{"id":8000,"date":"2020-07-06T09:23:38","date_gmt":"2020-07-06T09:23:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8000"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:12:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:12:50","slug":"rapariga-que-vale-a-pena-nao-esperar-ninguem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/rapariga-que-vale-a-pena-nao-esperar-ninguem\/","title":{"rendered":"A rapariga que vale a pena ter n\u00e3o espera por ningu\u00e9m"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWhy don’t you tell me that ‘if the girl had been worth having she’d have waited for you’? No, sir, the girl really worth having won’t wait for anybody.\u201d  <\/i>F. Scott Fitzgerald<\/b><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Sempre pensei que esperar por algu\u00e9m era a derradeira prova de amor. Mas, quando o nosso amor consiste apenas em esperar, sabemos que n\u00e3o estamos no caminho certo.<\/p>\n

Parece que tudo o que fazes \u00e9 esperar. Esperas que ele mude de ideias. Esperas que ele se torne homem. Esperas que ele ganhe ju\u00edzo. Esperas que ele perceba o quanto o amas.<\/p>\n

Esperas que ele perceba que tamb\u00e9m te ama, que tem medo. Esperas que chegue o momento certo. Espera-se por um milagre. Esperamos e cansamo-nos de esperar.  <\/p>\n

A \u00fanica coisa que se ganha ao esperar pacientemente \u00e9 tempo perdido. <\/b>Podem passar-se meses ou mesmo anos at\u00e9 se perceber que se est\u00e1 \u00e0 espera de algu\u00e9m que nunca vir\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Somebody who really doesn’t want to catch up.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 pessoas que nos fazem esperar e h\u00e1 aquelas por quem escolhemos esperar.<\/b><\/p>\n

Aqueles que o fazem esperar s\u00e3o normalmente apenas manipuladores egoc\u00eantricos que est\u00e3o a explorar as suas op\u00e7\u00f5es enquanto o mant\u00eam por perto.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

D\u00e3o-nos apenas o suficiente para nos agarrarmos, uma mensagem ou um telefonema ocasional, mas nunca demasiado para sentirmos que est\u00e3o verdadeiramente presentes.<\/p>\n

Por isso, habituamo-nos e ficamos satisfeitos com as migalhas de aten\u00e7\u00e3o que nos d\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Then, there are those you choose to wait for. They hurt the most because by waiting for them, you are deliberately hurting yourself. It’s completely your choice to be patient and hopeful.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> P\u00e1ra de esperar por ele: Se ele quisesse estar contigo, estaria<\/a><\/p>\n

Se ele se foi embora, est\u00e1 \u00e0 espera que ele volte. Esperas que ele mude de ideias e perceba que sempre esteve destinado a estar contigo.<\/p>\n

Or maybe he was never with you but you are hoping that someday he might notice you. You are putting those people on a pedestal for no reason, and they don\u2019t even know they are there.<\/p>\n

Talvez nem sequer tenha a certeza do que est\u00e1 \u00e0 espera. Tem medo de que isso nunca aconte\u00e7a, mas n\u00e3o est\u00e1 disposto a abandonar esse sentimento.<\/p>\n

The only truth here is that if he was truly worthy, he wouldn\u2019t keep you waiting. He wouldn\u2019t let you wonder about his feelings\u2014he would show them openly.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t have to ask for his attention\u2014he would give it freely.<\/p>\n

Esperar por algu\u00e9m significa n\u00e3o dar uma oportunidade a outra pessoa. Por algu\u00e9m que te d\u00ea tudo o que queres imediatamente.<\/p>\n

In the end, it\u2019s all about you. You have to love and respect yourself enough and not wait for anything or anybody.<\/p>\n

Tens de ser aquela que prefere estar sozinha a passar o seu tempo \u00e0 espera de algu\u00e9m que talvez nunca chegue.<\/a><\/p>\n

You are the only one who can control your life. Everything is about your choices. You chose to wait. You chose to delude yourself that something is there when it really isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

No fundo, sabe que n\u00e3o vale a pena esperar por ele e que \u00e9 muito pouco prov\u00e1vel que as coisas mudem.<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m pode optar por deixar tudo em qualquer altura. Por isso, escolhe n\u00e3o esperar. Avan\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

Love doesn\u2019t keep you waiting. If it\u2019s real, you will both be on the same page at exactly the same time. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

 Love rushes in like a tornado and sweeps you off your feet\u2014 it doesn\u2019t ask you to stand still and wait.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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