{"id":80364,"date":"2020-06-11T08:21:22","date_gmt":"2020-06-11T08:21:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=80364"},"modified":"2022-07-31T22:49:09","modified_gmt":"2022-07-31T22:49:09","slug":"jogos-mentais-que-as-mulheres-fazem-com-os-homens","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/jogos-mentais-que-as-mulheres-fazem-com-os-homens\/","title":{"rendered":"24 jogos mentais mais comuns que as mulheres fazem com os homens"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Embora normalmente se recusem a admiti-lo, a verdade \u00e9 que as mulheres jogam jogos. De facto, na maioria dos casos, fazem-no com mais frequ\u00eancia do que os homens.<\/p>\n<p>This doesn&#8217;t mean that all women are manipulative. In fact, most mind games women play on men are actually directed towards making you chase them even harder or making you commit.<\/p>\n<p>However, despite their intentions, if you don&#8217;t know much about these <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fake-love\/relacao-toxica\/3-jogos-mentais-que-todas-as-pessoas-toxicas-fazem\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">jogos mentais<\/a>, you can easily be tricked into doing something you don&#8217;t want.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why we&#8217;ve decided to let you know about the most common mind games women play on men.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>&#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/o-que-significa-o-contacto-visual-prolongado-de-um-homem-para-uma-mulher\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Jogar duro para conseguir<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve heard about hard to get games. This is a set of tactics many women use when they want you to try a little bit harder to make them yours.<\/p>\n<h2>1. \u201cI won\u2019t look at you\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80404\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-staring-at-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a olhar para uma mulher \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia com fato de escrit\u00f3rio\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-staring-at-a-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-staring-at-a-woman-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-staring-at-a-woman-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-staring-at-a-woman-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The hard to get mind games women play on men usually start even before you actually get in touch with a certain girl. It all begins with the \u201cI won\u2019t look at you\u201d stage of your flirting.<\/p>\n<p>When you meet a woman you still don\u2019t know, the first contact you have is usually through the eyes.<\/p>\n<p>Tenta-se fazer <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/o-que-significa-o-contacto-visual-prolongado-de-um-homem-para-uma-mulher\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">contacto visual prolongado<\/a> e fazer o seu melhor para descobrir se ela gosta de si ou n\u00e3o com base no seu aspeto.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, isto \u00e9 muito mais f\u00e1cil do que parece. Na verdade, a maioria das raparigas utilizar\u00e1 este contacto visual para brincar consigo.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe she\u2019ll look at you at first but as soon as she sees you staring at her, she\u2019ll probably look away.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, at this point you don\u2019t know what to think: does she like you or did you just misinterpret her initial look?<\/p>\n<p>Well, in this scenario, there is a possibility of the girl being shy. Maybe she is too embarrassed to look at you directly or is afraid that she\u2019ll blush once you figure out that she is indeed flirting with you.<\/p>\n<p>Por outro lado, existe uma possibilidade ainda maior de que esta rapariga esteja realmente a provocar-te.<\/p>\n<p>She simply doesn\u2019t want to be perceived as too available and she sees herself as a female character who is always being chased by men.<\/p>\n<h2>2. \u201cI won\u2019t respond to your texts\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80405\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-riding-a-bike.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a andar de bicicleta enquanto segura um smartphone no meio da estrada com muitas \u00e1rvores\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-riding-a-bike.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-riding-a-bike-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-riding-a-bike-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sure there isn\u2019t a guy out there who hasn\u2019t struggled with a thing called delayed responses while hitting on a girl \u2013 or even when they have already started dating.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, most women act like they have this timer installed in their brains. According to them, there is a specific time frame in which they\u2019re allowed to respond to a guy\u2019s text \u2013 even if they like him.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not unusual for a girl to turn off her mobile phone and only get back to you hours later.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re texting a woman who behaves like this, it\u2019s normal to wonder if she is interested or not.<\/p>\n<p>Is she just being polite when she answers your texts every now and then or she is interested but doesn\u2019t want you to see how crazy she is for you?<\/p>\n<p>Well, that is exactly what this woman wants you to think. She doesn\u2019t want you to be certain of her intentions and she wants you to spend some time trying to figure her out.<\/p>\n<h2>3. \u201cI won\u2019t accept your date invitations\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80406\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-looking-at-a-man-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a olhar para um homem olhos nos olhos, ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"511\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-looking-at-a-man-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-looking-at-a-man-1-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-looking-at-a-man-1-768x491.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This might be a new one for you: most girls won\u2019t accept your date invitation the first time you ask them out. As a man, this probably makes no sense but it is actually very common female behavior.<\/p>\n<p>After all, if you like someone, you are more than happy to go out with them. However, many girls\u2019 brains don\u2019t function like that.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, for them it\u2019s important to act like they\u2019re hard to get. So, many girls will turn you down the first time you ask them out on a date just to see if you really want to see them.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e3o eles <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/9-sinais-de-que-ela-esta-a-testar-te-para-decidir-se-es-um-bom-namorado\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">teste<\/a> you to see whether you\u2019ll give up on the first obstacle or you\u2019ll be more persistent or ask them out again.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, this is where you\u2019ll have to be extra wise and see the subtle differences between a girl who is turning you down because she really doesn\u2019t want to go out on a date with you, and a girl who is sending you a hint to ask her again.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 complicado, eu sei.<\/p>\n<p>Pay attention to her answer. Is she saying \u201cno\u201d without much explanation and without leaving the possibility of seeing you some other time?<\/p>\n<p>Nesse caso, detesto ter de o dizer, mas ela provavelmente n\u00e3o est\u00e1 interessada e seria melhor para si n\u00e3o levar as coisas mais longe.<\/p>\n<p>Por outro lado, se ela propuser um adiamento ou disser que gostaria de sair consigo quando o conhecer melhor, tem certamente uma oportunidade com ela.<\/p>\n<h2>4. \u201cI\u2019m not so interested\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80407\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-pushing-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a empurrar um homem de p\u00e9, ao ar livre, com um fato de inverno\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-pushing-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-pushing-a-man-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-pushing-a-man-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-pushing-a-man-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be straight about one thing: a girl can be head over heels for you but she\u2019ll rarely show it to you directly.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, most women think that it\u2019s a guy\u2019s job to chase them and this is exactly what they\u2019re trying to accomplish by pretending to be not so interested.<\/p>\n<p>After all, they&#8217;ve seen it in movies and read about it in books. All female characters are chased by these strong men while they have second thoughts about their relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, don\u2019t expect some big love declarations from a woman in the initial stage of dating.<\/p>\n<p>Many girls think that saying simple things such as \u201cI like you\u201d or \u201cI\u2019m interested in you\u201d are out of hand and will make them look desperate.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, they\u2019ll usually try and find a balance between showing you that they\u2019re interested but not too interested.<\/p>\n<h2>5. O jogo da espera<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80408\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-on-ipad.jpg\" alt=\"homem no ipad sentado no interior de uma sala perto das janelas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-on-ipad.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-on-ipad-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-on-ipad-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When a girl is playing hard to get, she\u2019ll make you wait. First of all, she\u2019ll make you wait on her text responses and on her calling you back.<\/p>\n<p>After that, once you finally arrange a date, she\u2019ll probably be late. This waiting game is another way of her testing you: will you walk away or will you wait for her to show up?<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, a maioria das raparigas f\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 esperar por qualquer tipo de afeto ou contacto f\u00edsico.<\/p>\n<p>A woman who plays games won\u2019t kiss you right away and any bedroom activity will be postponed, even though she probably wants the same things as you.<\/p>\n<p>Claro que, quando se trata deste tipo de espera, a \u00faltima coisa que deve fazer \u00e9 ultrapassar os seus limites.<\/p>\n<p>Show her that you find her attractive and that you\u2019re dying to kiss or hug her but respect her personal boundaries unless you want to be perceived as a creep.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong><em>&#8211; Passive aggressive games<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Women are generally not abusers. They&#8217;re rarely aggressive or violent.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, o seu poder reside na sua capacidade de ser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sinais-relacao-passivo-agressiva\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">agressivo passivo<\/a>. Esta \u00e9 uma pr\u00e1tica que os ajuda a evitar o confronto direto.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the habit of indirectly expressing their thoughts, feelings, and desires.<\/p>\n<h2>6. \u201cI\u2019m not angry\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80410\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-kissing-the-woman-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"homem a beijar a mulher na cama enquanto a mulher est\u00e1 ocupada com o seu smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-kissing-the-woman-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-kissing-the-woman-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-kissing-the-woman-in-bed-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Unlike men, in most cases, a girl won\u2019t tell you that she\u2019s angry or upset about something you did.<\/p>\n<p>De facto, mesmo quando lhe pergunta diretamente se est\u00e1 tudo bem, \u00e9 pouco prov\u00e1vel que ela seja honesta e provavelmente mentir\u00e1 que est\u00e1 tudo em perfeita ordem, o que est\u00e1 longe de ser verdade.<\/p>\n<p>Sim, seria muito mais f\u00e1cil se ela lhe dissesse o que se passa, para que pudessem discutir o assunto de uma forma madura e, eventualmente, encontrar uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o para o vosso problema.<\/p>\n<p>However, women want their men to be mind readers. This girl will expect you to magically know what\u2019s wrong without her having to tell you \u2013 and then make things right using that same magic.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, she wants you to be aware of your mistakes on your own without her having to explain herself. I know that this is extremely difficult to understand for guys but sadly, that\u2019s how the other sex works.<\/p>\n<h2>7. &#8220;You can do whatever you want\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80412\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-explaining-to-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a dar explica\u00e7\u00f5es a um homem ao ar livre em plena luz do dia\" width=\"800\" height=\"511\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-explaining-to-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-explaining-to-a-man-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-explaining-to-a-man-768x491.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando uma rapariga te diz para fazeres o que quiseres, N\u00c3O FA\u00c7AS O QUE QUISERES, em circunst\u00e2ncia alguma.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me \u2013 this is one of the biggest and most common traps women will try to use.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll probably find yourself in this situation when you\u2019re asking her for a rain-check for your date so you can go out with your guy friends, or when you\u2019re wondering if she\u2019ll be bothered by you having coffee with your ex girlfriend.<\/p>\n<p>Your girl will never say \u201cno\u201d to these requests. She doesn\u2019t want to appear to be a naggy, jealous wife who controls every move you make.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, she\u2019ll probably tell you to make a decision on your own and to do as you please. However, this is not an authorization on her part.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, it is nothing but a test that many guys fail. You think that she is perfectly okay with you doing what you want and you continue with your plans, assuming that she doesn\u2019t mind.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, at the first occasion, she\u2019ll rub this in your face. You\u2019ll see that she wasn\u2019t happy with your choice and she\u2019ll make sure you realize it one way or another.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not saying that you should blindly obey your girl\u2019s wishes.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m just trying to prepare you for the consequences of your actions and trying to make you understand the real meaning hidden behind her words.<\/p>\n<h2>8. O tratamento silencioso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80413\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-white-cup.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a segurar uma ch\u00e1vena branca com um homem \u00e0 sua volta na cozinha\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-white-cup.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-white-cup-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-white-cup-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Outro dos jogos que as mulheres fazem com os homens \u00e9 o chamado <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-formas-de-reagir-ao-tratamento-silencioso-na-sua-relacao\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">tratamento silencioso<\/a>. Sabes, aquele comportamento feminino quando ela te ignora ou te d\u00e1 respostas de uma palavra \u00e0s tuas perguntas?<\/p>\n<p>Well, this one is pretty similar to the \u201cI\u2019m not angry\u201d game. In both cases, your girl will act angry but will deny feeling like that.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, she\u2019ll probably use irony and sarcasm while talking to you. She might try insulting you indirectly or she\u2019ll just turn off her cell phone and decline your calls.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, she\u2019ll do anything besides actually telling you what\u2019s wrong. This is another case in which you\u2019re expected to use your magician skills and read her mind.<\/p>\n<p>Ou pode simplesmente esperar que ela ganhe ju\u00edzo e esteja pronta para falar consigo como um adulto. A escolha \u00e9 toda tua!<\/p>\n<h2>9. N\u00e3o lhe dar a oportunidade de pedir desculpa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80414\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-white-and-blue-polo.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de p\u00f3lo branco e azul ao lado de um homem de camisa branca\" width=\"800\" height=\"520\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-white-and-blue-polo.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-white-and-blue-polo-300x195.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-white-and-blue-polo-768x499.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando se comete um erro, a ordem natural dos acontecimentos \u00e9 dizer que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/100-citacoes-de-lamento-para-ela-para-que-a-pessoa-amada-o-perdoe\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">you\u2019re sorry<\/a> to the person you\u2019ve harmed.<\/p>\n<p>However, many women won\u2019t give you the chance to apologize to them.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, they\u2019ll probably tell you that they don\u2019t need your apologies and that you saying that you\u2019re sorry means nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Bem, dar-lhes ouvidos e n\u00e3o pedir perd\u00e3o \u00e9 um grande erro. De facto, todas as raparigas esperam que pe\u00e7a desculpa, apesar do que ela diz.<\/p>\n<p>However, what most men don\u2019t know is that saying that you\u2019re sorry is not enough.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you have to actually show it, and your actions have to reflect your words if you don\u2019t want them to end up sounding empty.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should form a habit of apologizing all the time, especially for the things you didn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n<h2>10. Pretending she\u2019s not jealous<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80419\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-staring-at-two-couple-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a olhar para dois casais com cara de ci\u00fames, de vestido preto\" width=\"800\" height=\"521\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-staring-at-two-couple-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-staring-at-two-couple-1-300x195.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-staring-at-two-couple-1-768x500.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you like a girl, it\u2019s normal to get jealous of other guys around her.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ll become a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/11-sinais-de-que-o-parceiro-e-maniaco-por-controlo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">man\u00edaco por controlo<\/a> who will cage her and keep her just for yourself, but it wouldn\u2019t be normal if you felt nothing when you see her around another man who might represent a threat to your relationship or your place in her life.<\/p>\n<p>Bem, \u00e9 aqui que as raparigas funcionam quase da mesma forma que os rapazes. Por isso, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 d\u00favida sobre uma coisa: se uma rapariga gosta de si, vai ter ci\u00fames at\u00e9 um certo ponto.<\/p>\n<p>However, most women won\u2019t admit this, even if their life depends on it as that would be proof of their feelings for you, which is something they\u2019re trying to hide at all costs.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, they\u2019ll pretend that they don\u2019t care who you see, where you go, who you\u2019re texting, and if you\u2019re flirting with someone else.<\/p>\n<h2>11. \u201cIt\u2019s not you, it\u2019s me\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80421\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-rejecting-proposal.jpg\" alt=\"mulher rejeita proposta de um homem durante um jantar\" width=\"800\" height=\"520\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-rejecting-proposal.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-rejecting-proposal-300x195.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-rejecting-proposal-768x499.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>How many times have you heard this empty phrase? I don\u2019t think there\u2019s a man out there who has never been told the infamous words \u201cIt\u2019s not you, it\u2019s me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Well, let me tell you a big secret: in a girl\u2019s head, it\u2019s always you. Even if she doesn\u2019t want to tell you, there is a reason for her losing interest or dumping you.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, there is also a chance that she simply doesn\u2019t like you enough to actually be with you. Maybe she thinks she can do better or perhaps there is another guy she\u2019s chosen over you.<\/p>\n<h2>12. Reten\u00e7\u00e3o de afeto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80427\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-ignoring-the-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a ignorar o homem com foco no homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-ignoring-the-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-ignoring-the-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-ignoring-the-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Another popular form of passive aggressive behavior is something known as \u201cwithholding affection\u201d. This is a mind game women play to emotionally blackmail and manipulate you.<\/p>\n<p>Quando uma rapariga est\u00e1 a tentar marcar uma posi\u00e7\u00e3o ou quer que a persiga mais, ela ret\u00e9m o afeto.<\/p>\n<p>She wants you running after her like a little puppy, since she is convinced that, as a man, you\u2019re dependent on physical touch.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>&#8211; Hot and cold games<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Jogar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/a-psicologia-por-detras-do-jogo-dos-encontros\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">jogos quentes e frios<\/a> muitas vezes leva a que os homens n\u00e3o saibam qual \u00e9 a sua posi\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve ever found yourself in a situation where you had absolutely no clue what a girl wanted from you or whether she was even interested or not, she was probably playing these games, without you even noticing.<\/p>\n<h2>13. Amar-te vs. ser indiferente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80433\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/handsome-guy-in-blue-top.jpg\" alt=\"um homem bonito com um top azul, parado \u00e0 porta, segurando um \u00f3culos\" width=\"800\" height=\"529\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/handsome-guy-in-blue-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/handsome-guy-in-blue-top-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/handsome-guy-in-blue-top-768x508.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Um dos jogos mais comuns que as mulheres fazem com os homens \u00e9 aquele em que o deixam sem saber quais s\u00e3o os seus verdadeiros sentimentos.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re trapped in this kind of game, the girl you\u2019re into will probably <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fake-love\/relacao-toxica\/sinais-de-que-e-um-bombardeamento-amoroso-e-nao-um-amor-verdadeiro\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">bomba de amor<\/a> you at first. In the beginning, she will act like she\u2019s too good to be true.<\/p>\n<p>She will behave like you\u2019re the man she\u2019s spent her entire life waiting for. She will treat you like her Prince Charming.<\/p>\n<p>Esta rapariga vai enviar-lhe mensagens de texto a toda a hora, vai aceitar os seus convites para sair, vai telefonar-lhe para sair e pode at\u00e9 ir ao ponto de o apresentar aos amigos e \u00e0 fam\u00edlia.<\/p>\n<p>She will probably tell you that she loves you and if she doesn\u2019t say those exact words, she will definitely act like she does.<\/p>\n<p>However, as soon as she sees that you\u2019re hooked, she\u2019ll change. All of a sudden, she\u2019ll start acting indifferent and there will be no sign of the girl you used to know.<\/p>\n<p>Just like that, she\u2019ll become too busy to see you, she\u2019ll stop putting you first, she won\u2019t initiate communication, and she\u2019ll start treating you like her last resort.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, when this starts to happen, you\u2019ll assume that she\u2019s lost interest with time.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll be convinced that she\u2019s fallen out of love with you and after a few initial tries to revive the flame between you two, you\u2019ll want to give up on this girl.<\/p>\n<p>However, that\u2019s when she\u2019ll go to being her old self. She\u2019ll sense that she\u2019s losing you and she\u2019ll start to love you again.<\/p>\n<p>Before you know it, you\u2019ll find yourself trapped in an endless cycle of this girl playing her hot and cold mind games.<\/p>\n<p>In that process, you\u2019ll fall madly in love with her, which is exactly what she wanted all along.<\/p>\n<p>Not only that: you\u2019ll also be under her complete control. Without even being aware of it, you\u2019ll be ready to do whatever it takes just to prevent her entering her \u201ccold phase\u201d once more.<\/p>\n<h2>14. Envio de sinais contradit\u00f3rios<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80441\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-jealous-to-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem com ci\u00fames de uma mulher que est\u00e1 a falar com outro homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-jealous-to-a-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-jealous-to-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-jealous-to-a-woman-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Apesar de os homens serem frequentemente acusados de enviar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/os-seus-sinais-contraditorios-fazem-me-questionar-a-mim-proprio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">sinais contradit\u00f3rios<\/a>A verdade \u00e9 que a maioria das raparigas s\u00e3o campe\u00e3s desta disciplina.<\/p>\n<p>De facto, uma das t\u00e1cticas mais comuns que as mulheres utilizam para o deixar louco por elas s\u00e3o estas mensagens ocultas que tem dificuldade em descodificar.<\/p>\n<p>J\u00e1 alguma vez esteve numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que uma rapariga tem claramente ci\u00fames de outras mulheres na sua vida, mas ela pr\u00f3pria se recusa a dar-lhe uma oportunidade?<\/p>\n<p>Where she tells you that she\u2019s been dying to see you but can\u2019t make it every time you invite her on a date?<\/p>\n<p>Have you ever been in a situation where a girl\u2019s actions don\u2019t match her words? Where she doesn\u2019t let you move on but doesn\u2019t want to be with you either?<\/p>\n<p>Well, in that case, my friend, you\u2019re in the trap of a woman\u2019s mixed signals.<\/p>\n<p>You spend most of your time dissecting everything this girl does or tells you and before you know it, she\u2019s becomes the only person you think of.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">&#8211; Making you jealous<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Nenhuma mulher quer estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um homem possessivo ou controlador. No entanto, o que eles raramente admitem \u00e9 que gostam de a ver um pouco ciumenta.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, a certain amount of jealousy often serves as proof that you&#8217;re really into them. Therefore, girls will sometimes try to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-fazer-ciumes-a-um-homem-13-maneiras-de-o-fazer-desejar-te-muito\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">fazer-te ci\u00fames<\/a> de prop\u00f3sito, s\u00f3 para obter uma rea\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2>15. Comparar-te com o ex dela<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80455\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-fighting-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"casal a lutar na cama com as suas roupas de dormir vestidas\" width=\"800\" height=\"529\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-fighting-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-fighting-in-bed-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-fighting-in-bed-768x508.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uma rapariga que esteja a tentar fazer-lhe ci\u00fames trazendo \u00e0 baila as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es anteriores nunca o far\u00e1 diretamente.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll never say \u201cMy ex was better than you\u201d or \u201cI loved my ex more than I love you\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>However, she\u2019ll constantly compare you to him in subtle ways. She\u2019ll mention the romantic gestures and the surprises he made for her, she\u2019ll casually talk about his presents and the attention he gave her.<\/p>\n<p>Existem duas op\u00e7\u00f5es neste cen\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n<p>Na primeira, a rapariga coloca o seu ex num pedestal. Est\u00e1 sempre a dizer que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com ele era perfeita.<\/p>\n<p>Se isto \u00e9 algo com que se identifica, deixe-me dizer-lhe que ela est\u00e1 provavelmente a exagerar. Na verdade, ela est\u00e1 a idealizar o seu romance passado para estabelecer um padr\u00e3o que espera que voc\u00ea atinja.<\/p>\n<p>Ela quer que, inconscientemente, comece a competir com o seu ex. Quer que lhe compre coisas melhores e que a trate com ainda mais carinho do que ele fazia.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if she is talking trash about her ex, it\u2019s her way of sending you a message. This way, she\u2019s actually warning you of the type of behavior she won\u2019t tolerate in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>However, this is also a form of manipulation. When you hear all of this, you\u2019ll do your best not to repeat this guy\u2019s mistakes and prove to her that not all men are the same.<\/p>\n<h2>16. Showing you that you\u2019re replaceable<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80611\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-angry-with-his-partner.jpg\" alt=\"homem irritado com o facto de a sua companheira atender e rir-se de uma chamada telef\u00f3nica mesmo ao seu lado\" width=\"800\" height=\"529\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-angry-with-his-partner.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-angry-with-his-partner-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-angry-with-his-partner-768x508.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uma rapariga que est\u00e1 a tentar fazer-te ci\u00fames far\u00e1 tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para te mostrar que podes ser facilmente substitu\u00eddo.<\/p>\n<p>Sim, ela gosta de ti, mas pode encontrar outro tu num minuto.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, uma mulher inteligente nunca lho dir\u00e1 abertamente, pois sabe que isso seria rude e inapropriado.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, she\u2019ll make sure you\u2019re perfectly aware of this fact at all times so you never take her for granted.<\/p>\n<p>First and foremost, she\u2019ll casually mention all the guys who are hitting on her. Of course, she\u2019ll convince you that she remains immune to their courtship but the point is that she has other options.<\/p>\n<p>She might even tell you that one of her exes is going out of his way to make up with her. She\u2019ll point out that only now has he realized what he lost.<\/p>\n<p>Tudo isto tem um objetivo: esta rapariga quer que se torne <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-coisas-que-os-homens-tem-medo-de-perder\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">medo de a perder<\/a>. Al\u00e9m disso, ela quer avis\u00e1-lo para ser suficientemente s\u00e1bio para ver o seu valor antes de sentir a sua aus\u00eancia.<\/p>\n<h2>17. Namoriscar com outros homens<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80458\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/men-and-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homens e mulheres a namoriscarem num bar enquanto bebem cerveja\" width=\"800\" height=\"529\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/men-and-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/men-and-woman-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/men-and-woman-768x508.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Flirting with other guys in your presence is something girls will do, especially if they feel that they\u2019re not getting enough attention from you.<\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 mais uma das estrat\u00e9gias que utilizam para vos mostrar que h\u00e1 outros peixes no mar.<\/p>\n<p>A girl will do this if you aren\u2019t exclusive or even if you are in a labelled relationship.<\/p>\n<p>When you try to confront her about this, she\u2019ll tell you that flirting is not cheating or she\u2019ll try to convince you that you\u2019re imagining things.<\/p>\n<p>Reagir a ela <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/7-dicas-testadas-e-verdadeiras-para-atrair-um-homem\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">namoro<\/a> in the right way is not easy. If you stay silent about it, she\u2019ll start doing it even more since in reality she wants a reaction.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if you tell her that you\u2019re bothered by her behavior, you\u2019re exposing your vulnerabilities to her.<\/p>\n<p>This way, she\u2019ll probably flirt with someone every time she wants to provoke you or hurt your feelings.<\/p>\n<h2>18. Utilizar as redes sociais para provocar ci\u00fames<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80612\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-man-using-social-media.jpg\" alt=\"jovem a utilizar as redes sociais num smartphone com coment\u00e1rios de gostos e \u00edcone de pessoa em azul\" width=\"800\" height=\"529\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-man-using-social-media.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-man-using-social-media-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-man-using-social-media-768x508.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nos encontros modernos, as plataformas de redes sociais s\u00e3o uma parte importante de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica. Por isso, tamb\u00e9m d\u00e1 \u00e0 sua namorada uma oportunidade fant\u00e1stica de o deixar com ci\u00fames.<\/p>\n<p>This is especially the case if we\u2019re talking about your ex-girlfriend.<\/p>\n<p>After all, she doesn\u2019t need to have any physical contact with you to make you jealous \u2013 it\u2019s more than enough to post an Instagram story with some other guy or to ask her friend to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/comentarios-fixes-para-o-instagram\/\">deixar um coment\u00e1rio por baixo da sua fotografia.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you ever find yourself in this situation, don\u2019t think that she found someone else immediately after your breakup.<\/p>\n<p>Provavelmente, ela s\u00f3 est\u00e1 a tentar fazer com que v\u00e1s ter com ela.<\/p>\n<p>Ela quer que reajas e que tenhas medo que ela siga em frente.<\/p>\n<p>Ela espera que voc\u00ea a procure e quer voltar a estar com ela, mas recusa-se a dar o primeiro passo para uma reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2>19. Sair com outros homens<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80463\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-and-woman-in-the-gym.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher no gin\u00e1sio com roupa de desporto\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-and-woman-in-the-gym.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-and-woman-in-the-gym-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-and-woman-in-the-gym-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Technically, when you\u2019re not in a labeled, committed, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/15-characteristics-of-a-healthy-and-mature-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a>, you both have the right to date other people. Well, that\u2019s exactly what this girl uses to make you jealous.<\/p>\n<p>De facto, ela faz quest\u00e3o de o avisar que ainda est\u00e1 na piscina dos encontros.<\/p>\n<p>Quando uma rapariga menciona os seus outros encontros ou leva outros rapazes aos locais onde espera v\u00ea-lo, saiba que ela est\u00e1 a faz\u00ea-lo de prop\u00f3sito.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong><em>&#8211; Playing the victim<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Jogar a carta da v\u00edtima \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m um dos jogos mentais mais comuns das raparigas. De facto, elas utilizam in\u00fameras t\u00e1cticas que os rapazes desconhecem para se fazerem passar por inocentes em todas as situa\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<h2>20. L\u00e1grimas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80464\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-crying-next-to-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a chorar ao lado de um homem no sof\u00e1 da sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-crying-next-to-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-crying-next-to-a-man-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-crying-next-to-a-man-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When a woman doesn\u2019t get what she wants or when things don\u2019t go her way, she\u2019ll go straight to using the proven method most guys immediately fall for: crying.<\/p>\n<p>After all, who can remain immune to an innocent girl\u2019s tears?<\/p>\n<p>Bem, tenho de rebentar a sua bolha e dizer-lhe que muitas raparigas podem chorar a pedido.<\/p>\n<p>She knows that you\u2019ll forgive her or that you\u2019ll give her what she wants because no man wants to be the reason for his girlfriend\u2019s tears.<\/p>\n<p>Sadly, in some cases, her crying is nothing but a form of manipulation. It\u2019s her game and a way for her to play with your head.<\/p>\n<h2>21. You&#8217;re always guilty<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80465\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-man-sitting-in-brown-couch.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste sentado num sof\u00e1 castanho num quarto escuro\" width=\"800\" height=\"522\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-man-sitting-in-brown-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-man-sitting-in-brown-couch-300x196.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-man-sitting-in-brown-couch-768x501.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Outro jogo mental que as mulheres fazem \u00e9 o da culpa. De alguma forma, acabamos sempre por ser culpados por tudo o que acontece na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>A girl who is into playing games will rarely take responsibility for her words or actions. Even when she admits that she\u2019s made a mistake, she\u2019ll turn the tables and accuse you of provoking her.<\/p>\n<p>Either way, you\u2019re the bad guy of the story. You did something to hurt her feelings, you are the one who caused her <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/como-lidar-com-o-desgosto\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">dor de cabe\u00e7a<\/a>, and you\u2019re the one who caused problems between you two.<\/p>\n<p>No matter what happens, you\u2019re always the one who ends up apologizing. Not only that: you\u2019re also always the one who feels guilty.<\/p>\n<p>Se isto continua a acontecer na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, deixe-me dizer-lhe que esta rapariga entrou na sua cabe\u00e7a sem que o saiba.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s practically impossible for you to be in the wrong all the time. A healthy relationship is a two way street and it\u2019s time for her to take her share of responsibility as well.<\/p>\n<h2>22. Trazer o seu passado para a mesa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80466\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-pain-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com dores sentada ao lado de um homem que a consola\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-pain-sitting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-pain-sitting-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-pain-sitting-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando uma rapariga te diz que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sinais-mulher-emocionalmente-indisponivel\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ela n\u00e3o est\u00e1 emocionalmente dispon\u00edvel<\/a>, she\u2019ll probably use her past as justification.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll tell you that she\u2019s been hurt and suffered from heartache more times than she can count and that consequently, she\u2019s lost her trust in men.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll probably tell you that she is too scared to open up to you, and that she is afraid that you\u2019ll take advantage of her and abandon her when she needs you the most.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody\u2019s arguing that this girl was treated badly in the past. However, that is not an excuse for her nasty behavior in the present.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you didn\u2019t do anything wrong so why should you be the one paying for the debts left by her exes? Why should you suffer the consequences of their actions?<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t argue with the fact that she\u2019s been hurt. However, I\u2019m begging you not to allow this fact to become a weapon for her to use against you, nor see it as a justification for her bad behavior towards you.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong><em>&#8211; Using you<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Quando gostamos de uma rapariga, temos a necessidade de a proteger e de a manter segura. Muitas vezes, isso inclui ajud\u00e1-la.<\/p>\n<p>However, you have to be careful not to cross the line and not to find yourself in a situation where she&#8217;ll use your kind intentions and take advantage of you.<\/p>\n<h2>23. Fingir-se desamparado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80467\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-helping-his-girlfriend.jpg\" alt=\"homem a ajudar a namorada de p\u00e9, vestindo roupa desportiva\" width=\"800\" height=\"501\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-helping-his-girlfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-helping-his-girlfriend-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-helping-his-girlfriend-768x481.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As mulheres s\u00e3o o sexo mais fraco de acordo com os pap\u00e9is hist\u00f3ricos de g\u00e9nero.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, quando uma rapariga se preocupa com a igualdade, fingir que est\u00e1 desamparada e pedir a sua orienta\u00e7\u00e3o na vida \u00e9 absolutamente fora de ordem.<\/p>\n<p>However, this is exactly what most girls do. They use you and trick you into thinking that they can\u2019t make it without you, even though that couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n<p>If your girl is acting this way, she\u2019s actually playing with your ego. She wants you to feel like a big, macho man and tough guy near her.<\/p>\n<p>She is giving you an opportunity to take over the role of an alpha male, so you feel important when you\u2019re with her.<\/p>\n<h2>24. Pedir favores<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80468\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-inflating-flat-car-tire.jpg\" alt=\"homem a encher um pneu furado de um autom\u00f3vel durante a \u00e9poca de neve\" width=\"800\" height=\"520\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-inflating-flat-car-tire.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-inflating-flat-car-tire-300x195.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-inflating-flat-car-tire-768x499.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Pedir favores \u00e9 outro dos jogos que as mulheres fazem com os homens.<\/p>\n<p>Uma rapariga de quem gostes vai implorar-te para a ajudares nas mudan\u00e7as, para lhe dares uma m\u00e3ozinha em casa, para lhe mudares o pneu furado, para tratares do carro dela e para te tornares o seu faz-tudo pessoal.<\/p>\n<p>At first, you\u2019ll feel flattered by the fact that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-coisas-que-ele-faz-que-mostram-que-podes-confiar-nele-completamente\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ela confia em si<\/a>. She clearly sees that she can rely on you and you\u2019re glad that she counts on you.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you look at things closely, you\u2019ll see that she is not returning your favors. Most of the time, she is actually taking advantage of your kindness and is using you as a doormat.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80614\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/24-Most-Common-Mind-Games-Women-Play-On-Men-Pinterest..jpg\" alt=\"24 jogos mentais mais comuns que as mulheres fazem com os homens\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/24-Most-Common-Mind-Games-Women-Play-On-Men-Pinterest..jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/24-Most-Common-Mind-Games-Women-Play-On-Men-Pinterest.-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/24-Most-Common-Mind-Games-Women-Play-On-Men-Pinterest.-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/24-Most-Common-Mind-Games-Women-Play-On-Men-Pinterest.-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Even though they usually refuse to admit it, the truth is that women play games. In fact, in most cases, they do it more often than men. This doesn&#8217;t mean that all women are manipulative. In fact, most mind games women play on men are actually directed towards making you chase them even harder or&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":80474,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-80364","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/24-Most-Common-Mind-Games-Women-Play-On-Men.jpg",800,524,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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