019t misunderstand me when I say this.<\/b><\/p>\n

When I tell you that I love you unconditionally, I\u2019m promising to stay by your side through thick and thin. It means I\u2019m not walking away from you the moment I find a better opportunity.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

It means I won\u2019t abandon you at first glance of trouble. I won\u2019t turn my back on you when you\u2019re going through hard times nor will I leave you hanging when you need me the most.<\/span><\/p>\n

When I tell you that I love you unconditionally, I\u2019m promising to stay by your side through sickness and health, good and bad days, all the storms and challenges, and everything life throws at you. <\/span><\/p>\n

MAS,<\/span> this doesn\u2019t mean that I will put up with you not treating me the way I deserve just because I love you. <\/b><\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019ll allow you to disrespect me in any way, humiliate me, or insult me. It doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019ll be okay with you putting me down, making me feel like <\/span>I\u2019m not good enough<\/span><\/a>ou a diminuir o meu valor.<\/span><\/p>\n

It certainly doesn\u2019t mean that I\u2019ll allow you to keep on breaking my heart. Loving you is not a green light for you to hurt me, take advantage of me, or play with my feelings.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Just because I love you doesn\u2019t mean that I will let you walk all over me. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sabes, eu gosto muito de ti. No entanto, <\/span>my emotions don\u2019t annul my self-respect and sense of self-worth.<\/b><\/p>\n

Therefore, if you\u2019re counting on my endless forgiveness just because of my feelings for you, think again.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re counting on me allowing you to treat me like a doormat, putting up with everything you do to me, trust me \u2013 you can\u2019t be more wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re convinced that I\u2019ll let you abuse me in any way or treat me like I\u2019m below you, it\u2019s time to look for another victim.<\/span><\/p>\n

You see, I want you in my life and I\u2019m very happy with having you by my side. But don\u2019t you ever think that I can\u2019t make it without you or will put up with everything just to keep you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t confuse my deep love for you with an inability to live without you. Don\u2019t confuse it with a lack of dignity or especially a lack of brains.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sabes, eu gosto muito de ti. Dito isto, <\/span>if you want my love to stay, you\u2019ll just have to deal with the fact that I will always <\/b>amar-me mais<\/b><\/a>. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You\u2019re very important to me, but I\u2019ll always put myself first \u2013 in front of you and everyone else. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, I guess it\u2019s pretty natural that I simply can\u2019t allow myself to love someone who hurts me in any way. On the contrary, if I did, I wouldn\u2019t be loving myself as much as I say I do, would I?<\/span><\/p>\n

Look, these are my terms. They might sound like too much for you and that\u2019s your right. <\/span><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t beg you to accept them. Nevertheless, I will ask you for one thing.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pe\u00e7o-vos que sejam honestos com ambos. <\/span>Sejam honestos e decidam desde j\u00e1 se tudo isto \u00e9 algo que podem aceitar ou n\u00e3o, e poupem-nos a problemas desnecess\u00e1rios. <\/b><\/p>\n

I repeat: I won\u2019t be angry if you tell me that my demands are excessive. Instead, I\u2019ll appreciate your honesty. <\/span><\/p>\n

In that case, please walk away in time. Do it before I catch any more feelings for you \u2013 before you break my heart. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por outro lado, se decidires ficar, posso prometer-te que te revelarei as profundezas do amor que nunca soubeste que existia.<\/b><\/p>\n

I promise to prove to you that you made the right decision, because I will give you much more than what I\u2019m asking for.<\/b><\/p>\n

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I\u2019m not the kind of girl who hides her feelings. I don\u2019t like playing hard to get nor any other mind games. It\u2019s not in my nature to pretend to be indifferent just for you to chase me and go crazy over me. I won\u2019t go hot and cold just to make you question my…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":82961,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-79966","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Just-Because-I-Love-You-Doesn\u2019t-Mean-I\u2019ll-Let-You-Walk-All-Over-Me.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79966","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=79966"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79966\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/82961"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=79966"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=79966"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=79966"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}