{"id":8003,"date":"2020-08-06T10:19:19","date_gmt":"2020-08-06T10:19:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8003"},"modified":"2022-02-20T22:54:54","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T22:54:54","slug":"carta-de-aniversario-namorado-ceu-aniversario-sozinho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/carta-de-aniversario-namorado-ceu-aniversario-sozinho\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta de anivers\u00e1rio para o meu namorado no c\u00e9u: Neste Anivers\u00e1rio Estou Sozinho"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><i>Querido amor da minha vida,<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>This birthday won\u2019t be like the rest of them because this time <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-merecias-morrer\/\">n\u00e3o est\u00e1 aqui<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Desta vez vou chorar em vez de rir, e vou acender velas na tua sepultura em vez de soprar algumas contigo no teu bolo de anivers\u00e1rio.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>J\u00e1 n\u00e3o est\u00e1 entre n\u00f3s. Agora est\u00e1 num lugar melhor. Provavelmente est\u00e1s a olhar para mim l\u00e1 de cima, a sorrir e a dizer que sou um tolo por chorar por ti.<\/p>\n<p>But you see, I don\u2019t know to handle things differently. If I hadn\u2019t loved you that much, I wouldn\u2019t be crying on your grave.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Tenho uma rosa branca na m\u00e3o e estou a pensar em ti.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ainda me lembro daquela noite em que vieste buscar-me e me trouxeste uma rosa branca. Era um s\u00edmbolo do nosso amor t\u00e3o puro e limpo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102267\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/woman-holding-a-white-rose.jpg\" alt=\"mulher segurando uma rosa branca\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/woman-holding-a-white-rose.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/woman-holding-a-white-rose-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/woman-holding-a-white-rose-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/woman-holding-a-white-rose-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/woman-holding-a-white-rose-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Hoje, estou a colocar a mesma flor na tua campa para te lembrar de mim. Para te dizer que n\u00e3o est\u00e1s sozinho.<\/p>\n<p>Para vos dizer que ainda h\u00e1 algu\u00e9m aqui em baixo cujo cora\u00e7\u00e3o bate por v\u00f3s, embora o vosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o tenha deixado de bater h\u00e1 muito tempo.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe I shouldn\u2019t do this. Maybe I should just forget things and move on. Maybe this is just a way in which I am torturing myself. But I wouldn\u2019t be me if I didn\u2019t write this birthday letter to you.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Por isso, mesmo que n\u00e3o estejas aqui, quero que saibas que continuo a amar-te.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>I still miss you and I still crave you. Please, don\u2019t forget that. You will have a special place in my heart and I will always be thinking of you.<\/p>\n<p>Today, I am not the only one who is crying. Today, the Earth is also crying because it lost an angel who moved to a better place. Today, it is not the time for celebrating\u2014it is the time for mourning.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102268\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/young-woman-crying-2.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem a chorar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/young-woman-crying-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/young-woman-crying-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/young-woman-crying-2-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/young-woman-crying-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/young-woman-crying-2-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>J\u00e1 n\u00e3o est\u00e1s aqui e todos os teus amigos e a tua fam\u00edlia sentem muito a tua falta. E, acima de tudo, h\u00e1-me a mim.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Sinto a tua falta e penso se as coisas poderiam ter sido diferentes.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>If you had just stayed with me that night, you wouldn\u2019t have driven and you wouldn\u2019t have had a car accident. If you had just stayed with me, you could have had a chance.<\/p>\n<p>Uma hip\u00f3tese de vida. Mas o destino fez outra hist\u00f3ria para ti. Agora, ningu\u00e9m ouve os meus gritos durante a noite enquanto sonho contigo.<\/p>\n<p>Desta vez ningu\u00e9m v\u00ea as minhas l\u00e1grimas. Desta vez, ningu\u00e9m me ouve chamar o teu nome, na esperan\u00e7a de que apare\u00e7as ao virar da esquina. Ningu\u00e9m me ouve, nem mesmo tu.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Sabes, uma vez ouvi dizer que Deus tira os anjos da Terra<\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102269\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/crying-woman-sitting-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a chorar sentada na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/crying-woman-sitting-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/crying-woman-sitting-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/crying-woman-sitting-on-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/crying-woman-sitting-on-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/crying-woman-sitting-on-bed-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o, agora finalmente percebo porque \u00e9 que Ele te levou. Eras demasiado perfeito para viver num mundo cruel como este. Eras demasiado bom para ser verdade. E agora est\u00e1s no lugar onde mereces estar.<\/p>\n<p>Sei que est\u00e3o a divertir-se, mas todos n\u00f3s, que fic\u00e1mos aqui, n\u00e3o estamos a sentir o mesmo.<\/p>\n<p>Sentimo-nos mal porque perdemos um homem, um amigo, um amante, uma alma g\u00e9mea. E isso d\u00f3i. D\u00f3i mesmo. Mas s\u00f3 temos de nos habituar ao facto de j\u00e1 n\u00e3o estares aqui.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Sei que preciso de ser forte.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>You always told me that you don\u2019t like when I cry or when I feel down. You taught me so many things and one of them was to never surrender.<\/p>\n<p>Ensinaste-me que a vida \u00e9 demasiado curta para nos sentirmos em baixo e para nos preocuparmos com as coisas pequenas. Ensinaste-me que devo viver a minha vida ao m\u00e1ximo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102270\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/lonely-woman-looking-at-lake.jpg\" alt=\"mulher solit\u00e1ria a olhar para o lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/lonely-woman-looking-at-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/lonely-woman-looking-at-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/lonely-woman-looking-at-lake-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/lonely-woman-looking-at-lake-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/lonely-woman-looking-at-lake-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>E eu vi aquele brilho nos teus olhos quando falavas disso. Havia um fogo neles, suficientemente forte para aquecer os cora\u00e7\u00f5es de todas as pessoas \u00e0 tua volta.<\/p>\n<p>Amavas tanto a vida. Aproveitavas cada dia como se fosse o \u00faltimo.<\/p>\n<p>E s\u00f3 por causa disso, estou t\u00e3o devastada porque Deus levou-te daqui. Sei que nunca O vou perdoar por esse ato.<\/p>\n<p>It wasn\u2019t fair and you didn\u2019t deserve that. You deserved to be loved. You deserved to live. You deserved to enjoy life. But all my wishes are in vain now because I can\u2019t bring you back.<\/p>\n<p>A \u00fanica coisa que posso fazer agora \u00e9 escrever-te uma carta de anivers\u00e1rio. Isto \u00e9 um sinal de que ainda te amo profundamente. E nunca deixarei de o sentir.<\/p>\n<p>O meu amor por ti sempre foi grande, mas h\u00e1 algum tempo tornou-se ainda maior.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102271\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/crying-woman-writing-a-love-letter.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a chorar a escrever uma carta de amor\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/crying-woman-writing-a-love-letter.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/crying-woman-writing-a-love-letter-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/crying-woman-writing-a-love-letter-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/crying-woman-writing-a-love-letter-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/crying-woman-writing-a-love-letter-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lembram-se daquela noite em que o nosso carro parou a meio do caminho e descobrimos que t\u00ednhamos um pneu furado?<\/p>\n<p>I am still laughing like crazy when I remember how you wanted to change to the spare but it didn\u2019t work like you thought it would.<\/p>\n<p>It was raining and we didn\u2019t have any place to hide except a small cottage in the woods. I bet you still remember that I was the one who was lighting the fire so we could get warm.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Nessa noite, dei-te todo o meu amor. Naquela noite, duas almas tornaram-se uma s\u00f3. Naquela noite o fruto do nosso amor foi feito.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>E est\u00e1 dentro de mim neste momento. Est\u00e1 a crescer mais a cada dia que passa. E consigo ouvir o bater do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o sempre que digo o teu nome.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o \u00e9 estranho porque ele \u00e9 teu filho, aquele que vir\u00e1 a este mundo para te substituir. Aquele que me far\u00e1 feliz e aquele que me far\u00e1 lembrar de ti sempre que olhar para ele.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102272\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pregnant-woman-standing-in-the-field.jpg\" alt=\"mulher gr\u00e1vida de p\u00e9 no campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pregnant-woman-standing-in-the-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pregnant-woman-standing-in-the-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pregnant-woman-standing-in-the-field-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pregnant-woman-standing-in-the-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/pregnant-woman-standing-in-the-field-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So, dear love of my life, my angel, my best friend and my soulmate\u2014I am sorry that you won\u2019t be here to meet our son.<\/p>\n<p>Mas prometo-vos que tentarei ser pai e m\u00e3e para ele. Prometo-te que vou falar muito de ti e que ele vai sentir a tua presen\u00e7a na vida dele.<\/p>\n<p>Dir-lhe-ei que o pai dele era corajoso e bonito. Dir-lhe-ei que foste o melhor homem que conheci na minha vida e que ele pode orgulhar-se de ser teu filho.<\/p>\n<p>Farei tudo para que ele seja feliz. Mas tamb\u00e9m preciso de um favor teu. Preciso que tomes conta de n\u00f3s do C\u00e9u. Preciso que nos ames como n\u00f3s te amamos.<\/p>\n<p>Porque precisamos de ti agora mais do que nunca. Preciso de ti agora porque, mesmo que n\u00e3o estejas aqui fisicamente, quero que estejas comigo espiritualmente.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>No final, s\u00f3 quero agradecer-vos por tudo o que me deram.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102273\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/young-woman-crying-in-silence.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher a chorar em sil\u00eancio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/young-woman-crying-in-silence.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/young-woman-crying-in-silence-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/young-woman-crying-in-silence-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/young-woman-crying-in-silence-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/young-woman-crying-in-silence-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>With you, I learned so many things and so many life lessons. And above all, I got the most precious gift from you\u2014our son. He will be the light of my life, my morning, my evening.<\/p>\n<p>Ele ser\u00e1 a minha felicidade, a minha tristeza e o meu medo. Ele ser\u00e1 tudo o que tu foste para mim.<\/p>\n<p>And the best thing is that on your next birthday , I won\u2019t be alone standing here with a white flower in my hand <b><i>. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Da pr\u00f3xima vez, receber\u00e1s duas rosas brancas dos dois cora\u00e7\u00f5es que batem por ti!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Com amor,<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Os vossos dois anjos<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102276\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/A-Birthday-Letter-To-My-Boyfriend-In-Heaven-This-Birthday-I-Am-Alone-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Uma Carta de Anivers\u00e1rio Para o Meu Namorado No C\u00e9u Neste Anivers\u00e1rio Estou Sozinho\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/A-Birthday-Letter-To-My-Boyfriend-In-Heaven-This-Birthday-I-Am-Alone-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/A-Birthday-Letter-To-My-Boyfriend-In-Heaven-This-Birthday-I-Am-Alone-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/A-Birthday-Letter-To-My-Boyfriend-In-Heaven-This-Birthday-I-Am-Alone-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/A-Birthday-Letter-To-My-Boyfriend-In-Heaven-This-Birthday-I-Am-Alone-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/A-Birthday-Letter-To-My-Boyfriend-In-Heaven-This-Birthday-I-Am-Alone-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Love of my life, This birthday won\u2019t be like the rest of them because this time you are not here. This time I will cry instead of laughing, and I will light candles on your grave instead of blowing out some with you on your birthday cake. You are no longer here among us&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":102274,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8003","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/A-Birthday-Letter-To-My-Boyfriend-In-Heaven-This-Birthday-I-Am-Alone.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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